If your Child was being bullied, how would you deal with it

[Commander Axe]

That's if I get caught, which is unlikely. It would be super thought out but he'd be scared straight.

But you mentioned the kid's name....if he reports that someone robbed him and uttered your sons name it'd be a bit troublesome on your part.

 

[loj]

Hmmm I see, but if it's outside the school grounds its no longer a school issue, thats actually a crime where the police now has authority not the principal which will just get that person you asked for help thrown in jail.

So what the **** is principal doing? He is a ***** too then.If u aren't able to protect a kid from being bullied then what the **** is he? Principal should be the first who would expell the bully from school.

 

[Unorthodox]

tell him to fight back if he gets that ass whooped he get that ass whooped the boy not gone phuck with him again though that happened to me i got beat up before but my bully stopped bullying me because he knew i fight back.

 

[Exaar]

Teach him to fight back.

If i ever have kids i will tell when from a young age to stand up for themselves and others if their being bullied. My dad used to offer my brother and me money if we stood up to people who bullied us. Win or lose a bully doesn't like those who fight back.

My dad is quite a short bloke and was in his teenage years, all the older boys picked on him and he beat the shit out of them and they left him alone after that.

 

[Angelic.]

talk to the school and parents. if that doesnt work then teach my kid karate xD

 

[Melanin]

It depends, there are different degrees of bullying. If its physical or if my child's space is being violated continuously I would take it to their parents and if that doesn't work my child would walk to school with a brick in their hand ready to do damage. Most of these kids that prey on other kids just need a legit as$ whopping, I mean a black eye kind of as$ whooping that's embarrassing.

If its regular kid sh!t like teasing then I would talk to my child and reiterate how meaningless insults or negative connotations about looks or anything extior are, especially coming from a child. But if it becomes over bearing I would speak to a person of authority over the child bullying mine (teachers, parents & principles) and after exhausting that, I would go to their superiors.

 

[Commander Axe]

So what the **** is principal doing? He is a ***** too then.If u aren't able to protect a kid from being bullied then what the **** is he? Principal should be the first who would expell the bully from school.

You'd be surprised at the amount of schools that don't give a f*ck. It's sad. I do notice its being taken more seriously these days which is good, but there's still a high amount of it going around.

 

[loj]

You'd be surprised at the amount of schools that don't give a f*ck. It's sad

Then I would rekt the principal too personally.Problem solved.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

But you mentioned the kid's name....if he reports that someone robbed him and uttered your sons name it'd be a bit troublesome on your part.

They would ask my kid what happened and he'd have no clue. I mean it's not like my kid did it and I wouldn't tell my kid or wife.

Plus like I said it would be thought out. I would throw the bullies stuff in a dumpster somewhere. I mean why would I keep the stuff? There goes the evidence. Cops don't try that hard.

 

[Commander Axe]

Then I would rekt the principal too personally.Problem solved.

lol nothing good like fcking up a principal, hell i'd probably throw a punch in if the principal didnt give a damn if my child was getting hurt, probably go to jail but fck it.

 

[nefraiko]

I would train him, teach him to not fear to get hit by the others, then send him to settle his problems.
this is a huge lesson and some of the most precious things I could give him, the power and will to beat fear and to settle his own problems. That's what every parent should do.

 

[Commander Axe]

They would ask my kid what happened and he'd have no clue. I mean it's not like my kid did it and I wouldn't tell my kid or wife.

Plus like I said it would be thought out. I would throw the bullies stuff in a dumpster somewhere. I mean why would I keep the stuff? There goes the evidence. Cops don't try that hard.

true, in such a case a few questioning would happen but then the investigation would be dropped. I guess yours is a solution then, a lot of work but pays off nonetheless

 

[-immortal-]

Shoot the kid in the head.

Simple and easy , done.

 

[Stant]

i teach the kid what the human race is all about

 

[Commander Axe]

Shoot the kid in the head.

Simple and easy , done.

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i teach the kid what the human race is all about

Your gonna procreate with him?

 

[Romezio]

I'd teach my kid how to choke so when the bully tries to mess with him my kid'll choke him till he passes out... or teach him to dodge so he never gets touched.

 

[Cfighter]

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I take it to the proper authorities and end the bully's career cause HIB laws. Seriously, schools take this bullying shit deadly serious.

That's laughable. I don't know what grade we're talking here, but I know that in high school if someone's being physically bullied the school will suspend both the bully and the victim. Doesn't matter if the victim never rose a finger in self defense, if the school sees a fight the system doesn't do a damn thing to investigate. Just suspends them both without question.

Now, while I'm at it, for the topic at hand. Again, it helps to know what grade we are talking here. So I'll try to generalize this.

If you're the parent in this scenario, I can tell you that the last thing you want to be is "that parent" that tries to take action for their kid. You know, "that parent" who makes a big deal out of everything, always going to school board and demanding this and that every time little Johnny comes home with a black eye. Maybe even relocates little Johnny to a different school. Contrary to what most parent's believe, that only gives the bullies satisfaction. Doesn't matter if the bully gets in 'trouble' by their own parents, or even the school. The little shits just know that they hold that much power over your kid. Because that's all bullying comes down to: a power play.

Now, if you're the kid in this scenario, again bullying comes down to a power play. As such the simple thing to do as the victim is to not give the bully any power over you (though how this is done differs with what grade/age we're talking about). Though one similar tactic across all ages would be to surround yourself with friends. As the saying goes, "there is power in numbers". Often a bully will surround himself with a group of little shit heads for this same reason, so why shouldn't you?

Different ages of children will call for different appropriate reactions to bullies as I stated, so it really depends on how old the kid in question is.

 

[-immortal-]

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Your gonna procreate with him?

Or i would give my kid an option.


1.You either fight he bullies btch ass

2. Or you get hit at school for being a dumb nerd, and at home for being a giant pussq

Grow up motherfk* this is not disneyland

 

[Sir Francis Drake]

I would train him, teach him to not fear to get hit by the others, then send him to settle his problems.
this is a huge lesson and some of the most precious things I could give him, the power and will to beat fear and to settle his own problems. That's what every parent should do.

Why not just get him into boxing? Its simple to pick up and probably easier than trying karate in a street fight.

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

I'd dress up as a kid, bully the bully, then bully my child until he mans up.

OT: I'll tell the bully to gtfo, and teach my kid to stop being a p*ssy, and put him in some sort of fighting class.