If your Child was being bullied, how would you deal with it

[Pumpkin Ninja]

I've only actually seen teasing bullies, irl, though.

 

[Multiply]

Just tell the kids teachers and shit.

 

[Commander Axe]

A well placed kick to the balls and/or shin and a punch to the throat oughta do the trick. Most bullies pick on people for the power, people they feel won't fight back. Lots of times, showing fight discourages the bully.

lol no argument there, if your child shows enough hostility then that should do the trick

If the bully had that much of an influence that he could monopolize the entire school, then that's just a corrupt school system in place. And the unfortunate reality is that situations like that do happen, which only serves to speak for our actual broken school system. Across all grades.

At that point, it would be best to involve the police. And it probably would be best to remove your child from the school as soon as possible, because the school system would have to be damaged to the point where they would either be tolerant of such a dictatorship, or be ignorant of one. And both scenarios are worse than the other.

The key thing to note in that more extreme situation, would be that as I mentioned before, middle school is a very taxing time period for a child. And relocating your kid would only add more problems to a very long list of problems that you very well may not even be aware of, because again, its around this time the child stops confiding everything in the parent. Extreme solutions like moving a child to a different school could potentially damage the relationship between parent and child, depending on circumstances.

Anyway, that's just my food for thought =D

Ah I see where your coming from, I agree that giving those circumstances, relocating will end up being your only option, and hell your child might even appreciate what you did even if he/she doesn't show it. While your relationship might be temporarily damaged, in the long run your child will probably be grateful

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

A well placed kick to the balls and/or shin and a punch to the throat oughta do the trick.

Lol that reminds me of this. Bobby goes around kicking bullies in the nuts, does work.

[video=youtube_share;tJl3ZAg6mj0]http://youtu.be/tJl3ZAg6mj0[/video]

 

[Punk Hazard]

Lol that reminds me of this. Bobby goes around kicking bullies in the nuts, does work.

[video=youtube_share;tJl3ZAg6mj0]http://youtu.be/tJl3ZAg6mj0[/video]

"Tell your parents how you won your fight."
"Which one?"

That's goals tbh

 

[BlacLord™]

You don't teach the child to hit back; that brings them down to the same level.

You train them to handle people and situations in a swift, honourable manner. You teach the child to block and to grapple to the ground, if the bully tries to hit. And if the bully tries using words as a weapon, you teach your child to deflect petty emotional digs and use wit to humiliate the bully publicly.

If it were my child, I would've encouraged it from an early age to learn and train in such things under my guidance anyway.

 

[Dark Sonic]

I'd confront the parents first. If it doesn't work then he/she will fight back.

 

[Pyro NB]

Teach my kid Brazilian Jui Jitsu and various MMA techniques then let him or her go back and tear the ligaments in the bullies shoulders leaving him unable to use their arms.

 

[To Whatever]

A well placed kick to the balls and/or shin and a punch to the throat oughta do the trick. Most bullies pick on people for the power, people they feel won't fight back. Lots of times, showing fight discourages the bully.

I do not recommend punching a mofo in the throat unless you trying to kill him. I've experienced that first hand and seen it 2 more times after that.

 

[Punk Hazard]

I do not recommend punching a mofo in the throat unless you trying to kill him. I've experienced that first hand and seen it 2 more times after that.

Maybe the side of his neck. Or just his balls

 

[SoulKiller]

"If he hit you, you hit him back"

preach!!!

"an eye for an eye"

it dont matter. if he runs and cries to mommy he'll never get respect.

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[Akuma]

it dont matter. if he runs and cries to mommy he'll never get respect.

Mother of the year

 

[Punk Hazard]

it dont matter. if he runs and cries to mommy he'll never get respect.

You'd rather your kid place themselves in a confrontation that will cause them harm than come to you so you can solve a problem beyond his control but in yours in order for him to gain shallow respect from children he won't see after middle school and even fewer after high school and will have generally no roles in his entire adult life? The **** is wrong with you?

 

[Monxstaa]

Adults should interfere with kids fighting.

 

[-Punk-]

Well for starters I would tell him not go shoot the school or the bully, because would make him a weak coward. Then, probably tell to him solo him with words, you know pull an Armin. If that doesnt work tell the school.

 

[ultraChalk]

I'm never going to have this problem because I'm going to make sure my child is a strong person, mentally and physically.

But for the sake of the thread if it did, I tell my child to fight back.

 

[slimreaper]

e) Other

I take it to the proper authorities and end the bully's career cause HIB laws. Seriously, schools take this bullying shit deadly serious.

I'd handle it like whitey bulger/ johnny depp did in black mass

Lol @ riker. Yeah kicking someone in the balls will totally end the bullying. It definitely won't create more..

 

[Ciao]

make my child a 'nutella' sandwich
actually mixed in chocolate laxatives with the nutella
bully steals lunch
eats the laxative sandwich
kid shits his pants

 

[Kyandii]

I've always been taught to fight back, so I will definitely teach my kid to do the same thing. If the size difference is too big and there's no chance of winning through physical combat, then I guess I would try to verbally abuse that shit! It's more painful anyway.

 

[Venomous Cobra]

"If he hit you, you hit him back"

This.

I'd be watching for him after school, if he/she gets real and defend him/herself, even if they loses the fight I will do everything to help them out, even if it requires sending him/her to a different school. If they stay quite however, I will tell them to man the **** up first.