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24? Damn, it's over for you. You could still probably bag yourself a young 20 something year old by your early 30s if you have a lot of resources money, but it's only going to be about the money.

Honest question; do you consider yourself unattractive, or unsociable? What do you think is the main issue as to why you can't find anyone.
I have depression
 

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You can go to about every country in the world that has thousands of cities that holds even more people and find your soulmate that's "one of a kind", true that each of us as individuals are special like no other in certain ways but love is everywhere. Don't sit around on your butt and be melancholy about not finding it. Your love is probably around the block shopping or reading or having a coffee. good luck!
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I give up on love. I don't deserve it. It really depresses me to see everyone enjoying love and it's packages. While I am alone all the time. No one understands me. I feel like I should forget about love completely and Depend only on myself. What do you guys think?
You're older than me but i'd say i know more about love and such than some others so i'd like to think anyways that i know what i'm talking about when i'm giving this advice. I've seen other threads from you, detailing your appearance and whatnot, not sure on the full details but i think its more or less you as a person (no offense.) Lets start off with some bullet points where you may or may not choose to go by if you want to change somethings.

1st) I'd say change somethings about your appearance, the short hair gentlemen look is for 40 year olds who've already gotten their wife locked in and don't really plan on finding anyone else. If you're overweight, go to the gym its really that simple or have a diet plan or both either one works, doing both just speeds things up a bit more. Not sure what clothes you wear, however just make sure you don't wear any suits or overly Eugene attire, remember you're in fact young not old yet so dress as such. Then mix up your attire with some style and a little class, a simple yet expensive watch will always do enough as a minimum but no one wants a 24 year old with rings and or chains unless you wear the chain correctly. If you do accept this advice i'd need more about yourself regarding daily appearance.

2nd) All girls like confidence, but there IS such a thing as over confidence, remember that you don't have to always come up to every girl such things makes you look like a ***** and no fresh girl wants any of that. Not too sure on how you do things in this department but always keep thinking of things to talk about but also keep the conversation about her, assume that all women are narcissistic psychopaths that only think about themselves and thus treat them as such. Always compliment them but dont do it too much, always keep it a bit distant as women also like the challenge but only do so if you know without doubt you have the conversation with a tight grasp, good comedy is also a plus, even if its bad comedy if she laughs shes down to ****. Always remember that you ALWAYS need the two Ws, ''Charm'' and ''Finesse'' without those you wont get anyone unless you're top 10 most hottest guys on earth which i doubt this lol.
 
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I have depression
Read up on what depression really even is. There are people in the middle east and other places, losing friends and family by the years to war and strife but still find a way to smile and enjoy themselves. Don't assume they aren't hurt, that they aren't struggling, but if you're in a better position than them, it's your duty to yourself to pull yourself up and do something.

Depression is a state of mind, meaning you can kick it out of the way if you put your mind to it. You weren't born depressed, and you don't have to die depressed.
 
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