Why do people change

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Well I heard ur personality and traits change every four years. U know...ur taste buds change, u have different interest now, or u change ur appearance. But since u only went out for 3 weeks, I don't know
3 weeks is not enough time to get to know some one. For them to say you changed in 3 weeks is a total lie, you cannot learn everything about a person in that short amount of time, more likely they got to know THE REAL YOU and didnt like it and left. Sounds like you are better off, and prob best it ended now not later on in life
 
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3 weeks is not enough time to get to know some one. For them to say you changed in 3 weeks is a total lie, you cannot learn everything about a person in that short amount of time, more likely they got to know THE REAL YOU and didnt like it and left. Sounds like you are better off, and prob best it ended now not later on in life

I think your right prob was for the best :(
 

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in that scenario what she means when she says that you changed is not literally that you changed.
it is more likely that she had an impression of what type of guy you are and it took the span of 3 weeks for her to note that you are different from what she perceived.
not your fault dude.
Franky, 3 weeks is too short a time to build up a strong emotional bond.
 

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I give you 3 opcions, feel free to choose one or none at all:

1st option
It's not that you changed, it's that she has finally has seen you as you really are.
When people start dating they only look at the good sides, but when time passes (trsut me 3 weeks in enough time) just start catching bad habits or sides that you dislike.

2nd
She lost interest in you. Which is quite common in teenagers, never realizing who they "love". It's one of the things you counter as you grow up.
3rd
She can be cheating on you, and did not want to hurt your feelings, so she decided to break up with you to avoid it. If you see her dating a guy 2 or 3 days after your brake up, this option is the most predominant.
 

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I give you 3 opcions, feel free to choose one or none at all:

1st option
It's not that you changed, it's that she has finally has seen you as you really are.
When people start dating they only look at the good sides, but when time passes (trsut me 3 weeks in enough time) just start catching bad habits or sides that you dislike.

2nd
She lost interest in you. Which is quite common in teenagers, never realizing who they "love". It's one of the things you counter as you grow up.
3rd
She can be cheating on you, and did not want to hurt your feelings, so she decided to break up with you to avoid it. If you see her dating a guy 2 or 3 days after your brake up, this option is the most predominant.
i lose interest often...
 
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I give you 3 opcions, feel free to choose one or none at all:

1st option
It's not that you changed, it's that she has finally has seen you as you really are.
When people start dating they only look at the good sides, but when time passes (trsut me 3 weeks in enough time) just start catching bad habits or sides that you dislike.

2nd
She lost interest in you. Which is quite common in teenagers, never realizing who they "love". It's one of the things you counter as you grow up.
3rd
She can be cheating on you, and did not want to hurt your feelings, so she decided to break up with you to avoid it. If you see her dating a guy 2 or 3 days after your brake up, this option is the most predominant.
i would say it is option 1 for sure

Depends on how long they knew each other before
 
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