[Debate] Do looks matter, does background matter, does personality matter, does brain matter?

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In a relationship, you gotta keep engaging with your love one.

So yes looks are important as it wants you to engage with that someone.

only THEN will personality would play a role.

Because personality would keep you engaging with that someone.

Else it'll be a one night stand or friendzone.
 

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Anime and Itachi ? XD

I just want my partner (not wife) to be

Less emotionally attached

Practical and Independent
Who doesn't give a **** about love relationships
Believes in short and sweet pleasures
Loves to fight
And the most Important thing
Shouldn't give a **** about me and my affairs.

Looks and other shit doesn't interest me. :)
Sounds like you're trying to get cheated on. Honest question, you've ever been in a good relationship? Better question, have you ever been in a bad relationship? Because half of those things is how you have a bad relationship.
 
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It's definitely a mixture but it's personality more than looks. Don't wanna be rude but they can't be completely ugly.

Like you said sometimes being dumb can be cute, but if she's so dumb she becomes cringe worthy then nope. Also, sometimes there's a shallowness associated with the stupidity. I don't really like shallow people.

One person said they don't want someone too clingy, but I don't think I would mind that unless it made me question their sanity. Just shows how much they wanna be with you.

Oh, and I'm not really good with small talk so common interests like anime would help.


Who am I kidding? Forever alone too T_T
 

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Sounds like you're trying to get cheated on. Honest question, you've ever been in a good relationship? Better question, have you ever been in a bad relationship? Because half of those things is how you have a bad relationship.
Nah Hachiman is still a young one growing up. I don't think she's over 15...
 

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Too be completely honest, looks are the first thing I look for. I'd be lying if I said their personality or interests were primary to me. I usually date people based on looks and most of those relationships end because those people turn out to be complete shallow *******s with shitty attitudes. But in all my cases, a pretty face and a nice bod overrides all that <3. I feel like I'll never learn, but you know what they say; Ignorance is bliss. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
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Sounds like you're trying to get cheated on. Honest question, you've ever been in a good relationship? Better question, have you ever been in a bad relationship? Because half of those things is how you have a bad relationship.
you've ever been in a good relationship?
Nope never had any love relationships.

Love is never a thing for me. I decided after seeing my friend committed suicide for it. I only

look for short term like FWB or FaF which I consider *** as a stress reliever nothing else.

have you ever been in a bad relationship? Because half of those things is how you have a bad relationship.
Nope because refer to the above quoted one. :)

Those are actually my qualities and I want my partner to be like me. Luckily I found one and I'm happy with the way things are going. :)
 

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Those are actually my qualities and I want my partner to be like me. Luckily I found one and I'm happy with the way things are going. :)
I was going to say that things aren't going to work out for the long term, but short term is what you're going for. Prolonged happiness is what I'm looking for, but everyone's different. I'm guessing you're younger than me. You do you. :cool:
 

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I was going to say that things aren't going to work out for the long term, but short term is what you're going for. Prolonged happiness is what I'm looking for, but everyone's different. I'm guessing you're younger than me. You do you. :cool:
To each their own. I consider long term happiness is your Parent's love and nothing else. :)
But I respect your opinion and I hope you find peace and happiness in your heart forever. :)
Well I don't know it depends on your age whether I'm younger or older. :)
 

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To each their own. I consider long term happiness is your Parent's love and nothing else. :)
But I respect your opinion and I hope you find peace and happiness in your heart forever. :)
Well I don't know it depends on your age whether I'm younger or older. :)
I wish the same to you too. =D

Btw 19 atm. about to turn 20 next month, so kind of young, but not really young. I feel old as shit though, lol
 

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She must love Madara, Sakura, and Kakashi:ls:
She must hate Sasuke, Itachi, and Hashirama:flirty1:
She must also learn that Goku>Superman:blush:
 

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You sort of have this Phil Dunphy vibe about you though :)
Lol I take it as a compliment xd I'm considered quite of a nice guy, so I was planning to open a YouTube channel as soon as I find a job and can afford a good camera

I wish the same to you too. =D

Btw 19 atm. about to turn 20 next month, so kind of young, but not really young. I feel old as shit though, lol
Lol the same exact shit that happens to me, it's just post adolescence bro, let's wait we become one or two years older and we will recognize again that we're actually young as hell
 
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