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That's interesting, but not really true. Horizontal cuts are very seldom attention seeking. Abnormal attention seeking behaviors carry a large stigma as well. The only time cutting behaviors are attention seeking is when used as a manipulative device (commonly practice by people with personality disorders: Borderline and Antisocial primarly). Most cutters hide their cuts and tools. The process even becomes more of a ritual as it continues. Usually when children begin cutting they aren't as careful hiding it. Cutting for the endorphin high is a relatively small percentage of those who cut. I agree though, "loling" at this seems pretty insensitive.
I should clarify. When I said he's doing it for attention, I didn't mean it in the negative connotation, like "It's just for attention, let's ignore it." I meant in that it's a cry for help. He may need attention and care because of some difficulty, and the cutting could be a sign of that. If you notice the cutting, you should offer that care and attention, rather than ignore it. I don't know what the OP's brother is going through, I don't know if it is or isn't that, so I included it because it's possible.