My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me

[Joker]

I may sound corny, but it gets better. I've had my feelings crushed one time, and it was depressing, but you stay strong and surround yourself with people who make you happy. Then, watch a bunch of movies on Netflix, it's great

 

[Crossroads]

Here is my reinforcement, listen to him.. Veritas will have you questioning your sexuality.

Veritas will have someone questioning why they're on the planet.

 

[TheAncientCenturion]

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Some people just don't know how to have a good time

 

[Crossroads]

Some people just don't know how to have a good time

It's late and I'm kinda tired, so you like Big Time Rush.. Willy???

 

[TheAncientCenturion]

I like being drunk on mountains; Mang. Music doesn't even phase me when I am out of it

 

[Europa]

Veritas giving relationship advices? LOL

Didn't you like buy all your relationships?

Right? Everyone in the Black Knights got their premium bought by him, most of them at least. Reminds me of Nebula buying premium for all his friends constantly, they used poor ol' Nebs.

 

[Callypigia]

This thread is officially derailed, and I think the guy who started it has gone to bed.

 

[Atalaya]

Oh I'm sorry. :-(​

 

[Lana Del Taka]

This thread is officially derailed, and I think the guy who started it has gone to bed.

Probably listening to Lana Del Rey. That's the good shit.

 

[Sageflash]

Every situation, no matter how bleak, has it's positive and negative aspects. I'm going to save you a giant ear full, because you'll get a ton of those as time progresses. The negative here is obvious, you lost someone you love and you don't know if you'll get her back. It's terrible, I've been through it myself and I haven't really been the same since. Moments like this define us and even shape us as a person for the better, which would be a positive of this situation. Another positive thing about this is, you didn't propose yet. What if she were to accept your invitation to be soul mates then weeks after the marriage she decided it wasn't meant to be? Better you know now while your heart isn't as invested as it could be.

It's going to suck, and you're not gonna be over her for a while. But time goes on, and you'll find someone for you.

Thank you, bro. This ring true, these tribulations we face shape us as people.

That sounds bad. I wish I had an advice but I don't besides everything goes off with time. The best[SUB]

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That'll work, my friend. Thanks for your time.

Just know it's not you who let her slip away. No matter how much you blame yourself, it's not your fault. For whatever reason she decided to leave, she'll always have the memories and so will you. Memories are good. But you can't stay bound to them. You have to store them in the back of your mind and make new ones with a different girl. If everyone stayed with their first love, they wouldn't have the chance to meet that special someone who came and healed your broken heart. You'll find someone like that.

Yeah, I'm not the one who broke this. That actually really helps with that aspect, knowing I didn't cause this pain for us.

Damn, that sucks bro you had a ring and everything. All I can say is let time heal the wounds, and soon you'll find a girl who will love you all day.

Yeah... I just... I can't really put it into words how I feel now. Somewhere between acceptance and defeat. Like emotional purgatory.

Give the ring to a girl who actually deserves it
I'm sure you'll find the right girl.

Quite true, any girl who turn her back on me like this after all we've been through and weathered together... that's not a girl I want to give my heart to, no matter how much it hurts.

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Alcohol is your friend. Live off of it, depend on it. Be loyal to it until the day you die.

At least alcohol doesn't betray you and mislead you like this.

hop off from a naruto forum for personal advice.
smh

Hop off my thread if you're gonna be like this. Seriously. This isn't the time or place for these kinds of shenanigans.

 

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Right? Everyone in the Black Knights got their premium bought by him, most of them at least. Reminds me of Nebula buying premium for all his friends constantly, they used poor ol' Nebs.

Even his big sis, Kevin. Poor lad.

 

[LustyLover]

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[Lana Del Taka]

Thank you, bro. This ring true, these tribulations we face shape us as people.

That'll work, my friend. Thanks for your time.

Yeah, I'm not the one who broke this. That actually really helps with that aspect, knowing I didn't cause this pain for us.

Yeah... I just... I can't really put it into words how I feel now. Somewhere between acceptance and defeat. Like emotional purgatory.

Quite true, any girl who turn her back on me like this after all we've been through and weathered together... that's not a girl I want to give my heart to, no matter how much it hurts.

At least alcohol doesn't betray you and mislead you like this.

Hop off my thread if you're gonna be like this. Seriously. This isn't the time or place for these kinds of shenanigans.

Are you listening to Lana Del Rey.

 

[iNotorious]

I have been through this few times and the only advice i can give is, let your mind go blank, if you have her on facebook, twitter, kik, whatsapp, delete her.

Just try to move on, don't think too much about her, go out with friends.

 

[Sageflash]

This thread is officially derailed, and I think the guy who started it has gone to bed.

I don't think I'll be sleeping much tonight. I was just on the phone with her trying to understand what is happening. But I am logging off now, I need some water and some air.

Oh I'm sorry. :-(​

It's okay. Thanks for your words.


I appreciate the thoughts, NB. I know ultimately I have to handle this in my own way and deal with these emotions myself, but most of your posts helped me rationalize things and put it all in perspective. I'll probably post more updates as they come along, venting like this is oddly helpful... later, guys.

I have been through this few times and the only advice i can give is, let your mind go blank, if you have her on facebook, twitter, kik, whatsapp, delete her.

Just try to move on, don't think too much about her, go out with friends.

Thanks, bro. Letting myself go numb is a good idea

Are you listening to Lana Del Rey.

I'll give it a try, just for you.

 

[Lana Del Taka]

I don't think I'll be sleeping much tonight. I was just on the phone with her trying to understand what is happening. But I am logging off now, I need some water and some air.

It's okay. Thanks for your words.


I appreciate the thoughts, NB. I know ultimately I have to handle this in my own way and deal with these emotions myself, but most of your posts helped me rationalize things and put it all in perspective. I'll probably post more updates as they come along, venting like this is oddly helpful... later, guys.


Thanks, bro. Letting myself go numb is a good idea

I'll give it a try, just for you.

"just for you"? I'm guessing you won't be listening to it.

 

[iNotorious]

Thanks, bro. Letting myself go numb is a good idea

Maybe you should watch some slice of life, it can make you feel better and smile.

Or some good funny movies.

 

[The Exception]

I've never had a break up that bad i'm sorry. My worst one was when my girlfriend broke up with me last year after the best year i've ever had. I gave her some time, 2 months to be exact and she came back. We tried again but it just didnt work out, a week later it was over. Time heals all wounds bro.

This^^. Yeah I was In a similar position OP, I refused to listen to anyone's advice about moving on and all that. Bc I thought she would be the one, plus I would keep living in the past about how good things were back then. Biggest mistake. Best thing to do is to go and meet new women, trust me you'll be glad in the long run. Also get involved in a lot of activities and hangout with your friends a lot. Like this guy said^^ Time heals wounds. Hope this helps any!

 

[90sKids98]

If she left you after three years for that kind of a reason..... She's Definitely not the one. I dont really have much to say though other than Hope you get through this soon and find a real girl that will love you unconditionally.

 

[Rainbow Dash]

Right? Everyone in the Black Knights got their premium bought by him, most of them at least. Reminds me of Nebula buying premium for all his friends constantly, they used poor ol' Nebs.

The nigga bought us premiums on his own decision.