[Discussion] Why are men sooo superficial?

[nasuke242]

not all of us are and the people who said that are probably just joking

 

[Voltron]

well, the best advice I can give you is to just be yourself... and be patient. someday you will find a guy who likes you for being you, not your looks.

 

[villain55]

I'm not superficial or am i? I hope your happy you got me confuse

 

[KuramasBiju]

eat a lot of junk food, go fat.... and nobody will like u since u dont have beautiful face and u have small tits... dont thank me for the advice

 

[repulse]

...superficial? Well...men aren't known for expressing their sentiments well. Our empathy is not a profound as the empathy of a woman. That, and we lust with our eyes before we feel with our heart.

 

[KirabiBakayaroKonoyaro]

some of us are superficial that much is true, but you women are even more superficial than most of the men living on this planet, for your problem however you'd be better of if you befriend a guy first and then try to climb your way out of the friendzone

 

[a banned cartoon]

bitch please..

Holy shit. This is so unexpected from you YowYan. I always saw you as one of the nicest people on the base. I read what she says, then scroll down a little to the very first post, and this. ****!n hilarious.

 

[a banned cartoon]

For some reason I have the feeling that your still to young to really know anything about the workings of this world.

 

[tristan]

I prefer dogs over diamonds :| Not all girls like diamonds.

Then its the same for some guys...some prefer brains and wittiness over their bodies...

 

[Hipster Madara]

Don't date them. Don't judge all of them because of the stupid ones. /thread

 

[Jin Hayami]

Then its the same for some guys...some prefer brains and wittiness over their bodies...

No. Not really. A nice piece of ass>a chick that can out smart me.
Take it from the divorcée. The woman always wins the argue.ents so we need to be able to pull shit off when they're not looking. Nothing sketchy mind you but the honesty thing is a lot harder to pull off than anyone can imagine.

 

[a banned cartoon]

Look I just saw a picture of you under post pics of yourself thread. I know your not having trouble getting attention from guys. Either your schools full of g@y guys, or it's an all female school.

 

[Jman1997]

You girls can be just as superficial, or even worse. -_-

 

[origin29]

Lower your expectations, guys ain't changing anytime soon

ITP: Speaking the truth

 

[origin29]

If personality was a visible trait the world would be so much simpler. But it's not so the first thing you are forced to decide when meeting someone is if you would mate with them or not based on their looks. Lets all be real here we know in the first ten seconds of meeting someone if they're gonna get friend zoned or not. If personality was all that mattered you would just end up sleeping with all of your friends.

ITP: more speaking of the truth.

 

[Strata Uchiha]

Did anyone else other than me have to Google "superficial" for it's meaning?

Eh...*facepalm* I know...I am ashamed. >_>

 

[Mihaelz]

Men are psychologically bound to the female body. Which is why it's harder for a guy to turn 'gay' than it is for a female. But I see your point. it's gotten to a ridiculous point where that's all anybody wants anymore. Personally I couldn't care less. It's not that i don't admire the female body. But I want someone I can live with. Your looks only last so long. But your personality is something that is near impossible to change. I always disliked females who believe they deserve the world for hitting a good shot on genetics game. I can tell you that even though I don't personally know what you look like, You'd be fun to hang out with. I get along with anybody. I used to be shy trust me. I'd only talk to a few but now that life hit me, It's not so bad knowing even more amazing people. All I can say is it's better to be happy with your life and fix minor things, than to change who you love to be all together.




Guys nowadays won't change. They're maturing SLOWER than we already do. Life nowadays is tough. I had a weird life in High School. I hit a good shot on the genetics game but I was that guy who did all his work and played video games with his female friends. Why? because I was happy. They can call me a nerd all they want. I'm only getting happier with my life, and getting a better than average paycheck at such a young age.



Main point of it all is; You're fine the way you are. If you're happy then go for it.

 

[Jukain]

Not being a goth and having more confidence. You gotta know that your worth more.

 

[narajacob]

The real question is why are women only attracted to or interested in superficial guys?

 

[Early Man]

I'm a girl,not verry pretty but not ugly either,and I'm verry anoyed by the fact that every guy that was or wants to be with me looks only at my body wich is funny since I have Sakura's body looks,if u know what I mean,and I don't dress as all the other girls at my sourownding (kindda slutty if you ask me) - in fact I'm a goth.... I have to admit that I am pretty shy as well so that might be a reason,but it dosn't make any sence at all to me...! I know I not the only one with this kind of problem,but Its really hard to deal with! Do you have any advices for me?

Lawls. It depends on the boy's taste. Be confident.