[Discussion] Why are men sooo superficial?

[Yagamikira]

I'm a girl,not verry pretty but not ugly either,and I'm verry anoyed by the fact that every guy that was or wants to be with me looks only at my body wich is funny since I have Sakura's body looks,if u know what I mean,and I don't dress as all the other girls at my sourownding (kindda slutty if you ask me) - in fact I'm a goth.... I have to admit that I am pretty shy as well so that might be a reason,but it dosn't make any sence at all to me...! I know I not the only one with this kind of problem,but Its really hard to deal with! Do you have any advices for me?

you know
i'm kinda liked your personality
not all man are like what you describe us thought..
don't mind them..just be yourself..heheh

 

[βeeCee]

On a serious note, coming from a woman, we can be just as superficial as men it's not fair to say it's only guys. Just because they may be attracted to you physically doesn't mean that's the only reason why. Like someone else said, just have confidence in yourself and ignore the idiots.

 

[Kikki]

Simple. Not every man only cares for the looks, not every girl likes shoes or diamonds. You just take your time to find the special someone, he is out there, believe me. I've seen some very decent people on this forum (not many but some are really okay). They are rare in the big mass of spam but they do exist and are worth coming here and posting. It's the same with love. Don't give up on meeting the right one. The result will be worth the wait.

Men are like wine, they get better with age. A 13-20 year old usually is annoying but even there are many decent characters. The number just gets higher as guys grow up.

 

[Insidious Smile]

On a serious note, coming from a woman, we can be just as superficial as men it's not fair to say it's only guys. Just because they may be attracted to you physically doesn't mean that's the only reason why. Like someone else said, just have confidence in yourself and ignore the idiots.

^ This. Female only like pritty boys, not all of them, just most of them.

 

[markdabomb22]

to step up your game my suggestion is wear a shit that says the following

For shirts
I **** on the first date

You name it i do it

For bottoms
Drop load here

bootylicious

Come here

You can thank me later guys will flock to you......just wait

 

[Merita]

So many sig-worthy posts on this thread :| I'll save all of them.

PS.: If they don't like you by inside, but by outside, it's because they're not the guys who deserve you. You'll find someone who'll like you for what you're by inside, and when you find, you'll be happy

 

[Valen]

Just stay single

And live like a God

 

[YowYan]

OT: A lot of mate's of mine look at girls as potential fuc.k buddies. But the same thing goes for some girls I know.

It solely depends on the character of the person. Being oversext is not bound by your sexuality at all, that's a hoax. I myself rarely look at girl's body. I especially stare at her eyes/face, and than later realize she's flat, which doesn't bother me in the slightest because I don't look at her with sexual toughts.

I lol'd reading the first bit of your post, so that explains the 'bitch please'

 

[Yagamikira]

told ya.
don't mind them..
don't give a shit about them..
live your life..be yourself..

 

[Aertes]

haha love ur sig... all this time i thought u were a guy because of this sig lol

thanks!!
It's kinda weird sig for a girl but I just love those slightly perverted guys..they 're so funny!!

 

[Braveknight]

Well come join us in the forever alone army. Girls are allowed also

 

[Arian]

Well i love sakura and her body! i bet you're also very beautiful and hot (implying you actually are a girl and not some guy trolling)but only can't see it yourself because of the image other people make of you.. you have to love yourself for who you are..and if you can't get along with yourself there is still the option to change. it's all in your hand..it is true that most guys(i would say99.9%) are completely *******s...even those who claim they arent. never the less there are also some very nice people out there. start loving yourself and other people will also love you. Stay strong

 

[βeeCee]

^ This. Female only like pritty boys, not all of them, just most of them.

I prefer men in face paint and have clear psychological issues. It keeps things entertaining.

 

[Insidious Smile]

Just stay single

And live like a God

Don't listen to this girl. ^ You can't live like a God, you're not a God, besides, some Gods had sons you know.

 

[Lightbringer]

Don't listen to this girl. ^ You can't live like a God, you're not a God, besides, some Gods had sons you know.

^ Don't listen to joker......he's an evil genius

 

[Yagamikira]

Well i love sakura and her body! i bet youre also very beautiful and hot (implying you actually are a girl and not some.guy trolling)but only cant see it yoirself because of the image other people make of you.. you have to love yourself for who you are..and if you cant get allong woth yourself there is still the option to change. its all in your hand..it is zrue that most guys(i would say99.9% are completely *******s...even those who claim they arent)never the less there are also some very nice people out there. start loving yourself and other people will also love you. Stay strong

this is the best answer.. a lot of thumb for you..hahah

 

[Melly]

^ This. Female only like pritty boys, not all of them, just most of them.

exactly, i usually go for the smart guy, who needs a guy with good looks when it has an IQ of a 6 year old boy :|

 

[Exaar]

To be fair, They must like Girls on the inside as well as the outside, Because thats their ultimate goal, To get inside

 

[fastest shinobi]

Who give's a .... about what anyone thinks if their judging you by look's it's better that they stay away, I'm a strong believer that their is someone out there for everyone think about yourself what you want not anyone else

 

[badoera]

Don't call us men superficial.. Not all of us are like that. Some men care more for the inside then the outside. Altho I admit that outside is important as well, the ladies sure agree with me there as well. Ladies have eyes as well you know..

If you're a goth then that's fine, having Sakura's body is fine as well.. I don't see the problem reallt i'm sure you'll find a nice guy who sees you for how and who you are