Konoha psychologists.

[UchihaBrat]

I don't think he's purposely ignoring her just more focused on his girlfirend and that means less interaction with her cause and affect kind of thing.

Possible. That's why I'm trying to find out if she has gotten any hints as to why

 

[elefytje]

Ah, if this is a topic too private, you're welcome to private message any of us, but if it's fine with you, we will continue here.

You're close to your sister, yes?
And having known him for a while until he started ignoring you, as you said, made you feel left out as you already had few friends right?
I realize that when he's with your sister, that you will have see him more often than usual, and what he did, and if that's really the problem as you describe it, I wonder whether you should bother much with him at all.

Some people just don't mix, and sometimes it's better to just try to interact as little as possible.
I'm not sure as to why he ignores you though, have you had any fights or something? Or did he just suddenly start ignoring you like that?

I'm close to my sister, yes.
I know it's not detailled enough. Now he talks to me when he is here for my sister, but he ignored me three years ago. So he doesn't ignore me anymore now.

He is in college now, so I don't see him often. But I can't ignore him when he is here for my sister and stays for dinner, can I? That would be rude, and a bit impossible.

Possible. That's why I'm trying to find out if she has gotten any hints as to why

Well, he was probably madly in love with her for over a year before he asked her... I think that was the reason why he didn't see me sitting across the table for a year, and why he didn't hear me for a year.

 

[Swizzik]

I'm close to my sister, yes.
I know it's not detailled enough. Now he talks to me when he is here for my sister, but he ignored me three years ago. So he doesn't ignore me anymore now.

He is in college now, so I don't see him often. But I can't ignore him when he is here for my sister and stays for dinner, can I? That would be rude, and a bit impossible.



Well, he was probably madly in love with her for over a year before he asked her... I think that was the reason why he didn't see me sitting across the table for a year, and why he didn't hear me for a year.

You felt like you were losing a potential friend and now that hes going out with your sister and hes talking to you your mad that he is only talking to you because of your sister and not for you?

 

[UchihaBrat]

I'm close to my sister, yes.
I know it's not detailled enough. Now he talks to me when he is here for my sister, but he ignored me three years ago. So he doesn't ignore me anymore now.

He is in college now, so I don't see him often. But I can't ignore him when he is here for my sister and stays for dinner, can I? That would be rude, and a bit impossible.

Hmm, I think your anger is somewhat justified, considering what he did.
But to me it's clear as swizzik mentioned, that he just isn't that interested in you, but more interested in his own pursuits, as are many, this is only one possible reason though, another is he might just have matured a bit, remembering what he did and is talking to you out of guilt, probably not being able to bring himself to apologize. Who knows, maybe he's just shy, you might not forgive him, is what he could think.
I think you should straighten things out with him by talking, but carefully so, he might not even remember or think of it as you do.
Also I'm not saying you should ignore him completely, I may have phrased it carelessly, just not interact as much, if possible. I still think that talking with him is better since you're going to be seeing him more often thann you average Joe.

(might be the reason yeah.)

 

[ninjastormgenaration33]

*Sits Down in a chair and waits for Uchiha Brat for counseling*

 

[elefytje]

You felt like you were losing a potential friend and now that hes going out with your sister and hes talking to you your mad that he is only talking to you because of your sister and not for you?

That's not the problem... I'm mad that he ignored me three years ago. And because of that hatred, my subconsious adds more things to hate, things that don't even matter.

I want to get rid of the base of the hatred, but that is easier said than done.

 

[Sonne]

That's not the problem... I'm mad that he ignored me three years ago. And because of that hatred, my subconsious adds more things to hate, things that don't even matter.

I want to get rid of the base of the hatred, but that is easier said than done.

This is not something Psychologists can solve.
You just hate him for not picking you, end of story.

 

[UchihaBrat]

*Sits Down in a chair and waits for Uchiha Brat for counseling*

We don't have any secretaries here atm, so just come in~
*points at cookie jar* Have a cookie please.
Make yourself comfortable and tell me about your problem, if you would.

 

[elefytje]

Hmm, I think your anger is somewhat justified, considering what he did.
But to me it's clear as swizzik mentioned, that he just isn't that interested in you, but more interested in his own pursuits, as are many, this is only one possible reason though, another is he might just have matured a bit, remembering what he did and is talking to you out of guilt, probably not being able to bring himself to apologize. Who knows, maybe he's just shy, you might not forgive him, is what he could think.
I think you should straighten things out with him by talking, but carefully so, he might not even remember or think of it as you do.
Also I'm not saying you should ignore him completely, I may have phrased it carelessly, just not interact as much, if possible. I still think that talking with him is better since you're going to be seeing him more often thann you average Joe.

(might be the reason yeah.)

I don't think he even remembers that he didn't speak to me. But thanks for the advice... I will try it. And I think you're the only one in this thread, that didn't say I was in love with him, so thank you for that too.

And House, I didn't want him to pick me, as I said earlier, I am not, and wasn't in love with him.

 

[UchihaBrat]

I don't think he even remembers that he didn't speak to me. But thanks for the advice... I will try it. And I think you're the only one in this thread, that didn't say I was in love with him, so thank you for that too.

And House, I didn't want him to pick me, as I said earlier, I am not, and wasn't in love with him.

Good luck!
Also, we all have our different methods and ways of approaching and solving problems, I think that the more different views in this we get to see, the more we can explore as well as exclude. There were something I didn't even consider that the others did.

 

[elefytje]

Good luck!
Also, we all have our different methods and ways of approaching and solving problems, I think that the more different views in this we get to see, the more we can explore as well as exclude. There were something I didn't even consider that the others did.

True, it's better to have multiple approaches, methods and answers, than just one of them.

 

[UchihaBrat]

True, it's better to have multiple approaches, methods and answers, than just one of them.

It's easier that way
Thank you for sharing your troubles with us and I'm glad if we were of help!

 

[MasterObtar]

i dont get it

 

[UchihaBrat]

i dont get it

Don't get what?

 

[Kakashii]

>.> hey look under my name -.-'' finally there is a damn thread.

 

[AMystery]

>.> hey look under my name -.-'' finally there is a damn thread.

if you think that then why didn't you make one yourself?

 

[Kakashii]

if you think that then why didn't you make one yourself?

cuz i have better things to do and i dont really like to do threads and because i use nb just to read the manga and watch fcking fillers on the anime -_-
but anyway why r u asking that if there is already one thread and its this one? yeah what a stupid question huh?

 

[AMystery]

cuz i have better things to do and i dont really like to do threads and because i use nb just to read the manga and watch fcking fillers on the anime -_-
but anyway why r u asking that if there is already one thread and its this one? yeah what a stupid question huh?

it wasn't a stupid question, you said 'finally' as if you were waiting, so I was asking why didn't you make one first. there is no point in making one now as it is already here.
and mind your language please -__-
it seems you don't just come here to read the manga and watch the anime because you're here in the RP section atm and if you say you have better things to do, why react in such a way as saying 'finally there is a damn thread' if you had no intention of making or truthfully waiting for the thread to appear, or even using it, as you say you don't RP, why was your comment necessary? tbh it was a silly comment

 

[Kakashii]

it wasn't a stupid question, you said 'finally' as if you were waiting, so I was asking why didn't you make one first. there is no point in making one now as it is already here.
and mind your language please -__-
it seems you don't just come here to read the manga and watch the anime because you're here in the RP section atm and if you say you have better things to do, why react in such a way as saying 'finally there is a damn thread' if you had no intention of making or truthfully waiting for the thread to appear, or even using it, as you say you don't RP, why was your comment necessary? tbh it was a silly comment

yep ur kinda right but i just said ''finally'' because there wasn't any thread like this one. it doesn't mean i was waiting for one
but really i just come here to read manga and watch anime. but when i dont have anything else to do in the pc i just open some threads and ''actualize'' myself with nerdy stuff about naruto. i dont like rp cuz i find that stupid. i dont like to pretend or i can't pretend. sooo yeah here u go xd

 

[AMystery]

yep ur kinda right but i just said ''finally'' because there wasn't any thread like this one. it doesn't mean i was waiting for one
but really i just come here to read manga and watch anime. but when i dont have anything else to do in the pc i just open some threads and ''actualize'' myself with nerdy stuff about naruto. i dont like rp cuz i find that stupid. i dont like to pretend or i can't pretend. sooo yeah here u go xd

fair
you're entitled to your opinion I find RP fun ^^ it's nice to chat to people