[Discussion] Why are men sooo superficial?

[villain55]

The real question is why are women only attracted to or interested in superficial guys?

Yeah exactly what I was thinking

 

[DeViliShChild]

The fact that you are goth and dress goth turns off more guys then it turns on. So people will dismiss you off that alone. Which, we all do to a certain extent. Just wait for a guy who accepts you for who you are and continue enjoying your single life in the meantime.

 

[apple pie of doom]

Men are superficial?
You girls are worse.
Look at me for example, I'm above average so to say, yet I get turned down solely because I am 6 years older.
Should'nt be much of a problem at 23 I'd say.

 

[Jin Hayami]

Men are superficial?
You girls are worse.
Look at me for example, I'm above average so to say, yet I get turned down solely because I am 6 years older.
Should'nt be much of a problem at 23 I'd say.

Half your age plus seven bro. If it ain't legal you shouldn't be going near it.

 

[apple pie of doom]

Half your age plus seven bro. If it ain't legal you shouldn't be going near it.

fun thing is, the rules count and it is legal.
Even then 18+ just turns me off.
But then again most used up girls turn me off.

 

[Naruto 2nd SO6paths]

well u'll be surprised how many non superficial guys are out there.....if you are having trouble finding them then u are just lukin in the wrong places girl.....neways FYI most men start up as hopeless lover boys who after gettin dumped by the hoes out there become the superficialists as u have so aptly mentioned....so the female *** is as much to blame as the male one.....so please get ur facts right before posting such sexist threads on a public forum such as this....u r just drawing criticism for the useless purpose of increasing posts on ur thread

 

[-Punk-]

man & women are superficial ... women a bit more

but i like good looking girls .....

 

[Jin Hayami]

fun thing is, the rules count and it is legal.
Even then 18+ just turns me off.
But then again most used up girls turn me off.

What you afraid of being compared to other guys?
Thought you were 23 so no problem.
Look best place to find girls your age that aren't turned out is a church. Its an untapped and underestimated resource.
You gotta get creative in your pursuit of quality tail my friend. Avoid the bars and search out the smart girls in college like pre med or pre law. The busy ones always get it the least and end up making the most money.

 

[spckoroma]

I would say man like an even 50/50 in a girl. well that's just me.men an women are just as bad as each other so saying one is more then the other would just be wrong. i just got married and my wife is wonderful personality and looks to so i could have just gotten lucky.(i think it was the goat i sacrificed all hail Satan) lol jk. but on a real note just be yourself and try meeting new people its like fishing you got to throw some bait out there to get a bite.

 

[Supreme x Uchiha]

EWWWWWW You're hit! Smacked! Cooked! Roasted! You must be..because if you admit to not being pretty..you AREN't pretty. simple as that

 

[Ducksauce]

i think you're just around the wrong guys swagg momma

 

[Abura Malakinos]

I'm a guy and I don't look at just the outword appearance (I probably spelled that wrong... xd) of a girl, I look at their personality as well. And I don't go for "Hottest girl out there." In fact I go for the ones that aren't that pretty but aren't ugly either. I even find goths attractive honestly, their personalities are quite unique honestly. But anyways.... I would just wait for the one that doesn't care about the outward look but also the inward. :/

 

[Ldude]

Screw this thread. Just because you're self-conscious about yourself doesn't mean you have to group most other girls as slutty.

 

[b7718]

Guys focus on looks.

Girls focus on money.

It's not the fairytale world you've been told, just except things for what they are and move on.

To those girls that are thinking "that's not me" all I say is "You're full of ...T or You're young, give it time".
To the guys that are thinking "that's not me" all I say is "You're full of ...T or You're in the closet".

 

[sG Taka]

You clearly haven't met me.

 

[Historyfan85]

Not every man here is superficial as I believe a lot of guys have mentioned before this post of mine. Yes, there are quite a few of them out there who are, but personally I look for the personality. I figure that looks aren't everything and with age they are going to fade away, but the personality will remain.

 

[endo]

Learn to spell

 

[spckoroma]

50/50 is the best way to start or atleast close to that.

 

[jdorm]

just keep an open heart and a clear head and when love gets to you and him, you both will want the best for each other

 

[Gin-San]

lol.