[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

[elitenoob94]

This thread is still alive? Lmao

 

[Xlad]

Yes, no, and maybe.

 

[zombiejesus]

I could care less about *** anymore.

 

[Umari Senju]

This is what Islam has to say about this topic.

‘If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses [and does not come], and he spends the night angry with her, the angels will curse her until morning.’” (Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4794;

The only scenario where she has a right to refuse is if she's sick or he's drunk.

How very progressive (sarcasm)

Well we westerners believe the woman's body is her own. Even in marriage. It's expected to have *** with your partner but never a moral obligation contrary to popular belief. Again if they aren't having *** and the man (or woman) wants it but their partner does not then it shouldn't happen period. No one in the relationship should be forced to, or have *** when they are not in the mood or don't want to. If it goes for an extended period of time they need to express their concerns through open dialog. NEVER is *** one's marital duty. It should ALWAYS be consensual between both partners.

 

[Jenneke88]

As a woman I feel compelled to reply to this, after reading about three pages of comments.

@OP: Not the man, nor the woman can force their spouse to have ***. If you do, it's called rape. Doing chores, paying bladiblah is all really very sweet, but if that's what's needed to "earn" ***, well damn, I should be getting laid four times a day. No, doing chores and what not does not equal getting ***.

As a woman, when I don't want to have *** it can be written down to several reasons. 1. I'm feeling sick. 2. just sticking your equipment in my vajayjay isn't really a turn on, you have to "pre heat the oven". 3. I am totally pissed. and number 4. feeling insecure, not sexy. And 5. Having doubts about the relationship (for example, you love someone but not as a lover but as a friend or brother)

And I really don't want to write this, but since I do want to be thorough in answering, but maybe your ***-skills are just plain horrible. Not reaching an orgasm while your husband has, and he is well on his way to falling asleep... Well that'll make a girl lose interest. Any questions?

 

[Angela8]

Women don't owe *** never! It doesn't matter if you bought her everytning possible in this universe
If she wants to have *** she will and if she doesn't want to she won't have *** with you
Thats it
It is right

 

[The Great Second Hokage]

Depends on where you're from...if you live in America then its a womans right to choose who she wants to have *** with if she is of legal age same goes for a man. However if you live in Saudi Arabia then no it is not right in fact its a downright punishable offense in their culture.

 

[JENchuuriki]

Hmm.. In what you stated above, I think you're really treating your girl right... I don't know, maybe she has a problem she's afraid to say?
Why not try to understand her more and gently ask what's the matter?

I think being a wife, you need to cater to your husbands wants... not just to your own. But if she's not in the mood or isn't comfortable you should talk it out.

 

[Observer]

Damn KonanX got it in the ass really hard by local gangsters.

 

[Yubel]

How very progressive (sarcasm)

Well we westerners believe the woman's body is her own. Even in marriage. It's expected to have *** with your partner but never a moral obligation contrary to popular belief. Again if they aren't having *** and the man (or woman) wants it but their partner does not then it shouldn't happen period. No one in the relationship should be forced to, or have *** when they are not in the mood or don't want to. If it goes for an extended period of time they need to express their concerns through open dialog. NEVER is *** one's marital duty. It should ALWAYS be consensual between both partners.

As a man I'd rather follow and have the woman follow Islamic laws instead of getting blue balled. It's kinda selfish but it does save me the trouble of trying to get her in the mood.