Being a girl

[Zerabitu]

Why complain something abour your weight?
If you're fat then you need to do something about it and get your ass off the couch.
If your too skinny, vise versa.
Anorexia and Bulimia and what ever Timon & Bumba sicknesses there are, are horrible ofc.
It just shows how fragile peoples minds are and they simply have no will power to do something about it, rather just go overboard with things.

Other than that, just be who you are. Fat, skinny, short, tall, who gives a rats ass.
And if you happen to hate something about yourself, simply do something about it.
I used to be rather fat in my youth but desided to do something about it and after years I came 3rd on a fitness competition.
I'm sorry and no intentions to be harsh but people complain too much about simple things such as these.

And this has nothing to do with being a girl. There are alot of men out there who struggle with these kind of things and feel pretty much the same way about them self. Girls only having these problems is just pure bullshit.
This thread seems to be only about your problems with your apperance.
Even so, stay strong girl <3​

 

[Wildtangent]

I guess some of you are missing the point here. this isnt to complain about my problems hell I dont give a crap about how you or any one else feels I should look like or act like. I'm just saying not everyone has the mind set that you and I have. Some people whether they would like to admit it or not are greatly affected by what people say and it is interesting to me that a doctor is so careless with his words. Even the people that dont "mean to sound harsh" sound harsh- words effect people so greatly. Have you noticed the news about bullying and suicides? People dont think about other peoples feelings and I find it very irritating. But thanks I am strong <3

 

[-Yard-]

Hmmm I see and also know how you feel. Kids in my opinion can be pretty awful to eachother(even some adults are brutal) and I am sorry that you had to go through that but am glad to hear it is better.

thank you.
just try not to let it get to you *when i say that i mean if anyone else says anything like that ever again*
or after a while you won't even recognize your self anymore, i still don't completely recognize my self.
talking about it actually helps I didn't and now i still have a little mental scaring
after i lost all of my weight i thought that most of my troubles were over
but then my 27 year old brother who is a complete ass hole in every way possible "im not exaggerating he really is horrible* he got in a fight with my dad *an actual fist fight* and i got enraged the most i had in a while but it felt different then being mad, like i wasn't just mad at him and well...i jumped in the fight, pulled my brother off my dad and beat the hell out of him i even almost broke his neck but then i started to calm down and i forced him to leave. and im 16 and hes 27.

but now i can honestly say that i don't really care what people say.

you should tell that doctor next time that you weren't comfortable with what he said and expect an apology because trust me an apology helps a lot more than you think it would.
but still he was a complete ass to say that.

 

[Zerabitu]

I guess some of you are missing the point here. this isnt to complain about my problems hell I dont give a crap about how you or any one else feels I should look like or act like. I'm just saying not everyone has the mind set that you and I have. Some people whether they would like to admit it or not are greatly affected by what people say and it is interesting to me that a doctor is so careless with his words. Even the people that dont "mean to sound harsh" sound harsh- words effect people so greatly. Have you noticed the news about bullying and suicides? People dont think about other peoples feelings and I find it very irritating. But thanks I am strong <3

Ah I guess I did miss the major point. I'm sorry hun, didn't mean to hurt :glomp^^.
But yes, the truth is that words can have a great effect on young people especially.
And that doctor thing is one of the most affecting things, same as your best friend.
I suppose people don't always think the words throughoutly and can hurt someone greatly.
Doctors have that way. Some are too professional and they are trained not to get emotinally attached.
It's a cold fact but still a young person with emotianl issues can be shattered very badly.
Meh, next time just make taco sauce out of his ballz :|

But never the less, the person who gets so easily offended, hurt by words has a problem aswell.
They shouldn't take everything they hear as a rude gesture or as a compliment eighter.
We can't deny the fac that there is something wrong with the person too.
There are so many things that affect one another.

Good and stay that way <3​

 

[Wildtangent]

^^ I agree with you totally on every point <3 glad there are people that see what I mean! and no worries I have a "follow up" app with him next week and I may just let him know how I feel... if I care enough that is. haha

 

[Death Bringer]

147 pounds is not fat at all andreally, i would have said something to that doctor.


@ yarduat
so your short tempered???

 

[-Yard-]

147 pounds is not fat at all andreally, i would have said something to that doctor.


@ yarduat
so your short tempered???

actually I'm very calm

 

[Anduril]

who cares about others it's your life live it as u please
EAT ,SLEEP , PLAY , DANCE,work ENJOY u dont get a second shot at life

 

[ZK]

Meh <.<
All of you worry too much O_O
Or you don't worry at all which is also a problem >_>
If you're fat skinny or bored try running around your school screaming "Wuuk Wuuk Wuuk" and then dig a hole in the corner of the school yard where you should bury the upper half of a platic figure and a piece of paper with names you "Leeroy", do it with a couple of friends while you sing some old songs....
Boarding school is so much funnier than it seems O_O

 

[Scary Yamato]

I guess being a girl is hard, but you guys don't make it easy on yourselves

Disclaimer: Now I am saying this as a generalized statement which is not directed at anyone in particular.

Self confidence is one of the hottest things a girl can have. When a girl is timid or meek it reflects and people can sense it. however, when they are confident, they glow, and any superficials flaws a girl has will dissapear when they get their swagger going.

Back to you: don't pay any attention to the doctor's comments. Sometimes people can mis-speak and say things that come out wrong. In college I had to deal with a lot of people who were really smart, but couldn't communicate propperly with normal people. They would say things that would seem normal to them, but was socially rude. Sometimes people are just like that.

 

[Wildtangent]

I guess being a girl is hard, but you guys don't make it easy on yourselves

Disclaimer: Now I am saying this as a generalized statement which is not directed at anyone in particular.

Self confidence is one of the hottest things a girl can have. When a girl is timid or meek it reflects and people can sense it. however, when they are confident, they glow, and any superficials flaws a girl has will dissapear when they get their swagger going.

Back to you: don't pay any attention to the doctor's comments. Sometimes people can mis-speak and say things that come out wrong. In college I had to deal with a lot of people who were really smart, but couldn't communicate propperly with normal people. They would say things that would seem normal to them, but was socially rude. Sometimes people are just like that.

I agree with you. but just like there are people who are really smart that don't communicate well there are people or take everything to heart or to seriously.

 

[MrSharingan]

haha I suck when it comes to talkin to girls.
I get extremely shy and they always take it the wrong way U_U

 

[Wildtangent]

^^ awww well there isnt anything wrong with being shy!

 

[MrSharingan]

yeah but I'm frikin 22 mannnnnn, it's to the point where my friends make fun of me whenever there's a girl around lol U_U it's kinda sad really

 

[Wildtangent]

lol I see. maybe your friends should help you and not make fun of you?? besides when you find the 'right girl' she'll get you and you wont be nervous/shy and she wont take anything you say/do the wrong way

 

[UchihaBrat]

Nee-san!! Worry not! This brat loves every nee-san on NB!!<3<3 My love shall not be restricted by body shape!!

 

[Scary Yamato]

Nee-san!! Worry not! This brat loves every nee-san on NB!!<3<3 My love shall not be restricted by body shape!!

welcome back nii-chan^_^

 

[MrSharingan]

I think I'll just stick to being belligerently drunk towards everyone
that way I can just do what I want

 

[Scary Yamato]

yeah but I'm frikin 22 mannnnnn, it's to the point where my friends make fun of me whenever there's a girl around lol U_U it's kinda sad really

get some good comebacks and look like a badass in front of the girl.

 

[MrSharingan]

get some good comebacks and look like a badass in front of the girl.

lol beer always helps