Does real love actually exist?

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It's our Hypothalamus governs our autonic nervous system.. it's the one that signals Love and Hatred.

Yet again, our Heart has nothing to do with love.....

If love exist then I would think that the heart got everything in the world to say. If you got hurt, or have a bad feeling you dont ffeel that in your brain ? :p
 

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True love exist D:
It's a horrible feeling ~_~
 
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People see the world in different ways, and reality in subjective. For some it does, for some it doesn't.
 

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It's our Hypothalamus governs our autonic nervous system.. it's the one that signals Love and Hatred.

Yet again, our Heart has nothing to do with love.....

from a scientific standpoint you are right!!
 

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You dont have to be with some one to love them. Some people love each other very much but can get alone no matter how much they want. And one or both maybe just to hard headed to say they were wrong or sorry so therefore they never make up and stay split. Does not mean its not love. Just means they find other things to put above love. Love is complicated. Just because two people love each other doesnt mean they will stay together forever. They both have to work and give to the relastionship or it will be forgotten and pushed a side. Just like everything else in live i ts needs tender loving care. If you plant a flower and dont tend to it, it will die. Love grows as the two people grow. If love is put on a shelf and the other just says well you know I love you even though i dont show it. Love will still feel neglected and unwanted and will leave.

[FONT="Impact"[FONT="Courier New"]]Mel, this is not totally true at all.

Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.[1] Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection —"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others or oneself based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.

That being said, does real love exists? to the Op of this thread it depends on whither the two fight for it. For example, if the person at the start of the relationship worry's about what other people think of her being with the love which the person starts worrying about her "image" out of being judge by others, that's not love.

If the person has a tendencies to leave in small arguments or the silliest things instead of working it out, then that person has no passion for the relationship to sustain which means they are not sure what they really want. But really to answer your question, you have to look for the signs to really know for sure. [/FONT]


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It does... In anime. Unless both partners believe it's real, it's real. If the partners would walk across the desert for you, that's true love. But no one actually would do it. So.... My depressing opinion says no.
 

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[FONT="Impact"[FONT="Courier New"]]Mel, this is not totally true at all.

Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.[1] Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection —"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others or oneself based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.

That being said, does real love exists? to the Op of this thread it depends on whither the two fight for it. For example, if the person at the start of the relationship worry's about what other people think of her being with the love which the person starts worrying about her "image" out of being judge by others, that's not love.

If the person has a tendencies to leave in small arguments or the silliest things instead of working it out, then that person has no passion for the relationship to sustain which means they are not sure what they really want. But really to answer your question, you have to look for the signs to really know for sure. [/FONT]


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You just said weither the two fight for it or not. In your example you show her, Where is he? what has he done? And what may seem small or silly to a man may be huge and important to a woman. As a man he should comfort her, understand her. They as a couple should work things out.
 
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It does... In anime. Unless both partners believe it's real, it's real. If the partners would walk across the desert for you, that's true love. But no one actually would do it. So.... My depressing opinion says no.

If you think about walking across the dessert for someone thats like giving your life for someone. I would do that, so fail in your theory in my opinon:)
 

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talking about love already means love exsist
 

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Is it just a myth?

I know plenty of people that say they are in love. Grown ups say they want to marry each other, but what they say doesnt seem to be true, when they just quit "loving" eachother one day.

Please dont comment if you just want state that this thread is stupid . xd ;)

i've felt it before so it must be real
 

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It's our Hypothalamus governs our autonic nervous system.. it's the one that signals Love and Hatred.

Yet again, our Heart has nothing to do with love.....

Are you sure it's the Hypothalamus and not the Amygdala?? They are both part of the Limbic system which consists of several different parts of your brain, but I'm sure the Amygdala is the cause for emotional responses such as fear, hate, love and sexual desires.

In a study done at Shippensburg University, overstimulation of the Amygdala in animal subjects caused excessive emotional responses, while removal of the Amygdala altered emotional responses, giving the animals a flat affect, so in a since, if your Amygdala was damaged, you would be emotionless or unable to respond appropriately to certain situations.
 

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I may be full of hate. But I think it exists, chances are though you have better odds getting struck by lightning 3-4 times and then winning the lottery (assuming you survive the lightning strikes) then finding true love or anything remotely close to it.
 

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How is it an illusion ?

Love is an illusion created by human so they dnt feel lonely in this world..falling in love is a blind biological urge in us -love is basically an illusion which pull men and women together to breed have children and continue the next generation..emotion arise from desire, hence an illusion.
 
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Love is an illusion created by human so they dnt feel lonely in this world..falling in love is a blind biological urge in us -love is basically an illusion which pull men and women together to breed have children and continue the next generation..emotion arise from desire, hence an illusion.

How can you know this is an illusion and not real love? You describe it in the same way but put a different name on it.
 
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