The only way to obtain a utopia is with one person in charge, there can never be a true utopia because there is greed, there is immorality, and there is hate. Everyone wants their choices to be the best thing possible. By striving toward the false hope of a utopia, all we do is delude ourselves more, while continually oppressing the people. Remove government, remove the basic structure while keeping everyone happy in a mini-society will only result in anarchy. People are greedy, they want whatever they get their hands on. It is unavoidable.
If you think everyone would be happy, content, and there would be no wars if a utopia was created, you are the one who has been reading too much fairy tales. Because there is never equality, we say women are equal here, yet the double standards are insane. We say that everyone has equal opportunity to move up in the workforce, but do you see the people picking oranges day after day become CEO? No... There is always a minority and a majority. Even if the people who wanted the utopia created were the majority, there would still be some opposing it, so what then, will you compromise your own ideals and force them out? Kill them? Perhaps you will deny them of their freedom.
All we do anymore is strive to be perfect, yet perfection is unattainable, you can never look like the girl or boy in the magazines, nor can you have the perfect family with a mom and dad, 2.5 kids, a picket fence, and a dog...
Life sucks, you can try to improve it, but don't try and seek the impossible.