[Discussion] Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
:sy:... Ive met plenty of real girls, thats not the case. There isnt anything to grow out of.
First of all I know what love is, I had about 3 girlfreinds in highschool and one of them I fell deep in love with. Secondly, Im 19.
Lmao....No. It won't be ''True Love''. It will be ''Electronic Love'' U_U U_U
:sy:... Ive met plenty of real girls, thats not the case. There isnt anything to grow out of.
First of all I know what love is, I had about 3 girlfreinds in highschool and one of them I fell deep in love with. Secondly, Im 19.
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My ex GF and I have a child and my current GF(complicated situations to make a short story) I met both in an MMO. It all depends on what your willing to do and how far you are willing to go to make things work out. Today is my 5th month with my GF we are very happy even though we are quite a few states away from each other. And we love each other very much. And we are currently working on living together. So again it all depends on how far you are willing to go.
My ex GF and I have a child and my current GF(complicated situations to make a short story) I met both in an MMO. It all depends on what your willing to do and how far you are willing to go to make things work out. Today is my 5th month with my GF we are very happy even though we are quite a few states away from each other. And we love each other very much. And we are currently working on living together. So again it all depends on how far you are willing to go.
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Lol. I didnt know there where structure for how love was or is built. Have you ever head of the word '' Love at first sight ''? If you really dont know the true meaning of love ( i dont care if you had 10 girlfriends or have been heartbroken you can still dont know the meaning of the word ) Then you shoudlnt talk outloud how it works, YES it maybe the way you see it but if you look at the thread maker is view is diffrent there by dont neglect him because hes had a diffrent view lately.
OT: As I told in my previous comment we all have diffrent view on love, But in this case I PERFECTLY understand the thread maker, this does not only apply to men and boys, girls and women does the same thing, believe me I have witnessed it and seen it.
WHAT THE **** DOES THE OTHERS THINK!? WTF THIS GUY IS NUTS?!
Your mind is the key to everything, yes your dummy brain (duh). When your brain learn of a new existence of for example a Girl who you find attractive ( IN YOUR WAY ) you'll start a conversation, now if you have a good imagination you'll start fantasying about this person and your uncouncsions takes a very good liking to this persona, therefore you have creataed an alternative person with you courosity and imagination > leads to '' Love '' in this case.
LOL BUT WHAT IF YOU ONLY HAVE SEEN HER ONCE AND KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HER?
Depends, some guys just easily fall for girls at the first sight same with girls, but it's sometimes our nature and instinct to tell our mind what and how to react so its a diffrent scenario for everyone!
SUMMARY: YES TO EVERY QUESTION ASKED BY THREAD MAKER!11111111111
Lol. I didnt know there where structure for how love was or is built. Have you ever head of the word '' Love at first sight ''? If you really dont know the true meaning of love ( i dont care if you had 10 girlfriends or have been heartbroken you can still dont know the meaning of the word ) Then you shoudlnt talk outloud how it works, YES it maybe the way you see it but if you look at the thread maker is view is diffrent there by dont neglect him because hes had a diffrent view lately.
OT: As I told in my previous comment we all have diffrent view on love, But in this case I PERFECTLY understand the thread maker, this does not only apply to men and boys, girls and women does the same thing, believe me I have witnessed it and seen it
. WHAT THE **** DOES THE OTHERS THINK!? WTF THIS GUY IS NUTS?!
Your mind is the key to everything, yes your dummy brain (duh). When your brain learn of a new existence of for example a Girl who you find attractive ( IN YOUR WAY ) you'll start a conversation, now if you have a good imagination you'll start fantasying about this person and your uncouncsions takes a very good liking to this persona, therefore you have creataed an alternative person with you courosity and imagination > leads to '' Love '' in this case.
LOL BUT WHAT IF YOU ONLY HAVE SEEN HER ONCE AND KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HER?
Depends, some guys just easily fall for girls at the first sight same with girls, but it's sometimes our nature and instinct to tell our mind what and how to react so its a diffrent scenario for everyone!
SUMMARY: YES TO EVERY QUESTION ASKED BY THREAD MAKER!11111111111
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
Hoplessly romantic xd
But yeah, I suppose it can work, but only if you talk on the phone/skype/etc. If it's just like on here, than you don't know if it's a dude or a dudett. So, be wary. I do think it's possible and wish you the best luck in it. My advice: Just simply have the best contact with each other you can when you two can't meet, but eventually do meet.
Hoplessly romantic xd
But yeah, I suppose it can work, but only if you talk on the phone/skype/etc. If it's just like on here, than you don't know if it's a dude or a dudett. So, be wary. I do think it's possible and wish you the best luck in it. My advice: Just simply have the best contact with each other you can when you two can't meet, but eventually do meet.
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that stamen is stupid. You clearly haven't had a gf in real life or if u have, u haven't fallen for someone online.
I have and both are pretty real or at least the feelings 'feel real' haven't dated someone online but still, atm I have someone I adore. Will we go further? who knows, I want to meet her one day.
Idk, I don't believe they work but it can happen..I have to learn not to say "no it cant work or it wont happen" b/c..like my friend says "SHIT HAPPENS"
that stamen is stupid. You clearly haven't had a gf in real life or if u have, u haven't fallen for someone online.
I have and both are pretty real or at least the feelings 'feel real' haven't dated someone online but still, atm I have someone I adore. Will we go further? who knows, I want to meet her one day.
Idk, I don't believe they work but it can happen..I have to learn not to say "no it cant work or it wont happen" b/c..like my friend says "SHIT HAPPENS"
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
You find people on the internet you are interested in. Meet them in real life or else nothing will happen.
You find people on the internet you are interested in. Meet them in real life or else nothing will happen.
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95% are fake they doesn't fall in love and 5% can be true
95% are fake they doesn't fall in love and 5% can be true
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
It's pure INFATUATION!!!
It's pure INFATUATION!!!
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
either infatuation or lust. :|
either infatuation or lust. :|
Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
Wait... what? I have no clue what your talking about.
Wait... what?
I have no clue what your talking about.
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
Internet is a good place to express yourself.
Information can travel very fast on internet and can be shared with multible people , and then they share it and so on.
Ive met Girlz on internet , who are close to my region , and we have had dates , and later I have found out , that they are some ones relatives in our school or so.
It can take you 1 minute to find information about people.
But if you went to School or a Mall and started asking people , do you have any relatives who would go out with me (here take this is my picture and my phone number , please spread it out) = Then you are a weirdo.
Also good place too find possible dates is too just hang out everywhere or make trips with friends.
Ive met pretty intresting people so far
Information can travel very fast on internet and can be shared with multible people , and then they share it and so on.
Ive met Girlz on internet , who are close to my region , and we have had dates , and later I have found out , that they are some ones relatives in our school or so.
It can take you 1 minute to find information about people.
But if you went to School or a Mall and started asking people , do you have any relatives who would go out with me (here take this is my picture and my phone number , please spread it out) = Then you are a weirdo.
Also good place too find possible dates is too just hang out everywhere or make trips with friends.
Ive met pretty intresting people so far
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
His point is that it COULD rahter much be a boy than girl you are talking to online since you dont have met in real life, In other words he says that your scenario is unrealistic.
EDIT: and he means he cant relate to your questions and opinons
Wait... what?
His point is that it COULD rahter much be a boy than girl you are talking to online since you dont have met in real life, In other words he says that your scenario is unrealistic.
EDIT: and he means he cant relate to your questions and opinons
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
It won't end well you don't kow who they are what they look like and even if you do
nothing will happen between you!
It won't end well you don't kow who they are what they look like and even if you do
nothing will happen between you!
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
My last boyfriend, well, we met on the internet... and it was love at the first sight, just from some pictures... and we spoke a lot on Ym and stuff like that, before getting to know each other in real life.
We've had an almost 2 years relationship.
So, it can be...
My last boyfriend, well, we met on the internet... and it was love at the first sight, just from some pictures... and we spoke a lot on Ym and stuff like that, before getting to know each other in real life.
We've had an almost 2 years relationship.
So, it can be...
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
I have one syllable for you.
Skype.
I have one syllable for you.
Skype.
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Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)
By that logic you are saying that dating is about physical contact. Dating is about mental association, not physical, I do not need to touch you to communicate with you, and *** is not about love, *** shows love but there are many other things to do so as well, but *** shows the connection for which love has established, there are many ways to do that online. Dating is also not about ***/physical contact . Honestly, if you think that dating is about physical contact, you have some learning to do. Yes, it may show an expression and communication on another level, however, *** isn't the only way to show that emotion that is required. Physical contact is not love, it is merely an expression of love, for it is not the *** nor the physical contact but it is the emotion behind it that shows the love.
You can know who they are and what they look like by asking for their photos and then, it only takes a short conversation to learn about them. What you said however, is very naive. You need to understand that love does not come from physical contact, if you have a husband or wife and they go away on a business trip for a week, that doesn't make you single for that week. Dating is about finding someone with your interests and that communicates with you on a mental level. Then when you find someone that you absolutely adore for them being a good person by your standards, you then can feel affection towards them. You should never go based on looks, but for personality, I am not drawn in by physical attraction, I am drawn in by their mental attraction. Maybe it's due to my personality being more of the dominant type, therefore I can't stand someone who looks good but has a crappy personality, other wise I cannot feel attracted to their physical appearance. I can only feel attracted to their physical appearance when I am attracted to their mental appearance, therefore at that time I will be taking everything about them into perspective. So, I cannot be with someone who isn't my type. I do not store my want or ability to be with them in their physical appearance, because then I really limit my options.
I am the type that looks for inner beauty, not the physical beauty. Just one more reason why I truly despise women who are full of themselves just because they think their looks are great. So naive they are. And the men who get with that type are cheating themselves. Why should anyone only date based on physical appearance? By that I mean the person being next to them. You date mentaly, not physically, if dating was all about being physical then the world population would be so much higher right now. Because everyone would be whoring themselves on their first date and every date. Like I said, dating is about mental attraction, internet dating is good because it gives you time to know that person very well and it builds up the need to want to be beside them and creates a strong relationship that will last longer than a relationship where it is about being physical. That is because dating for personality allows you to actually like and love trhat person, not their looks or them being there. You should date for what kind of person they are, for what they can do. Internet dating allows that over the logic that you are going by. I am not saying that local dating is flawed in anyway, but the logic that you have is what is flawed. I hope you learned something.
By that logic you are saying that dating is about physical contact. Dating is about mental association, not physical, I do not need to touch you to communicate with you, and *** is not about love, *** shows love but there are many other things to do so as well, but *** shows the connection for which love has established, there are many ways to do that online. Dating is also not about ***/physical contact . Honestly, if you think that dating is about physical contact, you have some learning to do. Yes, it may show an expression and communication on another level, however, *** isn't the only way to show that emotion that is required. Physical contact is not love, it is merely an expression of love, for it is not the *** nor the physical contact but it is the emotion behind it that shows the love.
You can know who they are and what they look like by asking for their photos and then, it only takes a short conversation to learn about them. What you said however, is very naive. You need to understand that love does not come from physical contact, if you have a husband or wife and they go away on a business trip for a week, that doesn't make you single for that week. Dating is about finding someone with your interests and that communicates with you on a mental level. Then when you find someone that you absolutely adore for them being a good person by your standards, you then can feel affection towards them. You should never go based on looks, but for personality, I am not drawn in by physical attraction, I am drawn in by their mental attraction. Maybe it's due to my personality being more of the dominant type, therefore I can't stand someone who looks good but has a crappy personality, other wise I cannot feel attracted to their physical appearance. I can only feel attracted to their physical appearance when I am attracted to their mental appearance, therefore at that time I will be taking everything about them into perspective. So, I cannot be with someone who isn't my type. I do not store my want or ability to be with them in their physical appearance, because then I really limit my options.
I am the type that looks for inner beauty, not the physical beauty. Just one more reason why I truly despise women who are full of themselves just because they think their looks are great. So naive they are. And the men who get with that type are cheating themselves. Why should anyone only date based on physical appearance? By that I mean the person being next to them. You date mentaly, not physically, if dating was all about being physical then the world population would be so much higher right now. Because everyone would be whoring themselves on their first date and every date. Like I said, dating is about mental attraction, internet dating is good because it gives you time to know that person very well and it builds up the need to want to be beside them and creates a strong relationship that will last longer than a relationship where it is about being physical. That is because dating for personality allows you to actually like and love trhat person, not their looks or them being there. You should date for what kind of person they are, for what they can do. Internet dating allows that over the logic that you are going by. I am not saying that local dating is flawed in anyway, but the logic that you have is what is flawed. I hope you learned something.
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