Being a girl
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My reaction exactly when I read this thread and saw his comment xd
What happened this time...?
Anyways, in the topic we're talking about, I think both genders can be the same. Meaning, it depends on the personality, not gender.
There are some guys who can take to heart the light things other people say carelessly. Just as some girls. Usually those who don't have as much confidence as others.
So the key is to be confident, and only take heart to the relevant things people say / really mean.
I just ignored the whole 'fat' part about this thread, but you get my point, both genders can care about what other people say about them (including appearances).
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SasukeLover5
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Beer totally helpslol beer always helps
but it can also get you in trouble lol
I am totally shy too but I think it's different
for girls because usually guys will come up to us.
I think it's like an unwritten rule that guys have to
pursue girls although I don't know why that is.
Death Bringer
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not always my dear.Beer totally helps
but it can also get you in trouble lol
I am totally shy too but I think it's different
for girls because usually guys will come up to us.
I think it's like an unwritten rule that guys have to
pursue girls although I don't know why that is.
as you may see later that there are guys who want the feeling to be mutual.
for me It's easy to talk to women as i am not the slightest bit shy because i want her to want me in her life as much as i want her in my life.
if you understand what i'm saying.
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just ignore them and let them know that if they don't like what they see then close their stinking eyes aight...U_U
MrSharingan
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lol that never works, I did that a few times and everytime girls thought I was gay U_U haha
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King Kazma
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lol let them think what they want coz at the end of the day u ain't going home to a man lol u think any guy can call me fat i'll tell them how stink their mom made them..U_U
Wow. Let me nicely point out some common things here.
First off, this has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with being a girl. This is your personal problem - you and the rest of the goddamn society being so uppity concerned about looks and power and money. But I don't exactly blame everything on females - after all, they're the play joke for males and especially in society nowadays, tend to play a much more "seductive" role in many aspects of the world.
Now, I tend to be rather neutral when it comes to genders. All of us act the same in the way that we all are selfish, and naturally do everything for ourselves, including the major problems of greed and power.
There shouldn't be such statements as "you act like a guy/girl" or "you're a tomboy" because there is simply no set definitions for either gender's personality and whatever is used is only stereotypical definitions set by the society.
I looked through this whole thread, and a lot of people are saying that being a female is easier than a male. I agree, to an extent, to this statement.
Females tend to judge more on appearance, and are, stereotypically speaking, more emotional, since they've been brought up since they were young to act like that. I simply...despise that. In fact, I can't tell you how much I hate how teenage females act nowadays - a bunch of meaningless people who walk around checking one another and guys out, forever spitting out the most worthless shit I can hear. Let's put it another way - I hate the stereotypical teenage female. I mean, honestly? In like fifty years or so, you wouldn't even give shit about your looks. As long as you are healthy now, there shouldn't be a problem with anything. Stop doing things just so you can gain friends and more benefits in accordance to your looks. Guys, too.
Males on the other hand tend not to judge so much on looks. At least, not as much as females do. They simply accept, for the most part. And even if they are judgmental, I'd doubt they go around screaming "I love you" in the most meaningless manner, put "<3" in like every place possible, and think everything is cute just so they can have this "cute" outlook. Thank you, but I prefer video game talk to "hot guys" talks. I'd rather be more rational than completely fake in everything I do.
The only problem would be here, is that guys have an advantage over girls when it comes to harassment - doesn't matter in a sexual or violent manner. But oh well. Sucks for girls being weak anyways.
Simple Conclusion: People need to stop being so self-conscious, since no one cares and it's a shit-dam society who judges too much. Especially gals.
*applauds* Simple truth and rational reasoning.
MrSharingan
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lol I think I'll just stick to my current pick up strategy.
get really really drunk and hit on all the chicks
SasukeLover5
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Yes I completely understand what your saying
and I know that there are guys that want the feeling
to be mutual. And I think that that's a great reason not
to be shy, although I could never not be shy lol.
I'm not saying I have guy problems or anything, it just
takes me a while to show my true personality
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