I Think I'm In love!!!! what should I do?!

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walking around the campus....

then I saw this VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRL :blush:

I asked her what course she has cuz I was curious... from what she said I think she plans to be a teacher.... ^^

at that moment I feel VERY DIFFERENT, I feel good and happy

and her beautiful smile.... haaaaaaaa.... xd it made me smile....

*what should I do? should I ask her number?



*this song pretty much......... I have no words to explain it...... xd
 

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Don't worry. Woman are on to the fact you're shy. It's surprising how much they know about you before you even said 1 word. It's a woman's 6th sense thing. I doubt that this will have negative effects later on. Hold asking the number for when you:

A. Know her name
B. Can have conversation without the unpleasent silent pauzes

Why not ask the phone number now?

Well i'm thinking this one is a pretty girl. Usually asking a number go's rather corny and is mostly done with a stereotype pickupline when the person isz a stranger. Don't be like a million guys before you.

She's gotten these questions too much already to give you a chance to prove you're not like the rest.

What you do is when you meet her always at least greet. Don't share your lifestory but let her share hers. Woman are more talkers ... you should do the listening, at first anyways. Ofcourse you do answer her questions.

Also you don't know her name. It's best to ask in the middle of the next conversation. Why? Otherwise you might come on too smuthering.

When you're in the same area always give her the most attention. But watch it! Do not claim her if she doesn't give you the most attention.

During convo try to figure out her love situation (have b/f, looking for, just broke up, is in love with another and so on)

However do ask her phonenumber within a 2 week span max. This will improve you getting it or it being usefull. Why? It will give her the feeling of genuine intrest in her without it seeming desperate.

Anyways i hope this helps i could be very wrong i could be very right. It depends on the person and situation. For all i know she's a 'Date? Sure. What time? 18:30. Great!' kind of girl. Maybe someone else will give better advice.



For now good luck and tell us how it ends. I'm a real sucker for a good romantic story :pwease:.
 
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Don't worry. Woman are on to the fact you're shy. It's surprising how much they know about you before you even said 1 word. It's a woman's 6th sense thing. I doubt that this will have negative effects later on. Hold asking the number for when you:

A. Know her name
B. Can have conversation without the unpleasent silent pauzes

Why not ask the phone number now?

Well i'm thinking this one is a pretty girl. Usually asking a number go's rather corny and is mostly done with a stereotype pickupline when the person isz a stranger. Don't be like a million guys before you.

She's gotten these questions too much already to give you a chance to prove you're not like the rest.

What you do is when you meet her always at least greet. Don't share your lifestory but let her share hers. Woman are more talkers ... you should do the listening, at first anyways. Ofcourse you do answer her questions.

Also you don't know her name. It's best to ask in the middle of the next conversation. Why? Otherwise you might come on too smuthering.

When you're in the same area always give her the most attention. But watch it! Do not claim her if she doesn't give you the most attention.

During convo try to figure out her love situation (have b/f, looking for, just broke up, is in love with another and so on)

However do ask her phonenumber within a 2 week span max. This will improve you getting it or it being usefull. Why? It will give her the feeling of genuine intrest in her without it seeming desperate.

Anyways i hope this helps i could be very wrong i could be very right. It depends on the person and situation. For all i know she's a 'Date? Sure. What time? 18:30. Great!' kind of girl. Maybe someone else will give better advice.



For now good luck and tell us how it ends. I'm a real sucker for a good romantic story :pwease:.

what would I pause for?
um like?

me: "looks at these books, their heavy huh?" :confused:
 

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my worst case senario....

me: hi miss.... :ghehe:
girl: hello... ^^
me: I like your hips.... :)
girl: *walks away*
me: *commit suicide* :T_T:
xd

You: Hiiiiii Ya ;)
Girl: Oh Hiyaaaaaaaaaaaa :rolleyes:
You: Wow your hair's looking well pretty
Girl: Awww thanks :eek:
You: wanna go for a walk? :cool:
Girl: yeah okai
You *thanking me* well lets gets some ice cream/or drinks/food
 

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^ That.

Thanks Kuro. ~


Where's Rei? xd
*runs* here!

oh well, like JG2480 said most girls are into the shy behavior. Never understood why, but most of them are.
I think you should stop over thinking this and act normally trusting your feelings. All you know about her is that she's pretty and that she wants to be a teacher, right?
Next time you see her, approach her -not too close-, smile and say something casual "how was your day?", "how was the class?" etc etc etc

If you see her responding well, keep talking until you make her feel comfortable with you. Share some things about you too and then kindly greet her and walk away.
Next time, say something to her based on the things you found out the previous time. Show her that you are interested but not that you are desperate, most girls don't like that either, I don't know why either.
Remember to be casual and funny, all girls appreciate someone who can make them laugh.
If you are shy, hide it by avoiding eye contact for too long and under no circumstance don't look at her breasts while you are talking to her. No girl likes that and i know why :/

My opinion is that the best timing to ask someone's their phone number is after you've made them feel comfortable around you.

And take it easy, you just got into college you will meet tons of pretty girls who want to become teachers.
 

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❤ Rei ❤;2025628 said:
*runs* here!

oh well, like JG2480 said most girls are into the shy behavior. Never understood why, but most of them are.
I think you should stop over thinking this and act normally trusting your feelings. All you know about her is that she's pretty and that she wants to be a teacher, right?
Next time you see her, approach her -not too close-, smile and say something casual "how was your day?", "how was the class?" etc etc etc

If you see her responding well, keep talking until you make her feel comfortable with you. Share some things about you too and then kindly greet her and walk away.
Next time, say something to her based on the things you found out the previous time. Show her that you are interested but not that you are desperate, most girls don't like that either, I don't know why either.
Remember to be casual and funny, all girls appreciate someone who can make them laugh.
If you are shy, hide it by avoiding eye contact for too long and under no circumstance don't look at her breasts while you are talking to her. No girl likes that and i know why :/

My opinion is that the best timing to ask someone's their phone number is after you've made them feel comfortable around you.

And take it easy, you just got into college you will meet tons of pretty girls who want to become teachers.
The bolded part made me ROTFL
and yeah be yourself dsont be someone your not :|
 

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❤ Rei ❤;2025628 said:
*runs* here!

oh well, like JG2480 said most girls are into the shy behavior. Never understood why, but most of them are.
I think you should stop over thinking this and act normally trusting your feelings. All you know about her is that she's pretty and that she wants to be a teacher, right?
Next time you see her, approach her -not too close-, smile and say something casual "how was your day?", "how was the class?" etc etc etc

If you see her responding well, keep talking until you make her feel comfortable with you. Share some things about you too and then kindly greet her and walk away.
Next time, say something to her based on the things you found out the previous time. Show her that you are interested but not that you are desperate, most girls don't like that either, I don't know why either.
Remember to be casual and funny, all girls appreciate someone who can make them laugh.
If you are shy, hide it by avoiding eye contact for too long and under no circumstance don't look at her breasts while you are talking to her. No girl likes that and i know why :/

My opinion is that the best timing to ask someone's their phone number is after you've made them feel comfortable around you.

And take it easy, you just got into college you will meet tons of pretty girls who want to become teachers.
But 10 minutes of staring equals to 30 minutes of physical training, it also decreases chance of getting heart attack and blood stroke by 50% for men :/
 
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