My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me

Parrish

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Dudes really giving out relationship advice on here? lol
 

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neither are you Niggeer
Didn't you spell that non correctly because you're missing teeth and wanted it to sound the same as it does when you normally say it?

Nice delete pussy.
 

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Even the most tranquil of individuals have moments where they lose themselves; OP be Irate. - Parrish
 

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Bad place to tell this to most of us are gay n alone

Yahoo answers better
 

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just move on ... try to forget it , by doing stuff , like , playing , something new , go to your friends to the beach , etc etc , really something new , just enjoy life with the people that you have.
 

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Every situation, no matter how bleak, has it's positive and negative aspects. I'm going to save you a giant ear full, because you'll get a ton of those as time progresses. The negative here is obvious, you lost someone you love and you don't know if you'll get her back. It's terrible, I've been through it myself and I haven't really been the same since. Moments like this define us and even shape us as a person for the better, which would be a positive of this situation. Another positive thing about this is, you didn't propose yet. What if she were to accept your invitation to be soul mates then weeks after the marriage she decided it wasn't meant to be? Better you know now while your heart isn't as invested as it could be.

It's going to suck, and you're not gonna be over her for a while. But time goes on, and you'll find someone for you.

You sir sound most mentally sane in this post.
 

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By what you say, she probably felt controlled or that things were going too fast for her pace. She probably saw the ring coming and felt it was all too much for her! Give her time or you will find another. Life seriously goes on! It may seem like it is all over now but you got to give her space and give yourself space. Don't dwell too much on it and don't call her or text her constantly (not saying you will) then she won't want to get back! That will make her feel smothered! Point is give space between y'all! That is most likely what she meant and maybe this will be good for you as well! Go out and experience what life is without her! And if it was meant to be yall will find your way back to each other! In the meantime be happy and have fun! Live!

YoLo, i totally agree that she "mightve" felt smothered with affection like a kid constantly trying to pick up a puppy that wants space to run. Sometimes spontanious action of change of character might be of help. If she notices you ease off the effort of being a panzy you could get a better response. In this position sooner or later youll learn to surpress all anxiety of feeling like you need her in your life. She needs to feel the want to miss you. If yall really shared a concious bond let her mind decide if she wants to suck your chode again. Anyways Main point, do whatchu gotta do. Best "advice" work on getting stacks an question your mentality. Develope your jitsu on some real ninja shhh. True love may never fade an gives the worse void if lost, but theres a endless possibility of something new right around the street called hope.

ps i hope my high thoughts helped in any odd way
 

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Fuk her sister/mother/aunt/bestfriend.

Or do sports and hang out with your friends.
You'll get over it.
 

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These things happens just need to learn to move on with life , who knows you will have everything you want and a girl far better than one who left you , will be with you .
 

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Relationships are overrated, such a pain in the ass. I prefer being single, no regrets whatsoever.
 

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Hmph, hopefully you get no more girlfriends and die alone like a lonewolf.
 

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Nah m8, go to 4chan. You will fit right in :)
And post your story there too, you will get alot of advice on what to do. Brakeups are hard, but 4chan will help you get through it ;)
 
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