It really baffles me how their mind can change so easily. I know every girl is different but still though many are rather well bipolar in a sense. Like this girl im trying to talk with recently. At first she gave me her number knowing full well of my intentions to try to be her boyfriend. For a while we talked like if something truly was gonna happen and later she stopped talking to me and ignoring my calls, ignoring txt messages. And now she wants to pick it up right where we left off before she ignored me. I ddnt ask an explanation i was just happy to have her back on track. Made me wonder though, did she tire of me? Had she been scared of a relationship? And now im wondering if she would do anything of the sort in the near future. Why do they have to b this way?
Alright, I'll give you a few tips, seeing as you're a bro in need. Depending on how you look or act, girls will tend to dish out phone numbers, if asked, out of politeness, or to of course give a guy a shot (Important factor is whether you asked for it, or she gave it out willingly. If you asked, could be the latter unfortunately for you). If she ended the conversation suddenly, she either is playing very hard to get (which is a possibility, because that would be the lady like thing to do), or is throwing down the iron steel curtain, which basically means she's ending it, and making sure you know (or at least in her head she feels the message was clear). She might have re-started the conversation again because she believes that you received the message, and the relationship can continue - as friends (again, could be out of politeness, or because she genuinely likes you - as a friend). A few questions to ask yourself if you are still uncertain about the whole thing are 1) when chatting with her, did she ever ask a ton of questions about your background (hobbies, goals, etc.)? If she didn't, then she doesn't care about you likely. Also, 2) did she ever respond to your texts within a reasonable amount of time? If a girl is feeling the vibes, she'll respond, maybe not immediately but within a reasonable amount of time, because she has an attraction to you. Reasonable would be 1-4 hours after the text was sent, not 24hrs+ after the text was sent. If she doesn't have the time to message you back, then move on; she's either very hard to get, or doesn't want you. That's about it, hope that helps. Oh, and also, don't stare more then 5 seconds into their eyes - soul will get sucked out. Cheers, and may the swag be with you.
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