[Discussion] Do you believe in "Love at first sight"?

Ryu Kishi

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its called lust bro, if its love at first sight then it has to happen with the both of you at the same time.
 
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I believe people believe they are in love at first sight. When you factor in all of the components that makes love (i.e., intimacy, sacrifice, friendship, commitment, and whatever else you can think of) how can any one person be so sure it's love and not spontaneous attraction?
 

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No. How am I going to tell someone's personality by looking at them?
 
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You fell in love with her body. You haven't fallen in love with her.
Good Luck though.
 

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Yes, I do.

When your child is born, you love at first glance.
 

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I don't fall for girls because they're beautiful or looking sexy and let's say I'm not the type that decide things like relationships on my emotions but this has happened to me even before i knew it , I'm in a strong relationship with these type of girls.....Lol
 

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No I have to look again.
 

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I think you just found her extremely attractive. I personally don't believe in love at first sight. In my opinion love begins to happen when you know someones flaws and weakness (we all have them). As it has been said looks are important but they are fleeting, a personality is forever. You fall in love with someone's personality and looks, but when it's just about the looks it is lust.

Good luck!
 

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I don't believe so. I believe you found her attractive to such a point that you wanted her to notice you, you liked her, she was fine, but I don't consider it love, I'm sure if you saw some hot ass celebrity walking down the road, you might have looked at her in the exact same way. Well Don't take my word for it, I've been brain washed by TV shows, so what do I know.
 

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No way, you can be fooled by a woman's beauty. But that's not love.
 

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NO, its a fairy tale, the only thing you are feeling is attraction at first sight, her personality might stink, if it does, then you will put up with it while you see her through rose coloured glasses and then when you get bored with her looks and see someone new the rose glasses will come off, you will see her for what she is and spend the next five years *****ing about what a brat she was. THE END.

Love is forever and is enormously rare, humans as a species do not bond for life, we just try to, 99% of all so called love stories are just a chemical reaction in the brain causing intense attraction and a temporary attachment, real love does exist but most of us will never experience it.
 
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