[Debate] Do looks matter, does background matter, does personality matter, does brain matter?

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XD Never change who you are, remain that! You're a cool guy. Girls usually stick to a guy like you
I will never want to change this very best side of me, I'm on a mission: to prove to everyone one can be successful in life without being an ******* :score:
And for the girls meh, they see innocent guys as friends more than other
 

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I will never want to change this very best side of me, I'm on a mission: to prove to everyone one can be successful in life without being an ******* :score:
And for the girls meh, they see innocent guys as friends more than other
Lol nope young girls think like that. But girls in their 20s in my experience are in a gold rush looking for innocent non douche guys like you
 

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I wish the same to you too. =D

Btw 19 atm. about to turn 20 next month, so kind of young, but not really young. I feel old as shit though, lol
Thank you:)

You should take off that shit from your mind and enjoy your youth. :)

Like the wise men say

" You can never be old and wise

If you are never young and crazy"


Fill your youth with craziness. Its the only human life we got. :)
 

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Thank you:)

You should take off that shit from your mind and enjoy your youth. :)

Like the wise men say

" You can never be old and wise

If you are never young and crazy"


Fill your youth with craziness. Its the only human life we got. :)
not every young man is crazy, and not every old man is wise
and not every young man becomes old, what do you do if you die young ? do you die crazy ?

in history their are some great people who made great deeds before their 30 years, and for some, before 20 years.
we have a great general in our history who had 16 years, a great tactician.

yes, looks do matter, natural selection :D
 

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not every young man is crazy, and not every old man is wise
and not every young man becomes old, what do you do if you die young ? do you die crazy ?

in history their are some great people who made great deeds before their 30 years, and for some, before 20 years.
we have a great general in our history who had 16 years, a great tactician.

yes, looks do matter, natural selection :D

Yes we don't know when you gonna die so enjoy as much as you can rather than waiting for it and what does death have to do with crazy? You misunderstood the meaning of crazy.:|

Well history is not what I'm talking about. Yes History got great people. That doesn't prove that they never did at

least one crazy thing in their life. :)

Well its your opinion and I mentioned this quote to uplift that guy's mood not to create some debate. :)

Nothing matters to me as I have decided not to ever marry. Idk whenever I think about it I get a feeling that we won't be together for long.
Well someone read my mind :)
 
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She must love Madara, Sakura, and Kakashi:ls:
She must hate Sasuke, Itachi, and Hashirama:flirty1:
She must also learn that Goku>Superman:blush:
Complicated. I was ok with love Madara and Kakashi, but Sakura in the middle was so random, so it make you a seletive and picky one.

plus need to hate sasuke itachi and hashirama... why hashirama bro? and all sakura fans like her because she is sasuke maid so i think you'll stay single forever, sorry.
 

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Looks + personality is what matter.

Personality is the most important in a commited relationship. I would not want to marry and have children with someone who has really different values from mine, or happily share a house with someone with a boring personality that makes me irritated.

Looks matter, i can't have *** with someone who i can't feel atttracted. On the other hand, sometimes I didin't give a crap to some guys at first sight, but talking and hanging out with them in a daily life, I fell in love.


background doesn't matter so much. If he doesn't have a nice family, but don't agree with their values, just distance himself from them.


Brains ... I already dated a guy au corant, he was unbearable, arrogant, annoying. So I like a smart guys, but not those academicians who just know to repeat formulas, and border on arrogance even because arrogant people are stupid and insecure in truth. I already dated a guy who was kind of silly, and it was cool, intense, It endend, because he didn't add anything. But today I believe simplicity and people who take it easy are the best partners.



I like people with sense of humor and who can laugh at themselves. When you see the sense of humor of the person, you know the level of intelligence of them. Intelligence doesn't always have to do with the level of culture, but but how the information is processed and what they do with the knowledge acquired.

Everyone can buy a diploma, decorate and repeat formulas... the difficult is to understand and properly question the placed concepts .



It's definitely a mixture but it's personality more than looks. Don't wanna be rude but they can't be completely ugly.

Like you said sometimes being dumb can be cute, but if she's so dumb she becomes cringe worthy then nope. Also, sometimes there's a shallowness associated with the stupidity. I don't really like shallow people.
Yeah, that's my problem with dumb people.. most people who are dumb are common sense, led by what others say, and has childish concerns....

That said, i already dated a guy who was somewhat '''dumb", but was good hearted and was really pretty. I fell hard for him: we thought alike and we laughed the whole time until our bellies hurt. When we are together, it was as if we were drunk.


But over time I began to get annyoied with him because i missed a conversation with substance. For him everything was "ok", the world was wonderful, I was wonderful, in conversation he always agreed with me, and treated me very well. In the end, it seemed that I was dating with a cute and smiling pole.


Of course that was not the only problem that the relationship was over, and I kept liking him for a long time. On the other hand, he was not cringe worthy, just was not particularly intelligent.
 

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I think what matters most is how they treat you and the people who surround you (your friends, family, etc)
Background does not matter. Looks only matter to an extent. As long as YOU think they're attractive, that's all that matters.
 

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Personally I've given up going after girls now , it doesn't work for me and now I'm been comfortable with my own skin and guess what I'm doing better with girls anyway l gonna mull this over a bit .

looks does matter somewhat i mean if that girl or woman's appearance compliment yours that's a good thing as you may regret it in long run if you settle for less

and background must be checked not for wealth or money just to make sure you not go for a girl that have psychopaths or sociopaths in her family ( as upbringing normally affects person's personality though some might go against it ).

and what matters most is the personality without it one might go through a boring relationship and that includes intelligence as well ( personally relationship won't last long with me if that person can't keep up with me at least been smart enough as my brain work in some whole other level Lol )

lastly when you try and find someone to spend your life with or just for a relationship it's your hearts desires that dictate it and how much logic or rationalism you applies to it your heart is what that going to win it at the end .
 
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