Does real love actually exist?

[soulreaper11]

yes it does look around love is real <3

 

[~ You Know Who ~]

If you think it dsnt....then,
GET A LIFE!!

 

[Aero]

And i thought that i had entered a narutofan base...
Seriously what is wrong with all recent posts,all they r about love,marriage and other non required stuff,these are not things to be discussed,they r persobal life matters,wantin opinion on them from sumone who u havent even met is stupidity

 

[lazarus611]

this ^
love exist as u said about marriage,then listen hitler said true fact of life and love

"boys and girls get in love cause of misunderstanding
but they broke up when they understand eachother"

Hitler knows nothing about the feelings of "boys and girls" for each other. He was a closet homosexual as were all the members of his inner circle (FACT). His childhood filled him with pain (he was the unwanted illegitimate offspring of an ultra-rich jewish banker [Rothschild] and a German housekeeper). This pain turned to hatred leaving little or no room for love. It is a well-known fact that he never once had *** with Eva Braun.

 

[Kikyo]

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^ I 100% agree with this. xd

 

[imadnemeir]

it exist for those who want it to exist

 

[Ghostofthewind]

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Science (from Latin scientia, meaning "knowledge") is a systematic enterprise that builds and organizes knowledge in the form of testable explanations and predictions about the universe.[1] In an older and closely related meaning (found, for example, in Aristotle), "science" refers to the body of reliable knowledge itself, of the type that can be logically and rationally explained

It doesn't matter if u all believe it's real or not U_U something that is real can not stop to exist because no one believes in it...
Does love exist U_U Yes
Do true lovers fight U_U Yes
Do they later make up U_U Yes
IS love complex U_U Yes
In the world Today there is more of lust than love which are closely similar & hard to know which is which

You can't even form a proper sentence so I doubt engaging you is worth it, but I'll try anyway.

Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love:

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These are the main elements of love according to Sternberg. You can see Consummate love is the best because it has Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. People who have Consummate love are said to have the most successful relationships.

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People pick people like themselves.

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"Opposites at times do attract, but people who
share similar ideologies not only attract,
but tend to have longer lasting and more
harmonious relationships than those who
do not (Buunk & Bosman, 1985; Lemay,
Jr., & Clark, 2008)."

People tend to fall in love when they have:

• Similar education backgrounds
• Similar levels of attractiveness
• Similar personal values
• Similar cultures
• Similar senses of humor
• Similar self-esteems and self-concepts

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from a college class on the social psychology of love and attractiveness.

With his data you can form this theory: If you take Male A and match him with Female B who has similar levels of education, physical attractiveness, values, cultures, and humor it is likely Male A and Female B will fall in love.

eHarmony operates under this theory. They released these results in 2004
"over 90% of eHarmony couples had marriage quality scores which were above average when compared to couples who had begun their relationships elsewhere. eHarmony couples were more than twice as likely to be in highly successful marriages than non-eHarmony couples. Not only are eHarmony couples 35% more likely than other married couples to report that they enjoy spending time together, but we found they are nearly twice as likely to report that their marriages are 'extremely happy' or better versus other recently married couples."

Love is a science. When S = similarities Male*s + Female*s = love.

Is that systematic enough for you? Scientific Menthod:

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Observation: Married couples
Theory: Similar people attract and have better relationships
Prediction: If male A and female A have similarities they will attract
Experiment: eHarmony

 

[Sasunarufan13]

I believe love exists, but I don't believe in true love *shrugs* My family and friends call me pessimistic for it, but then again, they call me crazy for a few other opinions of mine too *shrugs*
So love exists, but not true love in my opinion

 

[assasinitachi123]

Love exists man,....
girls are like trains... many a times you will get on a wrong train.... but you need to find the right train.... and when u find it u will discouver true love....

I already got mine...

 

[stylow]

I didn't feel it with my girlfriend neither did i feel it when i kissed her q-q so i think its just something when two people are ....... ehh i just don't know i'm just 15 so i think it will come later or so

 

[KakarotLee]

I believe it does, when you have love for your family that is true love. When you learn to love someone youve been dating for a good while like he or she is your family then I believe that is true love. So yes, love does exist, its just keeping that fire alive to make it last on both sides.

 

[Itachi2304]

GAARAXSASUKE THIS WASNT MEANT FOR YOU! i accidently replied to the wrong person. Sorry. This was meant more to Ghostofthewind. Although i agree with most things this person has said i didnt agree at all with what was said in the "rainbow post" he did. sorry for any confusion
You have a pretty biased opinion..... you are basically blaming the entire divorce rate on the fact that men cant handle their women being independent. Did it not occur to you that maybe because women are more independent they dont treat their husbands with the respect they once earned because they were the bread winners? men have ALWAYS been the independent gender and that never caused problems in the past. now that women are independent there is a 50% divorce rate? lmao then its 100% the female genders' fault. If men have always been independent and never caused problems but once women gain a teensy weensy bit of independence they start going on divorce sprees then women really cant handle any sort of power or independence at all. you say men are having an "identity crisis". while DOUBLE the women have personality and anxiety disorders than men do. That says something right there about which gender is having a problem.... And if you dont believe that statistic google it. That was just a lash at your logic... but that isnt my opinion on the matter. Its a mutual effort that causes relationships to either work or not.
Considering love? i liked what the guy said about how love is like religion which is very true. Love exists just like hate does. However, you would be surprised just how fast hatred could turn into love or the other way around. Why is that? because Love and hatred only exist in your head. Meaning love and hatred arent a force that just float in the air and shoot an arrow at you and your significant other and you fall head over heels in love. Love isnt what "mostly women" make it out to be. Some kind of selfless acts of unbelievable loss for your significant other..... thats false. Love is just a feeling you get. If love were a deciding factor in all our relationships then i would have been with the same women since i was 5. because that was the first time i fell in love. so to speak.... its just a feeling. Some women LOVE money and will "love" any man they see has that money. Some men LOVE big asses and will fall in "love" with any women who can give them that ass..... Love is a misconception..... You love some1 when they meet your needs from that certain person or gender or role. You love your mother because she gives you the caring you need and want from a mother. you love your father because he gives you the security you need. It depends on your motives. Love is just an emotion that accompanies you when you see someone who fits your wants and needs in another person. And hatred is when that person isnt what you want or need.... That is pretty much it. If that person has what you want. That is what decides if you feel love when you see that person or not. Interesting right? that explains why poor people usually stay single or have high divorce rates while rich people seem to fit the needs of many women... it shows you why beautiful women have LOADS of guys who claim they are in love with her while a cripple wont have anyone following her. If love actually flew around and infatuated us then wouldnt the cripple find someone too? She doesnt meet the needs the male gender expects from a women... just like how the poor garbageman doesnt meet the needs of the women of society. Just count how many women are in love with justin beiber now although they havent even seen him in person..... why is that? because he fulfills the ultimate goal of humanity. Being known by all, famous, and basically being the envy of mankind. just a couple thoughts to think about. Have a good day guys

No, I didn't go off topic. I wanted to make sure that readers understood the difference between love and lust because so many people are convinced that it is the same thing.

As I said before, love involves emotions, but is not one. Love involves the whole person, not just emotions, and it involves both people.

As I said before, love is a series of selfless choices. You make choices every day that shape the person you become. You can choose or not choose to communicate with your significant other.

I never said that love is a sport. Love is a lifestyle. Your thoughts become words. Your words become action. Your actions shape the person you become, aka lifestyle/commitment. If you have commited yourself to a person or belief, it becomes your lifestyle. This is why mature people tell you not to rush relationships. It is not a race. There are no rewards or trophies for rushing through the physical things, ignoring the emotional things, and confusing the mental things.

You are making this more complicated than it really is. Once a person truly understands what love is, he/she realizes this. The hard part is taking the words and turning them to actions. It's easy for a person to say that he/she will stick by someone through thick and thin, but turning these words into actions is the hard part. The parallelism between words and actions is where commitment is, which shapes that person's lifestyle.

 

[Itachi2304]

First off i would like to thank you for having that very attractive women while she dances . that made my day XD. I agree 100% with what you said right there. Well done. Love is a science. And everything you said is 100% true. Actual psychologists came up with those theories. And honestly can anyone really deny what you just said up there? When two people feel they have the same level of attractiveness, meet each others needs, and have similarities (which is a need in its own sense) then tehy will instantly feel this feeling they call love. However when the opposite happens they will feel loath and hatred. like i said earlier. its why rich men are capable of obtaining unlimited amounts of women while a garbageman cant even muster one woman. He doesnt meet the needs of the majority of the opposite gender. Its ironic because the higher ups KNOW that love is a science and the feeling can be manipulated with ease. That is how they get all that money off of us ignorant people lol. have a good day dude and i love your logic. Extremely logical

You can't even form a proper sentence so I doubt engaging you is worth it, but I'll try anyway.

Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love:

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These are the main elements of love according to Sternberg. You can see Consummate love is the best because it has Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. People who have Consummate love are said to have the most successful relationships.

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People pick people like themselves.

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"Opposites at times do attract, but people who
share similar ideologies not only attract,
but tend to have longer lasting and more
harmonious relationships than those who
do not (Buunk & Bosman, 1985; Lemay,
Jr., & Clark, 2008)."

People tend to fall in love when they have:

• Similar education backgrounds
• Similar levels of attractiveness
• Similar personal values
• Similar cultures
• Similar senses of humor
• Similar self-esteems and self-concepts

Here's an

You must be registered for see links

from a college class on the social psychology of love and attractiveness.

With his data you can form this theory: If you take Male A and match him with Female B who has similar levels of education, physical attractiveness, values, cultures, and humor it is likely Male A and Female B will fall in love.

eHarmony operates under this theory. They released these results in 2004
"over 90% of eHarmony couples had marriage quality scores which were above average when compared to couples who had begun their relationships elsewhere. eHarmony couples were more than twice as likely to be in highly successful marriages than non-eHarmony couples. Not only are eHarmony couples 35% more likely than other married couples to report that they enjoy spending time together, but we found they are nearly twice as likely to report that their marriages are 'extremely happy' or better versus other recently married couples."

Love is a science. When S = similarities Male*s + Female*s = love.

Is that systematic enough for you? Scientific Menthod:

Spoiler

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Observation: Married couples
Theory: Similar people attract and have better relationships
Prediction: If male A and female A have similarities they will attract
Experiment: eHarmony

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It exists. And it's a blessing, even when it hurts. Not everyone will experience it in their lifetime because some people have hearts and minds filled with malice and that is the reality they've defined for themselves. Those who tell you it doesn't exist, are probably speaking from a position of pain (don't judge them). Love is hard to define because it can't be quantified but it has a few unmistakable defining characteristics. TEST: If someone loves you, (1) they'll make sacrifices for you and (2) they'll do anything to avoid causing you pain. If these two conditions are not present, what you're witnessing or experiencing is not love (try not to confuse desire with love even though the two sometimes go hand in hand).

If thats love then I love a lot of people. Is love magic or is it a state of mind? or non of them

 

[Nocturne]

Whats not to believe...
WHen someone talks to you in a happy manner or a manner thats shows care...its called love..in anywayz...
its something else if you donot realize which is love and which is not.... learning about that is a part of our lives..

 

[Swizzik]

It exist to those who have the heart to experience it. "God is love".

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If God = love and God doesn't exist does that mean Love doesn't exist?

 

[Mante]

Well, u know.. Romeo and Juliet

 

[FinalRasengan]

Love is out there man its real. I personally never experienced it. but Ik its there somewhere.

 

[minatoisagod]

yes it does its just abstract and metaphysical which makes it complicated and seem unreal.

 

[Sieghmund]

No.