[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

[Yubel]

In which case, you can just leave her rather than cheat?

The consequences of leaving a marriage in the west can have a dramatic impact on your life. It's not easy if you're a man.

 

[JStar King]

The consequences of leaving a marriage in the west can have a dramatic impact on your life. It's not as easy as that if you're a man.

Yep. Here in America, the wife takes custody of the kids, gets thousands of dollars of alamony every month, gets the car, and the house. The husband would be lucky if he can live in a box after the judge tears him a new one. The divorce system is broken.

 

[Yubel]

Yep. Here in America, the wife takes custody of the kids, gets thousands of dollars of alamony every month, gets the car, and the house. The husband would be lucky if he can live in a box after the judge tears him a new one. The divorce system is broken.

Well if you're lucky enough not to have kids, you can move out of the country to avoid alimony.

 

[paratise]

I do not think it is immature or naive of you to ask this question in a website like this one. You know what are you doing, most frequents or semi-frequents know demographics of this manga forum afterall.

GDS is filled with misogynist, rape apologist threads seemingly asking questions yet all you people do is validating each other in each others' gross, despicable views on humans and world.

To answer your supposed question, it is person's right to deny *** and have full ownership on their bodies. If there is a problem seek help through psychologists or basicly talking. But hell, this would be applied in a case people like you can have a relationship went this far. All you people ever do is inserting yourselves in scenarios in which maybe you could have sexual satisfaction through submisson or force and seeking aproval for sickening fantasies akin to this.

 

[BLAZE]

so she withold's *** and rather than talking to her about the problems in relationship you are making thread in section filled with teenagers and trolls :|
Way to go :|

 

[Ansatsuken]

so she withold's *** and rather than talking to her about the problems in relationship you are making thread in section filled with teenagers and trolls :|
Way to go :|

People in NB were desperate to created thread and not bcus of their motive on the select subject. Just my 20 cents kun:

 

[Rogue Pit]

All relationships are different. The way males generally view *** is different than how females generally view it.

To Generally summarize, you guys both have to compromise on your wants and desires. If you don't fulfill each other's fantasies.. Who will?

 

[Strata Uchiha]

so she withold's *** and rather than talking to her about the problems in relationship you are making thread in section filled with teenagers and trolls :|
Way to go :|

Usually people tend to share there real life relationship problems when they know already there situation is going to Hell in a picnic basket anyways.

 

[Darth AniCetuS]

If not happy in a relationship then discuss the point of dissatisfaction openly with your partner. If you two understand each others situation and come to an understanding then all well and good otherwise its time for both of you to move on. Next time you enter a relationship be sure to know your partner well before committing anything and you'll be fine.

 

[Pumpkin Ninja]

I do not think it is immature or naive of you to ask this question in a website like this one. You know what are you doing, most frequents or semi-frequents know demographics of this manga forum afterall.

GDS is filled with misogynist, rape apologist threads seemingly asking questions yet all you people do is validating each other in each others' gross, despicable views on humans on world.

To answer your supposed question, it is person's right to deny *** and have full ownership on their bodies. If there is a problem seek help through psychologists or basicly talking. But hell, this would be applied in a case people like you can have a relationship went this far. All you people ever do is inserting yourselves in scenarios in which maybe you could have sexual satisfaction through submisson or force and seeking aproval for sickening fantasies akin to this.

Damn...

 

[Sir Francis Drake]

Of course. It's her body and life to do with as she chooses. Of you feel there's a lack of *** in a relationship then speak up and open some dialogue with the other party.

 

[RinjiPantera]

So this is why homosexuality exists. It all makes sense now!

 

[Pride]

Yes, and if any spouse forces his wife to have *** with him/her against their own free will that is rape and should be punished accordingly to the law of their district or country.

 

[HashiraMadara]

Well speaking from experience as a man with very low *** drive, I don't really care much about ***. From what I've been, *** is a spontaneous thing, I never plan it but believe me you that girls demand *** a lot. "The fairy tale of girls not wanting ***" is a rare one amongst the grown ups.
I won't be sure you're a guy like me or not, but I don't know, but *** can sometimes decrease the way you see(value) the girl, again "that's me, speaking for my self". I only do it when she really demands it or in extremely rare cases where I myself feel like it. If she doesn't want to, then strike twice for me I am happy that way. *** is over rated amongst the teenagers believe me.

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

I don't see the point in wasting so much energy in trying to get your way.
If you're in a relationship or married and hate the fact you can't do it every day , then you should stay single.

I mean there's plenty of people that you can meet in bars (if you're old enough to enter) that are just looking to hook up and split. Though I recommend taking extra precautions while doing it.

But if you wish to stay in a relationship then you're wants should be as flexible as your partner.
Meaning if she doesn't want it,then respect her current mood and move on, instead of pressuring her for ***.

If she's using *** as a tool to get her way from you then you're relationship isn't healthy.

 

[WalksInShadows]

a female has a right to not have ***, but it isn't right in the least for either gender to use *** as a means of exerting control. I wouldn't want to be in any kind of relationship with someone who is more interested in trying to have someone wrapped around their finger.

 

[Umari Senju]

Talk. Communicate. Talk to her. Yes it's wrong to withhold *** if the husband isn't doing anything wrong. On that note, if the man thinks he isn't doing something wrong then he needs to be comfortable enough to ask his wife why they aren't being intimate. Anything over a month means something is very wrong. If neither are willing to talk about it to each other and be open and honest about it, then as Jean Grey mentioned, this relationship is headed for breakup.

 

[Naruske Izuchiah]

Well sir I have the time to spare atm due to being my grandmothers personal care taker. I'm at an odd point in my life were I can't take a job as I'm attempting to let her die comfortably and surrounded by family instead of strange hospital staff. Kinda trapped at home 6 days a week. On the bright side,I get to watch as my kiddo grow up at the same time. A complaint I hear from many dad's is missing these moments due to work. I'm practically a house husband lol

You sir, are an amazing human being! Your actions speaks of the nobility and selflessness of your heart; that's love, kind sir. Way to honor your family!! I know I'm just a stranger but what you are doing is absolutely worth it. Keep it up!

On a side note.

If only more people realize that our tongues have the power to speak death or life (literal & metaphorically speaking), then why not choose life? Trolling over trolling doesn't lead to understanding, nor does it lead to maturity or growth. Your humility, sir, is an example of life, love, patience, kindness, selflessness, gentleness, and compassion itself. All things use to change hearts for the better, one battle at a time. I probably don't to say this to you, but for the benefit of this forum I will: be sure to teach your son these values and watch how you will build a legacy that your kiddo (and their kids) will be proud to walk in and life out, even long after you pass away. It will transform lives. That I can promise you.

 

[Michelle]

Yep. Here in America, the wife takes custody of the kids, gets thousands of dollars of alamony every month, gets the car, and the house. The husband would be lucky if he can live in a box after the judge tears him a new one. The divorce system is broken.

What a thread. I bet you have some fun here, a mind blowing hypotetical question and so many pages with worried ppl to help you.
If the question is take from life is wrong put, any man in a relationship like this knows what is wrong. So the answer is in psichology not in a forum.
And about american divorce law i wonder, the american members, isnt this too exagerate? The divorce is like you said? I doubt.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

After reading this thread I came up with only one conclusion....

Spoiler

A man should never get married. He should instead find a hooker and call it a day.