Confession : " I'm in-love with you"

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Yesterday I was having lunch with my girlfriend, girlfriend as a friend and before I knew it she gave me 4 different kinds of smile in one smile. A smile of joy, a smile of happiness, a smile full of warmth and a smile full of blushing. Out of the blue she said and I quote, " I'm in-love with you. " I was shell shocked. I mean, I was happy but sad at the same time. Happy because she said she's in-love with me. Sad because I didn't hear the magical three words which is/are "I love you". That made me think for a little. does being in-love with someone and loving someone the same thing or ? What do you think guys. I mean I do love her but after hearing that she's in-love with me I've been avoiding her. Today I had about 50 missed calls from her. I didn't tell her how I feel about her. Should I ask her if she loves me or does being in-love with me enough ? Help me out.
 
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Being in love means ¨Let's get a house, make little people and orgasms and die together." ¨I love you means¨ if you died, I'd be sad for a while, but I don't wanna do those other things.
 
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go date with her, but if you break up your friendship is pretty much gone.
Hard decision tbh.
 

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Either you're a dipshit whoz trying to interpret her words in a different manner unnecessarily OR you dont want to give her the D and finding an excuse for that
 

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Either you're a dipshit whoz trying to interpret her words in a different manner unnecessarily OR you dont want to give her the D and finding an excuse for that

ROFL. Comic relief.
OT:50 calls you dumb shit.
 

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You seem to be over complicating things man, she seems to really like you, so why not just talk it over with lunch or something instead of well, making things more bizarre than they need to be. Like dang bro she just gave you the stars but you're swimming towards the black hole.
 

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Yesterday I was having lunch with my girlfriend, girlfriend as a friend and before I knew it she gave me 4 different kinds of smile in one smile. A smile of joy, a smile of happiness, a smile full of warmth and a smile full of blushing. Out of the blue she said and I quote, " I'm in-love with you. " I was shell shocked. I mean, I was happy but sad at the same time. Happy because she said she's in-love with me. Sad because I didn't hear the magical three words which is/are "I love you". That made me think for a little. does being in-love with someone and loving someone the same thing or ? What do you think guys. I mean I do love her but after hearing that she's in-love with me I've been avoiding her. Today I had about 50 missed calls from her. I didn't tell her how I feel about her. Should I ask her if she loves me or does being in-love with me enough ? Help me out.

You seriously need to call her back. I'm guessing that she really likes you. You can talk to her and you can tell her that you love her as well. Avoid starting too fast, though.

However, according to your 50 missed calls from her, she might reject you sooner if you are going to confess to her later. She is in love with you, or simply interested in you, at least she likes you.
 

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All things fall apart eventually, it sucks but it's true. Just enjoy the relationship for what it is and have fun while it lasts.

Worrying about specific details like that are silly, that's way to specific but I'm sure her expression and body language got her words across.
 

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She loves you, then she loves you.
smh, I don't get why you're trying to interpret it differently, or trying to analyze that shit. Also 50 Damn Calls? If I were the girl, I would have gave up, and went it a man who actually will pick up.
 

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Yesterday I was having lunch with my girlfriend, girlfriend as a friend and before I knew it she gave me 4 different kinds of smile in one smile. A smile of joy, a smile of happiness, a smile full of warmth and a smile full of blushing. Out of the blue she said and I quote, " I'm in-love with you. " I was shell shocked. I mean, I was happy but sad at the same time. Happy because she said she's in-love with me. Sad because I didn't hear the magical three words which is/are "I love you". That made me think for a little. does being in-love with someone and loving someone the same thing or ? What do you think guys. I mean I do love her but after hearing that she's in-love with me I've been avoiding her. Today I had about 50 missed calls from her. I didn't tell her how I feel about her. Should I ask her if she loves me or does being in-love with me enough ? Help me out.

Haha, are you dense ? Because if you're not, then you're just a troll.
Whichever it is, it's still bad :yeah:
 

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Yesterday I was having lunch with my girlfriend, girlfriend as a friend and before I knew it she gave me 4 different kinds of smile in one smile. A smile of joy, a smile of happiness, a smile full of warmth and a smile full of blushing. Out of the blue she said and I quote, " I'm in-love with you. " I was shell shocked. I mean, I was happy but sad at the same time. Happy because she said she's in-love with me. Sad because I didn't hear the magical three words which is/are "I love you". That made me think for a little. does being in-love with someone and loving someone the same thing or ? What do you think guys. I mean I do love her but after hearing that she's in-love with me I've been avoiding her. Today I had about 50 missed calls from her. I didn't tell her how I feel about her. Should I ask her if she loves me or does being in-love with me enough ? Help me out.

50? She's obsessed. Let her be for a while. Lol She needs to chill.

On a more serious note- it is what it is. She likes you romantically. You like her back, so you should talk to her and see how things go.
 
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Thank you everyone. I just called her now and told her to meet me tomorrow for lunch and she sounded pretty excited to me. Guess I'll tell her then how I feel about her. She's in-love with me, what else could I wish for ? Starting tomorrow she'll be mine and I'll be hers. I almost messed up... Again thank you everyone. You guys are the best
 

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What it means is that, if you like this girl, you should have answered the phone already.
 

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She called you 50 times in one day? Are you over-exaggerating, is it more like five calls? I think it's clear how she feels about you. I think it is also clear that this will be a high maintenance relationship if she really has called you 50 times in one day.
 

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Thank you everyone. I just called her now and told her to meet me tomorrow for lunch and she sounded pretty excited to me. Guess I'll tell her then how I feel about her. She's in-love with me, what else could I wish for ? Starting tomorrow she'll be mine and I'll be hers. I almost messed up... Again thank you everyone. You guys are the best

Wishful thinking Lol
 

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50 calls :- better check for Crazy eyes though before you give her the D. If she is a stalker , better leave the state
 

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Yeah, she might be worse than Sakura.
 

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Yeah, she might be worse than Sakura.

50 calls in one day ? You think someone would have some self esteem. But then you find that they have gone ahead and had a kid with the person who was trying to kill them. Yeah that's totally sane choice
 
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