Wildtangent
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being in a relationship isn't about who has control both party's make decisons together. not that one is at a constant dominancy dominance over the other. U_U
Okay im confused
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DigitalMonster
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to be honest, i think you really need to see your school counselor
this relationship is too creepy
this relationship is too creepy
Uh...the guy is the leader of a couple...he still have to make decisions that will be at least a lil approved by the girl...but if he makes a decision and he knows its right the girl will have to follow faithfully...pshh U_U make up ur mind
thats whats wrong with this world women r given too many rights and they think they can act like men
a woman will rebel anytime no matter what age
not true my great grandma married at 15 and my great grandpa at 35
she never rebeled cuz actually in that reletionship the guy treated her like a daughter so she had to give lots of respectU_Ui has experience cuz i get story time
btw thnx i couldnt find a good word and u gave me the best thnx (Leadership thats the one!)
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O.O dead on u guys..but still..taking the subject seriously 2 questions are to be asked..
first, where do u imagine such a relationship heading unless a possible "hit that" as u said..
second, what the hell are u asking advice in a public forum on such a delicated subject as that one..
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JustBetweenYouAndI
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You're 18, EIGHTEEN! Get a girl closer to your age. This woman is old enough to be your mother. I don't care how mature you are, or how mature you think you are. At the end of the day your concerns are going to be drastically different.
Do you go there to learn? I'd say leave this woman alone...
You should be going out and having fun, or studying(goofing off) at college.
Does this grown woman even like you like that?(I hate to say it, but if she does that's pretty gross on her part. I'd compare it to you going out with a 10 year old.)
You sound infatuated and that's okay. However, I'd advise you not to try and romantically peruse a relationship with her.
Then don't. If you really like and care for this woman please leave her be.
I'm sorry if I sound rude, but you'll meet someone to date, or sleep with. Whatever you're actual intentions are. There's a lot of fish in the sea.
It does.
Agree.
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Chrispayneable
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My girlfriend is 31. I'm 19. She's Japanese and looks younger than me, but you still knooow, you know?
I don't have a problem, but 18 and 40 is a big gap. When you're her age, she'll be 72.
Seventy-two.
Not to mention older women seem to be less stable mentally in a lot of ways. I'm talking from experience. I'd say go no higher than 12 year difference, I'm pushin' it on an 11 year difference already.
I don't have a problem, but 18 and 40 is a big gap. When you're her age, she'll be 72.
Seventy-two.
Not to mention older women seem to be less stable mentally in a lot of ways. I'm talking from experience. I'd say go no higher than 12 year difference, I'm pushin' it on an 11 year difference already.
show her the goods, if she goes for it, then it was meant to be. then hit that szhit and gtfo... when you're a few years older you'll get told a lot, chicks don't like guys that bang old ladies when they were 18!
chieflazyarse
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ok I knew this guy in high school who did the exact same thing you are thinking of doing... with his mates mum, it blew up the lady separated from her husband and she now has a baby to this guy hes 19 now and shes 40 something and they are still together. They are pretty much ostracised by everyone and I think its sick but they are happy apparently, dunno man ask yourself if its worth the possible consequences and remember infatuation passes with time
Chrispayneable
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As I said earlier: Watch the emotions. Menopause is a bitch, dude. And she's gonna expect stuff from you that you can't provide emotionally and mentally.
