Why do some parents think they can do anything to their kids?

[Deadlift]

Don't you think they can do that in a better way without damaging their kids physically and mentally?

Of course they can! And fortunately a lot of parents don't let themselves get deceived by that instinct. But then why so many kids are disrespectful to their family?

 

[Legendary Saiyan]

recording it is stupid in my opinion

 

[Claymantan]

recording it is stupid in my opinion

Leave no evidence? xD

 

[Kyoto Samurai]

i'd sell my kids for a naruto box set

 

[Legendary Saiyan]

Leave no evidence? xD

I meant when they post it on WorldStar or FaceBook. That's crossing the line as a parent. I don't care if they whoop their children but embarrassing them publicly is not right.

 

[Deadlift]

I meant when they post it on WorldStar or FaceBook. That's crossing the line as a parent. I don't care if they whoop their children but embarrassing them publicly is not right.

Lol the father of my friend's girl posted on his Facebook wall all the pics of her childhood and of how she's now writing stuff like "my precious flower is grown" ??????

 

[NineSNS]

I am a parent, and I am horrified by parents who think that bullying and psychological abuse are legitimate discipline techniques.

To discipline means "to teach."

Kids need to learn that their choices come with consequences, but rules, limits, and "punishments" need to be understood ahead of time for them to be meaningful.

Otherwise, the "lessons" learned aren't the ones that were meant to be taught.

 

[Yubel]

I am a parent, and I am horrified by parents who think that bullying and psychological abuse are legitimate discipline techniques.

To discipline means "to teach."

Kids need to learn that their choices come with consequences, but rules, limits, and "punishments" need to be understood ahead of time for them to be meaningful.

Otherwise, the "lessons" learned aren't the ones that were meant to be taught.

I wish there was a school that were mandatory for all parents that teached proper parenting. The world would be a much better place.

 

[Karna]

Here is a question, what should a parent be allowed to do to their children?

 

[Magnolius]

Ew. Why do I see people in here trying to justify child abuse? What is wrong with you people, this is pathetic.


Yeah, Hated is here now. Come at me.

 

[roark]

Answering the question, I think some people has children due to projection, they think the kids are a extension to themselves, on the other hand, are not too bright and had no patience to disciplining kids properly.

beat may work for a while, but the child doesn't learn any value. The child, stop what was doing because got was scared at the moment. Just it.

People who film their children being humiliated has serious problems. Narcissistic behavior or other more serious things.


And no, a child should not respect their parents in a toxic situation. The way a child is raised interfere self esteem, violent behavior, and other psychosomatic problems. But anyway, the ideal is when you reach adulthood, cut the bond with parents like that sincerely.


Because people think that parents have to be respected no matter what? I do not know, Christian values, parents should protect us but this is not always the case. Just as we must love our sibilings or our lover should be a person who makes us happy, but life is not so, and thiose are just ideal situations.

Not only physical abuse but psychological abuse sucks too. I think it's lack of competence as a parent. There are people who want to have children at all costs, feel that "it is the duty" in life, as well asget married, never wondered why, and never stopped to think of a financial plan as well as value systems that will pass to the child. The child is just there. And they have to be greateful to the parents for giving life to them.

So I am not against using the belt, but only in extreme situations, the last circumstance. Not as routine. I said, extreme circustances.

Some kids can still be "disciplined" or get whipping and still grow up to do horrible things.

If you were disciplined well you wouldnt do all those "much worse around those ages" things.

No, not really. Spank children is no proof they'll behave.
It can be something yours that you respected your parents, mayve you are dumb, you feared them, or they were good discipliners even with spanking.

My parent's beated me, screamed like Sakura, and I started to not trust them, and even, as the other member said, acting sneaking. Because the important was them no discovering.

So... I was a bullier and was a **** because it was what I had learned at home. I had no standard of relationship with my parents . I was not afraid of them, because in my teenager years, I could could react. So what's the point?

So, I turned out well, honestly? Don't know, but probably maybe I have a lot of money and no matter what, would go to university and get a good job due to contacts. Also i got a good circle of friends. I'm being honest. But it's not due to my parents mindset. Due to their money maybe. I'm supposed to be grateful huh?

You know what I've noticed. A person can be in an abusive relationship with a spouse and some will say "That's horrible." "Leave" "How could that person be some horrible to you." but if a parent is abusive the blame is is usually turned on the victim...or at least that's what I've notice. I know that doesn't apply to these situations all the time.

dumb people.

I have and that wouldn't change my opinion. I personally don't understand how you can think say no over and over again will teach anything. Eventually you have to try a different method or it will just be a infinite cycle until you die and they continue to make mistakes. Granted everyone is different so what may work for one kid may not work for the next so I will admit that trying different ways couldn't hurt and that if they learn right from wrong by talking it out then so be it. But this isn't the case with every kid as I stated before and that sometime you can take it to far as some in the videos have as an example:

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[video=youtube;CGv9f25f93I]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CGv9f25f93I[/video]

But say no over and over again is not the way of raising children. But taking things they like, setting penalty if they misbehave, a lot of other punishments had the a better solution. But of course, it is more tiring and requires to use the brain.


My cousin is super annoying, but he is hyperactive (or has another problem). And he's very annoying. But who don't know his problem would probably hate him. Someone with your mindset would spank a child like that. wonderful solution huh? But good news... it would never work.

 

[Aimee Sky]

Maybe; they don't know it?

 

[shelke]

What a load of BS. It's because of ultra-liberal mentality like this that most kids are pieces of shit these days. They don't show any respect towards ... just about anyone. Bad mouth their own families by going on a pity-parade with their friends. They overshare their private affairs. Resort to bullying and other rowdy attention seaking behaviours. And the list of the new generation's misconduct is a long one.

Sure, hitting a child or belittling him/her for no reason is abuse. But hitting is a good deterrent in many situations. I remember a friend of mine stole money from a house where his parents went for dinner, just because they wouldn't buy him a Playstation. He shamed them in front of another family simply to get back at them.

His dad beat the shit out of him, as the man was a military course mate. Just imagine the humiliation his parents faced. Guess what? The little prick never did it again. All that coddling and teaching never solved much.