[Discussion] Why are men sooo superficial?

[b7718]

Oh right....

Those who have neither looks or wealth settle for the best they can get.

 

[TruthLover19]

I love shy girls and not all of the guys go after the body, a women has to have more then just her body to find a right partner,
this tip is for boys and girls especially for girls and it will really help u Trust me
Tip: BE URSELF

 

[Sephy100]

All the "feminists" are out.... Sorry to burst your bubble but men are coded to reproduce. It's been like that since the start of human time. Also, women are just as superficial. If you see a well-dressed man and a disheveled looking man on the street, who are you going to talk to? The well dressed man of course. All humans are superficial. It's also very naive of you to think that you'll meet a guy thats not with you because of your looks, not 100% looks but still looks though.

 

[Yurei]

First: We men are not all alike, not every man is like that, also, girl(at least here where i live) are very superficial, maybe more than most man, you should stop saying things like that, you girls treat us very badly, and complain about "how you can't find a man who will do anything for you", when they find, they treat us like dirt.Like i said, not every man(or girl) is the same......

 

[The Alchemist]

I'm a girl,not verry pretty but not ugly either,and I'm verry anoyed by the fact that every guy that was or wants to be with me looks only at my body wich is funny since I have Sakura's body looks,if u know what I mean,and I don't dress as all the other girls at my sourownding (kindda slutty if you ask me) - in fact I'm a goth.... I have to admit that I am pretty shy as well so that might be a reason,but it dosn't make any sence at all to me...! I know I not the only one with this kind of problem,but Its really hard to deal with! Do you have any advices for me?

For the record I think most gothic chicks are sexy as hell but that doesn't make me superficial. When you think about it we are all superficial so what's the problem?
BTW, if you're really a goth send me a pic and i'll show you how "superficial" I can be, LOL! Joking, but send me the pic just for kicks...
P.S. I'm no kidding...

 

[Two]

If you still wanna know why guys are superficial...it's instinct.

 

[b7718]

Without an initial attraction you're doomed to fail as a couple.

 

[Two]

Without an initial attraction you're doomed to fail as a couple.

ohh stf up you don't even know what you are talking about

 

[b7718]

Really??? Do tell.

 

[b7718]

I'm dying to hear what a guy who has amounted over 3,000 posts since August 2011 has to say about relationships, because clearly you've been around the block.

 

[spckoroma]

Without an initial attraction you're doomed to fail as a couple.

i would agree. you have to get some kind of pull towards them and sorry every person cant see the inner of someone at first. first is outer then get to know them you get the inner..

 

[b7718]

i would agree. you have to get some kind of pull towards them and sorry every person cant see the inner of someone at first. first is outer then get to know them you get the inner..

Agree 100%

 

[spckoroma]

Agree 100%

bro hug.........no homo

 

[Two]

I'm dying to hear what a guy who has amounted over 3,000 posts since August 2011 has to say about relationships, because clearly you've been around the block.

now thats bullshit i've been in more than enough relationships to know...
My girlfriend and i were in the same group of friends for years and i didn't find her attrractive at all and we've been going out for a while now the same with my brother and he;s been with his gf for 10 years initial attraction does not determine whether a relationship will work or not, it's different if you thinkt the person is ugly at 1st site but not being attracted doesn't mean a relationship will fail

And i hate people who think they can analyse a persons life by something as stupid as how many times someone visists a forum...you are not a prophet you are not psychic so you don't know how many girls i've sleeped with or been in relationships with/

 

[b7718]

Then take your hands off my ass haha - just playin

 

[spckoroma]

Then take your hands off my ass haha - just playin

you got a big ass. what can i say.yolo

 

[b7718]

you got a big ass. what can i say.yolo

Oh!!!!!! Snap!

 

[spckoroma]

now thats bullshit i've been in more than enough relationships to know...
My girlfriend and i were in the same group of friends for years and i didn't find her attrractive at all and we've been going out for a while now the same with my brother and he;s been with his gf for 10 years initial attraction does not determine whether a relationship will work or not, it's different if you thinkt the person is ugly at 1st site but not being attracted doesn't mean a relationship will fail

And i hate people who think they can analyse a persons life by something as stupid as how many times someone visists a forum...you are not a prophet you are not psyching so you don't know how many girls i've sleeped with or been in relationships with/

ok dont get butt hurt now everyone has there own way of dating. my way worked out i am happily married.

 

[7even]

I am not superficial. I believe in inner beauty more then anything. Yes most girl I date are very attractive and most people would see that as me being superficial but that is just them on the outside looking in. Every girl I have dated I've know for at least a half a year before we got together and every girl I didn't date was some one that I couldn't connect with on an intellectual or emotional level. You cold look like you fell out of a beauty mag and I would still have to get to know you first. I guess I'm old fashion that way

 

[Seighlinde]

Don't care what you all say, you need to have some swag. And not swag*** swag. Swag, convince, ect.