can a single mom raise a boy to be a man?

[Da Best Ever]

Leonardo Da Vinci, a illegitimate son born outside marriage ..... Imagine the situations he had to face yet look at his achievements.

That has nothing to do with what you learn from a male figure. Your accomplishments are a result of your doing not what someone else has instilled in you. I'm sure he had male role models growing up, whomever guided him in the direction of his great deeds.

 

[Da Best Ever]

Leonardo Da Vinci, a illegitimate son born outside marriage ..... Imagine the situations he had to face yet look at his achievements.

That has nothing to do with what you learn from a male figure. Your accomplishments are a result of your doing not what someone else has instilled in you. I'm sure he had male role models growing up, whomever guided him in the direction of his great deeds.

 

[Da Best Ever]

i agree with most of what you said lol

I know you do and others do to.


I exist to know all.

 

[Da Best Ever]

i agree with most of what you said lol

I know you do and others do to.


I exist to know all.

 

[Blubbit]

Science does not know the " human factor ". Science measures tangible things, not the intangible traits of humans. Also it does make a difference.

The sciences in question is psychology and sociology, which both surround the "human factor".

 

[Blubbit]

Only a man can teach a man what a man needs to do. I know it hard to understand but its not easy to explain. Its not a thing about traits like Draphsin said its more of life lessons that a man has been through and things that only men are suppose to do. A mother can teach her son how to be a gentlemen like Draphsin said but a woman cannot teach a child how to be a man. You would get an immature grown ass boy who leeches off others and is lazy. A man takes care of business, knows what hard work is and goes and get it by any means. Men don't make excuse, men accept reality and does what is needed to be done. Yes a woman can have these characteristics but its very few women out of the 4 billion that exist that have those characteristics. In general woman don't have those characteristics but some do and are forced to be that way because of the hand they were dealt in life. Hope this helps

Never have I ever seen so much narrow mindedness lol. Do you miss having women in the kitchen?

Personality traits aren't genetic.

 

[Anorien16]

That has nothing to do with what you learn from a male figure. Your accomplishments are a result of your doing not what someone else has instilled in you. I'm sure he had male role models growing up, whomever guided him in the direction of his great deeds.

Well my provocation worked it seems .... You immediately assumed that he MUST had a male role model who guided him

Unlike what you said in you earlier statement single moms doesnt 'an immature grown ass boy who leeches off others and is lazy' (Though such spoilt brats is dominant in Rich Families with mostly high income Dads + sheepish moms though ... ) ..... Women also knows hard work (without recognition often), emotional control, dedication, handling situations etc which you seem to think exclusive to 'men' only .... We are talking about regular real life moms. Not TV show diva teen girls.

 

[Da Best Ever]

Never have I ever seen so much narrow mindedness lol. Do you miss having women in the kitchen?

Personality traits aren't genetic.

I didn't say anything bad about a woman, my point specifically was towards a man, to put words and a false opinion in my mouth shows your ignorance.

 

[Da Best Ever]

Never have I ever seen so much narrow mindedness lol. Do you miss having women in the kitchen?

Personality traits aren't genetic.

I didn't say anything bad about a woman, my point specifically was towards a man, to put words and a false opinion in my mouth shows your ignorance.

 

[Blubbit]

yea but people are saying that boys actually learn mostly from a male role model and not his mother, so you think its not that much true?

So a select few people's opinions here are greatee than research? Or your opinion is greater than mine and the ones raised by single mother's? My opinion ia my opinion, but research is greater than a opinion, especially one that relies on gender stereotypes.

 

[Red Beast of Konoha]

It might be a bit difficult at times, but yes.

 

[Da Best Ever]

Anorien16 are you blind or did you pick out things in my post to read instead of reading the whole thing. I clearly said woman have that characteristic of hard work...smh silly as kids trying to make themselves look good by fabricating others statements. Ignorance

 

[Blubbit]

I didn't say anything bad about a woman, my point specifically was towards a man, to put words and a false opinion in my mouth shows your ignorance.

I didn't say you said anything bad about women. I said your statement was narrow minded. So tell me, why would they become lazy and leech-like? Because the mother would raise them to be? Or the mother wouldn't teach them otherwise?

 

[Da Best Ever]

Anorien16 are you blind or did you just choose to read part of my post instead of the whole thing? Both most likely

Anyway I clearly said women have the hard work trait as well but you failed to acknowledge that but instead you tried to make yourself look good by fabricating my statement...smh ignorance is in abundance these days

 

[Da Best Ever]

Anorien16 are you blind or did you just choose to read part of my post instead of the whole thing? Both most likely

Anyway I clearly said women have the hard work trait as well but you failed to acknowledge that but instead you tried to make yourself look good by fabricating my statement...smh ignorance is in abundance these days

 

[Blubbit]

I didn't say anything bad about a woman, my point specifically was towards a man, to put words and a false opinion in my mouth shows your ignorance.

If was regarding the women in the kitchen thing, that was a joke. I don't have any real reason to believe you think that.

 

[Vandenreich]

A mother is perfectly capable of raising a boy into a man.

 

[-Punk-]

Yes they can.

 

[Da Best Ever]

I didn't say you said anything bad about women. I said your statement was narrow minded. So tell me, why would they become lazy and leech-like? Because the mother would raise them to be? Or the mother wouldn't teach them otherwise?

I didn't think I would need to dumb myself down and explain my point specifically to benefit lesser minds but here goes.


I said a man can only teach a boy certain things. I should have been specific and digress to saying some men because not all men carry the characteristic that I already mentioned, just like not all women do either more so the majority. If your gripe with me is that I said not all women can raise great males then you gripe is with humanity and facts. It is more likely that a woman raising kids on her own is going to fail( bad word to use at the moment) when raising all of them. I know because I am a male and my mother had 3 kids, 2 boys and a girl and both my brother an sister are in prison right now and their troubles started very early in life. Me however I was raised no different from them and our mother provided for us everything that we needed and wanted still they failed so far but the only reason I haven't been subjected to the same end result is because I had male figures growing up not fathers but male figures to tell and teach me the responsibilities of being a man.

My up bringing was great as I stated filled with love as well as my other siblings but my mother was alone and she did it all alone just like many other minority mothers do and just like kids of minority the majority of them fail early in life because they lack a male role model. If you don't understand me then that's fine but I know other black people agree, black mothers have it hard on their own and facts show that young black males without male figures in their life fail a lot of times. Some women are successful in this process but not all women have the same means nor do they have the same things around them to ensure their kids grow the way they want.

 

[Da Best Ever]

I didn't say you said anything bad about women. I said your statement was narrow minded. So tell me, why would they become lazy and leech-like? Because the mother would raise them to be? Or the mother wouldn't teach them otherwise?

I didn't think I would need to dumb myself down and explain my point specifically to benefit lesser minds but here goes.


I said a man can only teach a boy certain things. I should have been specific and digress to saying some men because not all men carry the characteristic that I already mentioned, just like not all women do either more so the majority. If your gripe with me is that I said not all women can raise great males then you gripe is with humanity and facts. It is more likely that a woman raising kids on her own is going to fail( bad word to use at the moment) when raising all of them. I know because I am a male and my mother had 3 kids, 2 boys and a girl and both my brother an sister are in prison right now and their troubles started very early in life. Me however I was raised no different from them and our mother provided for us everything that we needed and wanted still they failed so far but the only reason I haven't been subjected to the same end result is because I had male figures growing up not fathers but male figures to tell and teach me the responsibilities of being a man.

My up bringing was great as I stated filled with love as well as my other siblings but my mother was alone and she did it all alone just like many other minority mothers do and just like kids of minority the majority of them fail early in life because they lack a male role model. If you don't understand me then that's fine but I know other black people agree, black mothers have it hard on their own and facts show that young black males without male figures in their life fail a lot of times. Some women are successful in this process but not all women have the same means nor do they have the same things around them to ensure their kids grow the way they want.