Does real love actually exist?

[Sieghmund]

Well, u know.. Romeo and Juliet

Well, u know.. That's a story.

 

[Shunsin no Shisui]

Yah it exists nd in different forms.
There can be: sexual love, spiritual love, family love, friendly love and love for an object or idea you might be interested in. If love didn;t exist, the world would be in chaos. Yin nd yang, love + hate = balance

 

[Fie94]

It does ..n there's no such a thing as "quit loving ",if u actually Love somebody u can never stop it .
i think it doesn't hav kinds ,there's one n only (what i said does NOT mean 'we'll all meet it da same ',if it looked like that i apologize )
it contains forgiveness n peace ,No forgetting !!
don't ask does love exist ,existence gets meaning by Love .
no one has discovered love ,it's love that discover ppl .
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etc ..we r complicated ,love is simple

 

[-Cerberus-]

yepp

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It does ..n there's no such a thing as "quit loving ",if u actually Love somebody u can never stop it .
i think it doesn't hav kinds ,there's one n only (what i said does NOT mean 'we'll all meet it da same ',if it looked like that i apologize )
it contains forgiveness n peace ,No forgetting !!
don't ask does love exist ,existence gets meaning by Love .
no one has discovered love ,it's love that discover ppl .
.
.
etc ..we r complicated ,love is simple

If we say it exist:
From what I ve seen love is not simple, and when you say love discover us that sound like it came from a movie man Love that discovers cant be, because there is so many people in this world without love. And there is so many people that doesnt understand it.

 

[abeluchiha]

It does bro.....dun worry watever is worrying you will be alright!

 

[Darth Wignus]

Well people experience love in different ways. I personally don't feel love the way people describe it. I been with the girl I'm with for one year now and I've known her for 6 years before that. I would do anything in life to keep her happy and I go out of my way to whatever it takes to mske her life easier and she's proven to me that she feels the same way. So I guess that's kinda like being in love.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It does bro.....dun worry watever is worrying you will be alright!

Thanks !

 

[kimi_hita]

It's only a thing of fairy tales and stupid people.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It's only a thing of fairy tales and stupid people.

and why is that if I may ask ?

 

[GUCC1GU1LTY]

of course it does, but it just wont come to you , u gotta find it

 

[ghettoninja27]

Love Exists. for with out love, hate could not exists, it is love's byproduct. The real question is when will humanity learn how to love without breeding hate. On that day my goal in life will be fulfilled.

 

[Kyuubikiller]

Love is a science not magic.

"Love" happens when two individuals have similar values, interests, and life goals meet then form life goals together.

Myths about love:
Opposites attract Maybe they do at first, then they divorce.
There is only one special person for you If that were true then the only way love can happen is if 2 in 6,000,000,000 find each other.

I don't buy homosexual love 1] Just because you're born that way doesn't mean its okay (see Autism, crack babies, etc) 2] Once Homosexuality becomes a dominate trait it can no longer can be passed down (naturally anyway)

Whoa dere!!!!

Well I'd have to disagree with the whole bolded lol You have made a biased statement based on the fact you compare some genetic traits with others. For example, ok so Autism from what we understand is genetic (as well as environmental), yes it is bad. Ok, well red hair, blue eyes, everything that makes us us is also genetic, those are not bad traits to you??? But homosexuality is?? It all depends on the person, should you cut your red hair because it's bad? no, so you shouldn't stop being what you feel.

 

[sacredjutsu]

yes it does

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

Love doesnt say that there is only one special person for you. Love describes the feeling you got for eachother, its actually cant be described. Love is not magic and it its not science in my opinion. It all comes down to if it exist or not .
My opinion btw !

 

[GaaraXSakura4eva]

GAARAXSASUKE THIS WASNT MEANT FOR YOU! i accidently replied to the wrong person. Sorry. This was meant more to Ghostofthewind. Although i agree with most things this person has said i didnt agree at all with what was said in the "rainbow post" he did. sorry for any confusion
You have a pretty biased opinion..... you are basically blaming the entire divorce rate on the fact that men cant handle their women being independent. Did it not occur to you that maybe because women are more independent they dont treat their husbands with the respect they once earned because they were the bread winners? men have ALWAYS been the independent gender and that never caused problems in the past. now that women are independent there is a 50% divorce rate? lmao then its 100% the female genders' fault. If men have always been independent and never caused problems but once women gain a teensy weensy bit of independence they start going on divorce sprees then women really cant handle any sort of power or independence at all. you say men are having an "identity crisis". while DOUBLE the women have personality and anxiety disorders than men do. That says something right there about which gender is having a problem.... And if you dont believe that statistic google it. That was just a lash at your logic... but that isnt my opinion on the matter. Its a mutual effort that causes relationships to either work or not.
Considering love? i liked what the guy said about how love is like religion which is very true. Love exists just like hate does. However, you would be surprised just how fast hatred could turn into love or the other way around. Why is that? because Love and hatred only exist in your head. Meaning love and hatred arent a force that just float in the air and shoot an arrow at you and your significant other and you fall head over heels in love. Love isnt what "mostly women" make it out to be. Some kind of selfless acts of unbelievable loss for your significant other..... thats false. Love is just a feeling you get. If love were a deciding factor in all our relationships then i would have been with the same women since i was 5. because that was the first time i fell in love. so to speak.... its just a feeling. Some women LOVE money and will "love" any man they see has that money. Some men LOVE big asses and will fall in "love" with any women who can give them that ass..... Love is a misconception..... You love some1 when they meet your needs from that certain person or gender or role. You love your mother because she gives you the caring you need and want from a mother. you love your father because he gives you the security you need. It depends on your motives. Love is just an emotion that accompanies you when you see someone who fits your wants and needs in another person. And hatred is when that person isnt what you want or need.... That is pretty much it. If that person has what you want. That is what decides if you feel love when you see that person or not. Interesting right? that explains why poor people usually stay single or have high divorce rates while rich people seem to fit the needs of many women... it shows you why beautiful women have LOADS of guys who claim they are in love with her while a cripple wont have anyone following her. If love actually flew around and infatuated us then wouldnt the cripple find someone too? She doesnt meet the needs the male gender expects from a women... just like how the poor garbageman doesnt meet the needs of the women of society. Just count how many women are in love with justin beiber now although they havent even seen him in person..... why is that? because he fulfills the ultimate goal of humanity. Being known by all, famous, and basically being the envy of mankind. just a couple thoughts to think about. Have a good day guys

Even though this is directed at GhostoftheWind, this is entirely wrong.

What you just stated is lust not love. In my quote that you used, I further explained myself.

Lust = Selfish

Love = Selfless

Lust is not only sexual. Lust is an unhealthy obsession of a person or thing. Lust is the cause of people dehumanizing and devaluing people (or things).
What you just mentioned is lust!!! If a person told you that you are not worthy of them because you don't measure up to their standards (or in many cases lack thereof), you are a victim of lust.

For example, let's say you like a girl. You both meet and hit it off pretty well. You realize that you've been overspending with her and decide to start saving because you really want to buy a car. You tell her this, hoping she understands that you can not afford to spoil her in such a way. You try to make up for less spending by doing other things, like picnics in the park instead of an expensive restaurant or something like that. All the sudden, she seems to be too busy to spend time with you, call you, or really anything with you. Eventually she breaks up with you, and you find out she's dating some other guy who is richer than you (or whom parents are richer than yours). You feel hurt and violated.

This girl never loved you. She lusted for your money. She doesn't love the new guy that she is with. She lusts for his money. Don't fall into the trap of believing there was something more to it than that, nor should you blame yourself. Many people do this, though.

This just an example that may be more familiar to you. Not all girls are like this because not all girls are taught to be so superficial. However, you need to understand that in this world young girls are taught that their looks and a guys ability to make bank are the only important things for her. I was unfortunate to be subjected to such foolishness, but I was lucky enough to have male and female role models to intervene before that foolishness poisoned my innocent heart. However, not all girls are as lucky as me.

As a guy, you should be offended by a lot of the garbage that goes on in the media and such. If I were a guy, I would definitely tell Hollywood to kiss my @$$. You have to understand that this society is poisoning so many good things. For example, it is poisoning love. This society wants you to think that love is fulfilling your own desires and reaching your own happiness. I have already explained that this is LUST, not LOVE.

DON"T LET THIS FOOLISH SOCIETY CONFUSE YOU AND LEAVE YOU BITTER!!!!!!

Yah it exists nd in different forms.
There can be: sexual love, spiritual love, family love, friendly love and love for an object or idea you might be interested in. If love didn;t exist, the world would be in chaos. Yin nd yang, love + hate = balance

There is only one kind of love. There are many ways to express it, depending on who is the receiver of your love.

Love involves the whole person, not just emotions. I don't understand why it's so hard for you all to get!!!

 

[Cursed Prince]

Yes love exists but only because we believe in it

 

[Fie94]

If we say it exist:
From what I ve seen love is not simple, and when you say love discover us that sound like it came from a movie man Love that discovers cant be, because there is so many people in this world without love. And there is so many people that doesnt understand it.

maybe they hav it but they don't know(see) wat they hav ..when u r so near to something u don't really understand it or u don't c da need of understanding it ,isn't that why when we lose something so near to ourselves we understand how dear it was ?../btw Just wanted to remind u :

(what i said does NOT mean 'we'll all meet it da same ',if it looked like that i apologize )

think of it as an exam with an only one question n a full mark ,an easy question like "what is your name ?"..i'd write my name with every language i know to get da full mark of course ,da more u write on da answer sheet da more unclear n complicated it will get ..but da answer is simple ,isn't it ?it's da mark that's so high
some pure ppl will write their name in their own language without thinking about da result n some don't ..they both might get da full mark but u can c da difference in da answer sheets .
none of them gonna be alike cause none us r alike ..i didn't say we all will meet Love in a simple situation ,but i said love is simple ..they (situation n Love itself) r so different (wat u can c from this distance is da complicated situation not da simple Love )
i'm short in vocabulary so i'm using examples ,srry ..

 

[Pretium]

True Love Is Being Devoted To Someone And Caring For Them No Matter What, Even If They Don't Deserve It,

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

maybe they hav it but they don't know(see) wat they hav ..when u r so near to something u don't really understand it or u don't c da need of understanding it ,isn't that why when we lose something so near to ourselves we understand how dear it was ?../btw Just wanted to remind u :

think of it as an exam with an only one question n a full mark ,an easy question like "what is your name ?"..i'd write my name with every language i know to get da full mark of course ,da more u write on da answer sheet da more unclear n complicated it will get ..but da answer is simple ,isn't it ?it's da mark that's so high
some pure ppl will write their name in their own language without thinking about da result n some don't ..they both might get da full mark but u can c da difference in da answer sheets .
none of them gonna be alike cause none us r alike ..i didn't say we all will meet Love in a simple situation ,but i said love is simple ..they (situation n Love itself) r so different (wat u can c from this distance is da complicated situation not da simple Love )
i'm short in vocabulary so i'm using examples ,srry ..

Hehe I understand mate But different opinions