I'm self destructive

FitzChivalry Farseer

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I have a girlfriend at this point but it was not always like this. I've gotten so used to being alone that I've gotten comfortable being like that. Now every day I have to fight against my need to be alone so that I can be with this girl. My mind tells me that I need this girl but the in the other hand is also telling me to keep my distance. I know why though because I can't stand rejection and if I immerse myself into this relationship then I risk the day that she might dump me and go with someone else. I'm a pretty boring guy but I try my best to be exciting and charming and interesting. Though in the past my attempts have never been enough. Idk what to do, either stay in this relationship to get my heartbroken or just end it before anything happens. I don't want to do either please help :(
 

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It ain't none to cut that bish off

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so...you like your girlfriend but also want to be alone?
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thats some first world problems right there -.-
 

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Women are like onions
They become sweet when you use them right !
They make you burn as f*ck if you use them wrong !
 
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Just stick with it. It's not like you gotta be around her 24/7.
Heartbreak is part of life and you don't KNOW she'll dump you.
I'm married and my man gets on my nerves sometimes. I just create my alone time.
But yeah, you'll be fine.
 

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Why did u get into it in the first place?
 

LED ZEPPELIN

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Kill yourself. Both your problems will be solved and society will have to deal with one less drama queen like you.
 

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You're not ready for a relationship judging by your post , end it before you really end up heartbroken , your insecurity will be your downfall in the relationship .
 

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Well if she really wants you to be around her all the time she's probably not the person best suited to you.
 

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get ur head checked up...or leave the girl..
 

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You come to nerd base talking about how there's a part of you that doesn't want to be with her...
Dude... at least you have a girlfriend! :rage::dafq:
 

Arian

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Kill yourself. Both your problems will be solved and society will have to deal with one less drama queen like you.

why would u say that? sure for some its a joke (i also kinda made fun of him) but telling him to kill himself? really? dude thats not cool...
 

LED ZEPPELIN

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why would u say that? sure for some its a joke (i also kinda made fun of him) but telling him to kill himself? really? dude thats not cool...

Why? I'm giving a solution for both the problems.
 
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