Does real love actually exist?

[NarutoVsGoku]

it had all of that, until a situation occurred and trust began shift left.

exactly!!!!! I took everything so serious and when i was mad I would blow her off completely, she was the exact opposite

yep not call, no text, she would blow up your phone and you would ignore it, let it go to voicemail. the 5 years was on and off wasnt it?

and she would continue to try to get in touch with you and could never understand why you wouldnt just tell her what was wrong. she would ask you "are you mad?". you get pissed if she asked that?

you explain to her i need space to think and she took it waaaay too personal..

let me know if i got anything wrong..

It is a special class that is offered once every four semesters at my university called Love, Agape and Altruism. I took Mental Hygiene (basically group therapy) and Old Testament one semester and the next semester I took Love, Agape, and Altruism and New Testament. That year changed my life.


I'm tired and I don't want to get too deep into it. You have trust or you don't. Regardless of what happened that made trust shift, it did not have trust. By your own declaration it was not a healthy relationship. There is nothing to regret about an unhealthy relationship. You deserve a healthy one. Good luck.

im jealous.. a class like that sounds interesting, are they philosphy classes or pyschology?

 

[blazekev90]

It is a special class that is offered once every four semesters at my university called Love, Agape and Altruism. I took Mental Hygiene (basically group therapy) and Old Testament one semester and the next semester I took Love, Agape, and Altruism and New Testament. That year changed my life.



I'm tired and I don't want to get too deep into it. You have trust or you don't. Regardless of what happened that made trust shift, it did not have trust. By your own declaration it was not a healthy relationship. There is nothing to regret about an unhealthy relationship. You deserve a healthy one. Good luck.

well thanks.

yep not call, no text, she would blow up your phone and you would ignore it, let it go to voicemail. the 5 years was on and off wasnt it?

and she would continue to try to get in touch with you and could never understand why you wouldnt just tell her what was wrong. she would ask you "are you mad?". you get pissed if she asked that?

you explain to her i need space to think and she took it waaaay too personal..

let me know if i got anything wrong..



im jealous.. a class like that sounds interesting, are they philosphy classes or pyschology?

wft?!? exactly how it went man, you know everything haha

 

[Aze]

Love is nothing more than a feeling or sensation = your body will produce certain chemicals in your Brain and in your organs = and by your "opinion" you define this sensation as = Love.

If you are human being , then you can only experience love with your senses = There is nothing more to talk about out of the boundaries of your humanly senses.

and that's a fact.

If you think there is something out of the boundaries of your senses = Then that person is dillusional or in a delirium or in a worst case mentaly ill.

Hope it helped^^

:scorps:

 

[Nikohru]

Real love exists.

 

[xlilyx]

As Nikohru put it simply, Real love does exist. As there is false love and love which is only a lie, real love must exist then.

 

[Aze]

Real love exists.

Love excists...but it's only a Biological/Psychological condition = It's not a Supernatural Phenomena or something like this.

It just is.​

 

[Ldude]

This is a question that only you can answer for yourself. People will always give you different answers, and you really shouldn't rely on those.

 

[-Sky-]

Yeah, I guess.

 

[Chojuro Sama Kun]

It's real

*Pretends like Naruto*

Belive It!!

 

[quinaboy13]

yep I know people who are in love

 

[Fearmonger]

It does in the bible.

 

[true enigma]

It exist to those who have the heart to experience it. "God is love".

 

[oooog]

Love is a science not magic.

"Love" happens when two individuals have similar values, interests, and life goals meet then form life goals together.

Myths about love:
Opposites attract Maybe they do at first, then they divorce.
There is only one special person for you If that were true then the only way love can happen is if 2 in 6,000,000,000 find each other.

THIS^^^ you learn to love another thru selfless actions on each part. love isn't a twinkle in the eye thing.

 

[Shadowolf of the night]

thanks .. lol another pysch major huh? cool you still studying or graduated?

but yea we all in some form or another had a bad relationship or one that didnt work. hopefully you'll get over it one day, maybe you just gotta meet the right person

I dont think anyone can fully "get over" a past love. theres always going to be that little part of you that will miss him/her.

 

[Kamikage]

Yeah I am convinced of that two, but I just wonder why people can so easy "delete " you from there life.

Humans only "delete" each other from each others' lives because they might have been in such shock and denial that they've lost someone that special and couldn't handle that they couldn't have each other anymore...

Love might not exist and could just be a word, but that word describes that feeling we all know we've felt (even if just for a split-second). Even those that say it doesn't exist. It's because THEY want to know how "love" feels...

 

[RAMENATOR]

It depends on what your definition of love is. There are also different types of love. There are ways that you can "love" someone a lot, but not have a romantic interest in them.

My guess is that your wondering if romantic love truly exists, well, again, it still depends on what counts as love to you. For me, love is not thinking of your own wants and ambitions. It's taking the other person's needs into consideration and putting them above yourself. Love requires you to be willing to sacrifice many things: hopes, dreams, physical objects, preferences, etc... You can't think only about what you want because if you only do the things that you want to do, the other person will not be a part of you. Love is a commitment to another person; it involves deep devotion and respect. The moment your devotion of respect for the other person wavers, is the moment you will experience deep pain.

If that's somewhat how you view romantic love, then it's hard to say if it truly exists. In the current trends of today's society, I'm hard-pressed to say that there are many who think like I do and the odds of two people have the same amount of interest in another to make a lifelong commitment seem quite low. However, I do my best to stay optimistic and work towards the best.

 

[Kamikage]

It depends on what your definition of love is. There are also different types of love. There are ways that you can "love" someone a lot, but not have a romantic interest in them.

My guess is that your wondering if romantic love truly exists, well, again, it still depends on what counts as love to you. For me, love is not thinking of your own wants and ambitions. It's taking the other person's needs into consideration and putting them above yourself. Love requires you to be willing to sacrifice many things: hopes, dreams, physical objects, preferences, etc... You can't think only about what you want because if you only do the things that you want to do, the other person will not be a part of you. Love is a commitment to another person; it involves deep devotion and respect. The moment your devotion of respect for the other person wavers, is the moment you will experience deep pain.

If that's somewhat how you view romantic love, then it's hard to say if it truly exists. In the current trends of today's society, I'm hard-pressed to say that there are many who think like I do and the odds of two people have the same amount of interest in another to make a lifelong commitment seem quite low. However, I do my best to stay optimistic and work towards the best.

Wow... *applauds you* U_U

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It depends on what your definition of love is. There are also different types of love. There are ways that you can "love" someone a lot, but not have a romantic interest in them.

My guess is that your wondering if romantic love truly exists, well, again, it still depends on what counts as love to you. For me, love is not thinking of your own wants and ambitions. It's taking the other person's needs into consideration and putting them above yourself. Love requires you to be willing to sacrifice many things: hopes, dreams, physical objects, preferences, etc... You can't think only about what you want because if you only do the things that you want to do, the other person will not be a part of you. Love is a commitment to another person; it involves deep devotion and respect. The moment your devotion of respect for the other person wavers, is the moment you will experience deep pain.

If that's somewhat how you view romantic love, then it's hard to say if it truly exists. In the current trends of today's society, I'm hard-pressed to say that there are many who think like I do and the odds of two people have the same amount of interest in another to make a lifelong commitment seem quite low. However, I do my best to stay optimistic and work towards the best.

Good answer! Mhmm... I wonder why?.. If we say real love exist, why is there just a small amount of people who understand it and can love in the way you describe

 

[MilwaukeegHost]

It depends on your beliefs. My belief:

God = Love
God = Exists
Love = Exists





-gHost Senju, K.U.S.H. Sage

 

[sasuke uchiha94]

It depends on your beliefs. My belief:

God = Love
God = Exists
Love = Exists





-gHost Senju, K.U.S.H. Sage

If you belive in god is it normal to love a person more than him ?