I give up on love. I don't deserve it. It really depresses me to see everyone enjoying love and it's packages. While I am alone all the time. No one understands me. I feel like I should forget about love completely and Depend only on myself. What do you guys think?
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24? You're two years older than me, so maybe it's not so much different. Anyway, you shouldn't worry. I once thought like that as well, but decided to enjoy life as it is rather than running around being worried why I haven't found the love of my life. Sometimes things just seem to show up suddenly, and then other events take a different turn and other things happens. What I'm trying to say is... The future is unknown, whatever it's going to be good or bad. However, there is no point in worrying about things, it's waste of time, time that you can use to enjoy the company of friends, family and whatever else that keep you happy.
Damn fam, you need to stop worring about love and just live life, stay single **** *****es and get money. I'm young though just turned 18, so i can't tell you much but from my experiences i learned to just live life 1 day at a time, you never know you may find that one. But for me after i graduate I'm going into college with no strings, and enjoying playing football and life.
But honestly i think you are just trolling lol ,
But honestly i think you are just trolling lol ,
Dreckerplayer
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You have jealousy issues.
Your idea of love is control and using someone at your dispense.
It's a contradiction that you say "I think I should depend on myself", but then turn around and say "What do you guys think"...
you're obviously incapable of doing that.
Just accept yourself. You're this jealous, inconsiderate, self-important, 24 year old that's just obsessed with himself.
And here I thought you were simply just pouring your heart out, so disappointing.
I don't think you appreciate the responses you're getting, or actually listening to them...I don't think anything is gonna help you, I think you're just full of jealousy, and have this hidden agenda.
I think you're just "stuck on stupid"...words cannot express the dysfunction and insincerity I get from you. You're "flipped upside down", bro.
Something about you...is just FLIPPED, reverse psychology.
Your idea of love is control and using someone at your dispense.
It's a contradiction that you say "I think I should depend on myself", but then turn around and say "What do you guys think"...
you're obviously incapable of doing that.
Just accept yourself. You're this jealous, inconsiderate, self-important, 24 year old that's just obsessed with himself.
And here I thought you were simply just pouring your heart out, so disappointing.
I don't think you appreciate the responses you're getting, or actually listening to them...I don't think anything is gonna help you, I think you're just full of jealousy, and have this hidden agenda.
I think you're just "stuck on stupid"...words cannot express the dysfunction and insincerity I get from you. You're "flipped upside down", bro.
Something about you...is just FLIPPED, reverse psychology.
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I don't know why you care. If you're going down your path in life, doing you and enjoying yourself, you'll be distracted from your "desire" for love and all that horse crap. You weren't born with it and you don't need it. Things come and go a hell of a lot of times in even one month, and imagine a year of enjoying yourself and living life.
Everyone else looks like they've found love but if we're being honest, most relationships today are extremely superficial, exceedingly bland and empty. Whatever you think you're missing out on is hardly much. At the end of the day those people are settling for scraps, while you could be out there, following your dreams and making yourself happy.
No one really needs to understand you by the way. Plenty of women I like don't understand half the stuff that comes out of my mouth, much less me. Most people can't understand and the majority of people if not all don't care. Stop being worried about everyone else. You just asked if you should rely on yourself, and the answer is yes.
Everyone else looks like they've found love but if we're being honest, most relationships today are extremely superficial, exceedingly bland and empty. Whatever you think you're missing out on is hardly much. At the end of the day those people are settling for scraps, while you could be out there, following your dreams and making yourself happy.
No one really needs to understand you by the way. Plenty of women I like don't understand half the stuff that comes out of my mouth, much less me. Most people can't understand and the majority of people if not all don't care. Stop being worried about everyone else. You just asked if you should rely on yourself, and the answer is yes.
GEIxBattleRifle
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From my own experience and reading up countless cases of divorces/break ups,
A man's worth is only measured by his utility to women.
Status say's he is offline.
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Thanks for the responses guys. I was asleep. I have read every comment.. they really mean a lot to me. I should focus on what I cannot lose, myself, and not others for sometime. I'll be kind to others and offer service and gratitude and forgiveness. But I'll have to, for the first time, be selfish for my own growth and happiness. Again, thank you for taking the time to read my post and responding. It means a lot to me, that you guys are reaching out to me. I finished "The Traveler's Gift,"which is the first step I have taken toward my journey of self growth.
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Adam Driver
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You can go to about every country in the world that has thousands of cities that holds even more people and find your soulmate that's "one of a kind", true that each of us as individuals are special like no other in certain ways but love is everywhere. Don't sit around on your butt and be melancholy about not finding it. Your love is probably around the block shopping or reading or having a coffee. good luck!
Jazzy Stardust
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24? Damn, it's over for you. You could still probably bag yourself a young 20 something year old by your early 30s if you have a lot of resources money, but it's only going to be about the money.
Honest question; do you consider yourself unattractive, or unsociable? What do you think is the main issue as to why you can't find anyone.
Honest question; do you consider yourself unattractive, or unsociable? What do you think is the main issue as to why you can't find anyone.
JStar King
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If you want life to end at relationships then sure. Plenty of other men in history went about their business, and then when the gains came in, the women came around.
Fact is, you need to do you. Relationships can take a lot of time and years away I promise you, you'll regret losing time to a relationship more than you'll regret a failed enterprise. Relationships only come around every now and again. Working toward your goals is a day to day grind with month to month benefits and advancement.
I suggest you read up on the Redpill subreddit.
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