[Discussion] How to get over your crush?

[SoulKiller]

Just man/women up and move the **** on. Only the weak let such pity things hinder them down in life.

 

[Houtarou]

Just man/women up and move the **** on. Only the weak let such pity things hinder them down in life.

What's the point of using words that not going to show anyway lol

 

[Poison]

What's the point of using words that not going to show anyway lol

What's the point in complaining when you know what's written behind the '*'

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Just man/women up and move the **** on. Only the weak let such pity things hinder them down in life.

How to get over your crush when you are weak?

 

[Michelle]

step 1
A crush is not rational usually. Think at the reason of it and stop idealising someone. You may discover your crush has no base so you can remove it.
step 2
Move forward.
step 3
If step 1 and step 2 doesn't help just wait to forget about it. Time is healing everything.

 

[Poison]

step 1
A crush is not rational usually. Think at the reason of it and stop idealising someone. You may discover your crush has no base so you can remove it.
step 2
Move forward.
step 3
If step 1 and step 2 doesn't help just wait to forget about it. Time is healing everything.

Yupp hahaha

 

[Chikombo]

You defenitely don't stalk her on facebook and instagram... looking at her so happy with someone else...

 

[Poison]

You defenitely don't stalk her on facebook and instagram... looking at her so happy with someone else...

What if you never seen her?

 

[Avani]

What if you never seen her?

Be Honest and unfollow them online ( no internet stalking) as well as reduce interaction in real life as much as you can.

If you still keep thinking about the person, write down what exactly you saw in them and what were the downsides.

We tend to ignore issues or negative sides of the people when having a crush. People make the mistake of creating an ideal version of their crush. But it helps if you can see them objectively and not with tinted glasses.

Spend time with other friends. Get a new hobby or learn something new. Basically keep yourself busy.

If someone truly has never even seen "her", then they must realize that person in reality maybe quite different than they fantasize them to be. Maybe it's time for them to get professional help to understand this.

 

[Poison]

Be Honest and unfollow them online ( no internet stalking) as well as reduce interaction in real life as much as you can.

If you still keep thinking about the person, write down what exactly you saw in them and what were the downsides.

- be honest to yourself. We tend to ignore issues or negative sides of the people when having a crush. But it helps if you can see them objectively and not with tinted glasses. People make the mistake of creating up an ideal version of their crush.

Spend time with other friends. Get a new hobby or learn something new. Basically keep yourself busy.

If someone truly have never even seen "her", then they must realize that person in real maybe quite different than they fantasize them to be. Maybe it's time for them to get professional help.

Woahh this sounds like, it would help!!!

 

[Passerby]

That actually wouldn't be bad..

 

[Tsuki]

Play League of Legends or Dota 2, your thoughts and frustrations will be redirected elsewhere.

 

[SoulKiller]

How to get over your crush when you are weak?

In that case natural selection will soon take it's course. So you don't have to worry much.

 

[Bellion]

Why am I not surprised you created this thread lol

 

[Poison]

Why am I not surprised you created this thread lol

No no this is not for my crush.

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In that case natural selection will soon take it's course. So you don't have to worry much.

Meh. The 48 hours starts now.

 

[Alubama]

Why am I not surprised you created this thread lol

IKR

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I was like another one with a crush problem and then I saw the thread started and I was like oke I get it now.

 

[Poison]

IKR

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I was like another one with a crush problem and then I saw the thread started and I was like oke I get it now.

Lmao. I didn't make it for myself you see. I made it for Oreki and people like that who needs inspiration and ideas to move on you know. Just a social work.

 

[Alubama]

Lmao. I didn't make it for myself you see. I made it for Oreki and people like that who needs inspiration and ideas to move on you know. Just a social work.

I know you did. But I thought it was someone new I could give some input for. But then I saw it was you who made it and we already discussed this topic so I felt no urge to post something usefull. xd

 

[Bellion]

No no this is not for my crush.

Ofc it isn't, coz you don't have a crush

IKR

I was like another one with a crush problem and then I saw the thread started and I was like oke I get it now.

Lmaooo, right?! Poison out here recycling her questions, baiting us

 

[Michelle]

Lmao. I didn't make it for myself you see. I made it for Oreki and people like that who needs inspiration and ideas to move on you know. Just a social work.

i would reply different if i knew it wasn't for you but anyway Avani posted a complet and correct answer and that is enough to read for everyone as best advice.
Social work..

 

[soretynha]

I really wanna know

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