Does real love actually exist?

[KyoshiroSenju]

How can you know this is an illusion and not real love? You describe it in the same way but put a different name on it.

Because love is just a biological urge to make men/women stay together so they can breed and keep the next generetion going..when you get married you start "loving" that person than few years later you dont you just respect that person..so is like wat you call love was never there just respect the whole time but the brain make you think that you were in love that it was magical, sweet,sensational and a symbol of happiness..but it never was.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

Because love is just a biological urge to make men/women stay together so they can breed and keep the next generetion going..when you get married you start "loving" that person than few years later you dont you just respect that person..so is like wat you call love was never there just respect the whole time but the brain make you think that you were in love that it was magical, sweet,sensational and a symbol of happiness..but it never was.

I have seen plenty of couples that act the same after many years so cant agree with you there . If it exist, is something that everyone should decide for themselves. Thats what I have learned from this thread.

 

[KyoshiroSenju]

I have seen plenty of couples that act the same after many years so cant agree with you there . If it exist, is something that everyone should decide for themselves. Thats what I have learned from this thread.

Well im not here to change ppl opinion of love this is just my opinion my belief.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

Well im not here to change ppl opinion of love this is just my opinion my belief.

Hehe, I understand

 

[Kill Me]

Hello! For me, love is created by our hormones & neurotransmitters. That's the time that you fell in love when this stuffs are being stimulated. What's important is that if there's no more love, atleast you're still best of friends

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

Hello! For me, love is created by our hormones & neurotransmitters. That's the time that you fell in love when this stuffs are being stimulated. What's important is that if there's no more love, atleast you're still best of friends

What love is this ? x) magic, science or were do you put it ?

 

[Wildtangent]

it exists but hard to find and even harder to keep.

 

[Shunsin no Shisui]

Dude if you love this thread, then it exists xd

 

[Necron]

Love does exist... Anyone who has been in love, can tell... It's just that, sometimes, love is not enough to make a relationship work. Distance, Secrets, Unsecurity... All those can destroy a relationship.

The worst thing is when you are friends with a girl, and you start having some feelings for her, but you can't do something, because you do not want to risk your friendship with her...

 

[xxlesliexx]

Love does exist... Anyone who has been in love, can tell... It's just that, sometimes, love is not enough to make a relationship work. Distance, Secrets, Unsecurity... All those can destroy a relationship.

The worst thing is when you are friends with a girl, and you start having some feelings for her, but you can't do something, because you do not want to risk your friendship with her...

Love is all about risk. Dont wait to till its to late to tell her. I have dated and remained friends with guys after we split. And on the secrets there should never be any secrets or anyone hiding things. Everything should be open if a relationship is to work.

 

[Requiem]

Oh oh can't you see
Love is the drug, got a hook in me
Oh oh catch that buzz
Love is the drug I'm thinking of
Oh oh can't you see
Love is the drug for me​

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

The worst thing is when you are friends with a girl, and you start having some feelings for her, but you can't do something, because you do not want to risk your friendship with her...[/QUOTE]

I agree with you here, friend zone sucks !

 

[oooog]

Love is knowing all about a person and liking them anyway

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

Love is knowing all about a person and liking them anyway

If say in that way, I think it should be more like Love is knowing everything about a person, and accept them anyway

 

[obscoral]

nope

 

[harshal84]

First of all, this can't be an uncommon thing. There must have been many people falling in love even with their prostitutes, and them loving back. By prostitutes I assume you mean escorts seeing as you live in the UK.

I advise that while with her, you get her in a serious, but not too serious, sort of attitude, and say in a way that seems as if you wont be too hurt if she doesn't love you back, that you think that you've fallen in love with her. You will soon get your answer from her in that way.

If you both do decide to have a relationship, I do hope that you aren't expecting her to give up her profession, and that you won't look down on her or put any pressure on her about what she does, because she may like it, it may be her profession of choice. I've heard of women with very high qualifications and high employability choose that as a job simply because they enjoy it, and want to enjoy their work.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

First of all, this can't be an uncommon thing. There must have been many people falling in love even with their prostitutes, and them loving back. By prostitutes I assume you mean escorts seeing as you live in the UK.

I advise that while with her, you get her in a serious, but not too serious, sort of attitude, and say in a way that seems as if you wont be too hurt if she doesn't love you back, that you think that you've fallen in love with her. You will soon get your answer from her in that way.

If you both do decide to have a relationship, I do hope that you aren't expecting her to give up her profession, and that you won't look down on her or put any pressure on her about what she does, because she may like it, it may be her profession of choice. I've heard of women with very high qualifications and high employability choose that as a job simply because they enjoy it, and want to enjoy their work.

So you say its real then ?

 

[Amantius]

So you say its real then ?

U_U Still don't know why the title states does real love actually exist, it should be called do adults get to pick who they want to be with or does the parents fk it all up and make them think retarded shit.

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

U_U Still don't know why the title states does real love actually exist, it should be called do adults get to pick who they want to be with or does the parents fk it all up and make them think retarded shit.

In my country the parents doesn have a saying in who you should love or be with.Norway. The name of the thread is because real love is different from just being with a person because they both look good. ¨But I have seen many couples that claimed to be in love, but hten breaks up. So I wonder does it exist?

 

[Amantius]

In my country the parents doesn have a saying in who you should love or be with.Norway. The name of the thread is because real love is different from just being with a person because they both look good. ¨But I have seen many couples that claimed to be in love, but hten breaks up. So I wonder does it exist?

The truth is it exist only when you truly want it to be. if you make it 5 years and having problems why not work it out and go for another year? Why not see what each of you and do better to make the situation more sustainable. Honestly its the ones that try to stop you that truly loves you.
And yes parents opinion and influences a person choices