Like I said, people feeling "comfortable" is an illusion, because there's really no way you can always tell what gender someone is based on *** without actually checking in. And people feeling "uncomfortable" isn't enough of a reason to say that transgendered people should be identified a certain way. "Comfort" is also used to deny gay people rights, and this vague concept was even used to deny that integration should occur back in the days of segregation. It was also used to separate women from dudes back in the day ("women shouldn't be in the same workspace as guys because then *** gets involved blah blah"). And this is why I think whether or not people are comfortable is a bad argument.
Really, what it comes down to, is that people want transgendered people to identify themselves so that they'll feel more comfortable, but this has more severe consequences for transgendered people than for cisgendered people. I don't think we should trade the comfort and perceived safety of one demographic for another. Either institute gender-neutral/unisex bathrooms in general (people say this would be too expensive) or allow transgendered people to use the bathroom they identify with. *** and gender should only be restricted by the state when it comes to things like benefits, medical issues, etc. When it comes to daily public life, people should lay off.
You're conflating transgendered people with people who have *** changes. Some people transition only partway. Some people don't transition at all. So being transgender =/= insecurity.
A "transgender bathroom" = everyone knows the person who's going into the bathroom is transgendered. I already explained why this is a bad idea.
And the only reason this policy of target is being protested is because people are uncomfortable with the idea that Target is openly saying that they'll allow people who identify with other genders to use the bathroom they identify with. But beforehand, there was no real reason that this wouldn't occur anyway. Stealth transpeople exist in workplaces all the time. So that's why I say that transgendered people declaring their existence/Target acknowledging them is making people insecure.