abortion your thoughts on it.

[-Haku Yuki-]

you know what seems dumb why do so many women get raped they should stop going places alone esapealy at night!

and at above. it's ok but the next time you mentiomn you have a kid make sure you includ the gender.

 

[Avani]

ok btw you could have said that it wasn't a boy but the princeple is the same. anyway true but even if they choose to abort the baby they will still have those mental issues eitehr way. the only way to stop abortion is to stop having ***. so to all women stop walkimng around places alone at night or any time because you might get raped! to guys keep it in your pants!

You are really giving too much stress on the emotional part- It's there at times but, not to this extent all the time unless there are other circumstances involved as well. One gets attached more to the child as the time passes- the more one has to take care of it- the feelings develope like any other relationship. It's probably the most important for most of the woment but, still it needs to be taken care of..

And saying no to *** is not that easy- when a person gets married, the consent to have *** is implied. That's why marital rapes are so diffiult to prove- because consent factor is assumed. One must have to prove beyond doubt otherwise that on this particular occasion the consent was not given- and why it's not accepted at all in most places.

It's such a complicated issue and so many factors and situations can come up that we can not even imagine at times.

I don't support abortion in casual way. Better learn to behave and control yourself. But taking away the option is not right fair. We never know who may need it and what are their particular reasons.

 

[xXFluckerXx]

abortion is wrong

 

[Seffy]

you know what seems dumb why do so many women get raped they should stop going places alone esapealy at night!

and at above. it's ok but the next time you mentiomn you have a kid make sure you includ the gender.

Yeah I don't like going anywhere alone and I won't let one of my friends go alone somewhere either. Yeah I thought you would just say kid or child

 

[Avani]

you know what seems dumb why do so many women get raped they should stop going places alone esapealy at night!

and at above. it's ok but the next time you mentiomn you have a kid make sure you includ the gender.

Yeah. It would be even better if they start covering themselves from head to toe, Stop going out without a male accompaning them all the time all together, oh wait Taliban is right after all.

Many women are out there at night because they have no other option. The job and personal errands as well. I don't think many enjoy walking in a dark alley at night just because.

In a large number of rape cases, the rapists are not some stranger but, the person women knew and trusted- often a relative, a neighbour, a date, even a cousin or father. Many girls are below age 10, some as young as 3-4 at times even 80 year old gran mum gets raped in her home. :shrug:

 

[-Haku Yuki-]

Yeah. It would be even better if they start covering themselves from head to toe, Stop going out without a male accompaning them all the time all together, oh wait Taliban is right after all.

Many women are out there at night because they have no other option. The job and personal errands as well. I don't think may enjoy walking in a dark alley at night just because.

In a large number of rape cases, the rapists are not some stranger but, the person women knew and trusted- often a relative, a neighbour, a date, even a cousin or father. Many girls are below age 10, some as young as 3-4 at times even 80 year old gran mum gets raped in her home. :shrug:

wow really an 80 year old women. they should take birth control pills every day just because that might happen. also they have cars. they can draive home it's hard to rape some one in a car with out a gun.

 

[Avani]

wow really an 80 year old women. they should take birth control pills every day just because that might happen. also they have cars. they can draive home it's hard to rape some one in a car with out a gun.

The 80 year old woman's case was posted at Nb itself. I have read about 76 year old getting raped by some 19 year old. U_U there are some random cases lol.. off course they don't need pills- I hope. I just meant in the context of rape. U_U

Female kids thing is more common and more horrible because most of these girls simply are destroyed for life. No therapy is going to work because often the physical damage is beyond repair. Or if it is - the parents are unable to secure the proper medical care for the child. People are often afraid of social stigma attached to their daughter as well because society start blaming the girl for the incident.- like you raised the question- why women go out alone in the night..

Not everyone has car and can drive. You have to see at the problem globally.

 

[Uchiha Riyo]

No reason for someone to throw away a life just because you ruined your own...........

 

[Avani]

It's interesting to see people repeating without understanding the reality of life. Who are we to judge somebody elses decision and circumstances - we can just opiniate at best and parrot what we hear others say otherwise. No need to give any reasoning or explain any exceptions.

 

[thenarutoking]

It should not be allowed after 6months as thats when kids are actually alive. But before 6 months sure go ahead. And what if the person is a rape victim?

 

[Karmolo]

It's the woman's choice. It's her body, so nobody can tell her what to do with it. In my opinion.

I agreed that one is woman choice what to do and I respect that. If she like to keep it then the man take responiblity of his action now if they are dating.

 

[Rodukaime Namikaze]

I feel that most of the situations that a girl gets pregnant without wanting to usually turn out to be her fault (I know I'll get flamed). Getting caught by a guy she trusted...she chose to get that drink from him. She chose to follow the guy to his apartment by HERSELF.
Please bear with me here. The development of life is a great opportunity and to just take it away. Who are we to be God and decide if there should be life or not? Let the babies grow and live! *teardrop*

 

[Jae Dong180]

I am for abortion if the circumstances are justifiable.....and depends how develop the baby is...

 

[Osiris.]

Depends what situation ur in, if u get raped, and have a child, when that child is born, everytime u look at it, ur gonna be reminded of the time u got rapped and thats the consequences, but do i believe in it, NOPE,

 

[Uchiha Riyo]

It's the woman's choice. It's her body, so nobody can tell her what to do with it. In my opinion.

It's also a baby's life.

 

[Punk Hazard]

you know what seems dumb why do so many women get raped they should stop going places alone esapealy at night!

and at above. it's ok but the next time you mentiomn you have a kid make sure you includ the gender.

exactly. you say in movies where this stuff happens. it may be a movie, but any can put on a hockey mask and sneak up behind you with a knife and rape you

 

[JojocIaw]

Some of you guys just assume that the woman is the slot and don't even try to dig deep inside and blame the guy. Many of you assume that she asked to be raped and she asked to have the child. I can tell that that is what the majority of you are saying based on your responses.

You are not that woman. That is between her and whoever she trusts to explain her situation to. If you can't agree that it's her choice then too bad. That is all they will be, opinions. If you are so bent on deciding for her and talking about "Ohhh the child's life...please think of the children," why don't you go help the millions of orphans that are out there who need a loving home and family. All those kids who need love and attention. Help those guys out first THEN you can start talking. Either way like I said it's her choice not yours. Don't infringe on her rights just as we don't infringe on your rights.

Sorry if that comes off as overprotective but I have had a dear friend go through the hell of rape. You won't believe the trouble and ignorant minds we had to get through to get her help. Many of them had the same mindset that the majority of you have. One man even had the balls to tell her she shouldn't have asked for it and that it was her fault. Believe me I had to get arrested on some occasions because of people's attitudes. And the horrible thing was that it was a friend of ours who raped her. I hope that guy rots in prison. At least for the short time he is there.

-rage-

Anyways, like I said, sorry if I came off as mean or rude but its a very personal issue that I have to deal with. Can you imagine what she must be going through in her head?

 

[Punk Hazard]

It should not be allowed after 6months as thats when kids are actually alive. But before 6 months sure go ahead. And what if the person is a rape victim?

it doesnt matter how many months you go along, it is still ending a life. what does rape have to do with it? ADOPTION. it pisses me off to no ends to hear people try to justify killing a baby. what if you had been aborted and god let you see what your life would be like if you werent? wouldnt you be pissed?

 

[Punk Hazard]

Some of you guys just assume that the woman is the slot and don't even try to dig deep inside and blame the guy. Many of you assume that she asked to be raped and she asked to have the child. I can tell that that is what the majority of you are saying based on your responses.

You are not that woman. That is between her and whoever she trusts to explain her situation to. If you can't agree that it's her choice then too bad. That is all they will be, opinions. If you are so bent on deciding for her and talking about "Ohhh the child's life...please think of the children," why don't you go help the millions of orphans that are out there who need a loving home and family. All those kids who need love and attention. Help those guys out first THEN you can start talking. Either way like I said it's her choice not yours. Don't infringe on her rights just as we don't infringe on your rights.

Sorry if that comes off as overprotective but I have had a dear friend go through the hell of rape. You won't believe the trouble and ignorant minds we had to get through to get her help. Many of them had the same mindset that the majority of you have. One man even had the balls to tell her she shouldn't have asked for it and that it was her fault. Believe me I had to get arrested on some occasions because of people's attitudes. And the horrible thing was that it was a friend of ours who raped her. I hope that guy rots in prison. At least for the short time he is there.

-rage-

Anyways, like I said, sorry if I came off as mean or rude but its a very personal issue that I have to deal with. Can you imagine what she must be going through in her head?

that makes sense, but how can you compare orphans to aborted kids? at least they're alive. id rather be an orphan than an aborted kid, cuz at least i can enjoy all the things in life to enjoy

 

[Vixen]

well... i know alot of girl would have gotten pregnant and had to get an abortion... i dont condone it but as a teenager and a human being in general sometimes you have to do what is necessary at the time..