Your statement is is based off what you have said, and you're expecting people to just except it without proof and move on. People cannot do that because they need to be heard as well. They also need proof because we as a society have been brought to believe that nothing can be true without PHYSICAL evidence (written or orally). In this case from the manga or Kishi. Not everyone's thinking is on the same level as yours or think in the same way you do. Its not logical to assume they do, Or think others are stupid because they don't understand or see things the way you do.
I also want to point out I do like your theory and because I'm a huge fan of the hyuga, but however like a lot of people on here I need physical evidence; Not someone saying that this is what happened because its what happened.
We also have to take into account that there is many people to translate the manga's and Anime and not all of them are the same wording. So we do have to look at that.