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There I linked to three, obviously I'm right now. /s
You're not getting, like most people that buy into the pay gap myth that it is a gross comparison of what women make to what men make lumping everyone together. It's not putting a man that works the same job for the same amount of hours against a woman that does the same. It doesn't factor in time off, maternity leave, or various other reasons why a woman may end up making less in a year example being working less hours. The argument itself is used on the basis that "well they're women so obviously they're just paid less."
This is explained in all of the articles I linked, but it's never taken as legitimate in these sort of discussions because "well obviously women are just paid less."
Rest of it, I'm not even going to touch mostly because **** shaming is just people being *******s to each other. This incorporates men and women. People are just *******s.