Why are women so erratic

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It really baffles me how their mind can change so easily. I know every girl is different but still though many are rather well bipolar in a sense. Like this girl im trying to talk with recently. At first she gave me her number knowing full well of my intentions to try to be her boyfriend. For a while we talked like if something truly was gonna happen and later she stopped talking to me and ignoring my calls, ignoring txt messages. And now she wants to pick it up right where we left off before she ignored me. I ddnt ask an explanation i was just happy to have her back on track. Made me wonder though, did she tire of me? Had she been scared of a relationship? And now im wondering if she would do anything of the sort in the near future. Why do they have to b this way?
lol, poor little boy.

more than likely she has other boys

that want the same thing you want from her

but it seems like your not on top of the list so to speak.
 

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im gonna guess that your that super nice guy that does what ever he can for the girl he likes.....if so stop it. i was there....i went through my trial and error...now i know better....nothing wrong with being nice, but dont bend your will to the females every wim....because then she knows she can use you when she is bored and drop you when she is not.....then when she's bored again she knows you wont mind talking to her again....its just how the world works man....guys arent the players anymore, women have taken that title from us
That's cause guys always do dumb stuff to make us snap....
I usually change my mind and then when i do, i try to make it look like, i was doing that from the start.
Alright, I'll give you a few tips, seeing as you're a bro in need. Depending on how you look or act, girls will tend to dish out phone numbers, if asked, out of politeness, or to of course give a guy a shot (Important factor is whether you asked for it, or she gave it out willingly. If you asked, could be the latter unfortunately for you). If she ended the conversation suddenly, she either is playing very hard to get (which is a possibility, because that would be the lady like thing to do), or is throwing down the iron steel curtain, which basically means she's ending it, and making sure you know (or at least in her head she feels the message was clear). She might have re-started the conversation again because she believes that you received the message, and the relationship can continue - as friends (again, could be out of politeness, or because she genuinely likes you - as a friend). A few questions to ask yourself if you are still uncertain about the whole thing are 1) when chatting with her, did she ever ask a ton of questions about your background (hobbies, goals, etc.)? If she didn't, then she doesn't care about you likely. Also, 2) did she ever respond to your texts within a reasonable amount of time? If a girl is feeling the vibes, she'll respond, maybe not immediately but within a reasonable amount of time, because she has an attraction to you. Reasonable would be 1-4 hours after the text was sent, not 24hrs+ after the text was sent. If she doesn't have the time to message you back, then move on; she's either very hard to get, or doesn't want you. That's about it, hope that helps. Oh, and also, don't stare more then 5 seconds into their eyes - soul will get sucked out. Cheers, and may the swag be with you.

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sounds like you guys/girls are talking about

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which give good girls a bad rep
 
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you'll have better luck breaking down a brick wall by slamming your head into then you would trying to understand just a micro understanding of the female brain,with eprsonal experiance i find its just easier to nod agree and just forget about the fact that she is completely wrong/nuts/crazy/or not making any sense,saves alot of headache u_u
 

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sounds like you guys/girls are talking about

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which give good girls a bad rep
Heh, if only that were true, then I'd listen and think that's logical, but then I remember you're the advisory. Deceit and illusions.

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Normally when that happens, that might mean that she was busy. Did not have the time to reply to texts or your phone calls. OR it could mean that you were coming on too strongly a bit too quickly. Then there is the other option in which another guy or friends came into her life and she wanted to focus on them for awhile. Put life on hold with you for a bit.

Personally, I am guilty of doing the same thing to guys who are interested in me. It is not that we mean to do it intentionally. I hate doing this, but then again... I am easily distracted. lol I would not think too much into it just yet. Continue to try and get to know her. In time you will discover if it is just something she tends to do, the whole ignoring you for a short while.
 

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Not to be a douche, but you sound like Plan B. You guys were flirting, then all of a sudden you stopped, then you started again. Just start ignoring her yourself and see what she does.
 

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The girls cycle is an excuse that every girl use when they are mad.
It's not because you're in your cycle you have to be rude.
 
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