Why do people change

blazekev90

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Well I heard ur personality and traits change every four years. U know...ur taste buds change, u have different interest now, or u change ur appearance. But since u only went out for 3 weeks, I don't know
Really it changes every four years, that's probably why I just kinda broke up wit mine after 5 years. *shrugs*
 

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Probably the first time she meet you she had an impression of you, and when those weeks passed, she didnt get what she expected from you.. But I woudnt fell bad, girls are manipulative in many ways, nothings wrong with you.. And people change through experiences..
 

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sorry to be offtopic..but wrong section
Don't bother trying to correct dude......
I got sick and tired of saying that already....
but obviously most people have short attention spans that its almost a daily thing that someone would post in the wrong section....
true, i dont bother telling people anymore either
Um..I don`t want to spoil your noob party there,but the Chatterbox is for threads like this.

People change as time goes by,you can`t do anything about it.
The number 1 problem in love is to find someone ready to adapt to you changing.
 

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Um..I don`t want to spoil your noob party there,but the Chatterbox is for threads like this.

People change as time goes by,you can`t do anything about it.
The number 1 problem in love is to find someone ready to adapt to you changing.
is not like that, this thread was moved
it was in the naruto discussion section before

Oh yeah your speech was motivational :T_T:
 

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watch out for women who want things to move faster than your wanting/ready for them to be. They are usually clingy and emotionaly needy, and cant ever be alone. Same with guys that do the same, its a manipulation tactic that makes the relationship into what they define as good, and if you resist and want to take your time they will usually cut you loose and have 3 back ups and they will keep moving from one relationship to the next until they learn that building bonds takes time. If they ever do. Also there are many fish in the sea, sometimes it takes a few casts, and releases to find one you like. Inserts innaproperate comment about fishing...... blah blah blah......
 

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I give you 3 opcions, feel free to choose one or none at all:

1st option
It's not that you changed, it's that she has finally has seen you as you really are.
When people start dating they only look at the good sides, but when time passes (trsut me 3 weeks in enough time) just start catching bad habits or sides that you dislike.

2nd
She lost interest in you. Which is quite common in teenagers, never realizing who they "love". It's one of the things you counter as you grow up.
3rd
She can be cheating on you, and did not want to hurt your feelings, so she decided to break up with you to avoid it. If you see her dating a guy 2 or 3 days after your brake up, this option is the most predominant.
those are very good reason.
 
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