[Discussion] Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

[Finn]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

By that logic you are saying that dating is about physical contact. Dating is about mental association, not physical, I do not need to touch you to communicate with you, and *** is not about love, *** shows love but there are many other things to do so as well, but *** shows the connection for which love has established, there are many ways to do that online. Dating is also not about ***/physical contact . Honestly, if you think that dating is about physical contact, you have some learning to do. Yes, it may show an expression and communication on another level, however, *** isn't the only way to show that emotion that is required. Physical contact is not love, it is merely an expression of love, for it is not the *** nor the physical contact but it is the emotion behind it that shows the love.


You can know who they are and what they look like by asking for their photos and then, it only takes a short conversation to learn about them. What you said however, is very naive. You need to understand that love does not come from physical contact, if you have a husband or wife and they go away on a business trip for a week, that doesn't make you single for that week. Dating is about finding someone with your interests and that communicates with you on a mental level. Then when you find someone that you absolutely adore for them being a good person by your standards, you then can feel affection towards them. You should never go based on looks, but for personality, I am not drawn in by physical attraction, I am drawn in by their mental attraction. Maybe it's due to my personality being more of the dominant type, therefore I can't stand someone who looks good but has a crappy personality, other wise I cannot feel attracted to their physical appearance. I can only feel attracted to their physical appearance when I am attracted to their mental appearance, therefore at that time I will be taking everything about them into perspective. So, I cannot be with someone who isn't my type. I do not store my want or ability to be with them in their physical appearance, because then I really limit my options.


I am the type that looks for inner beauty, not the physical beauty. Just one more reason why I truly despise women who are full of themselves just because they think their looks are great. So naive they are. And the men who get with that type are cheating themselves. Why should anyone only date based on physical appearance? By that I mean the person being next to them. You date mentaly, not physically, if dating was all about being physical then the world population would be so much higher right now. Because everyone would be whoring themselves on their first date and every date. Like I said, dating is about mental attraction, internet dating is good because it gives you time to know that person very well and it builds up the need to want to be beside them and creates a strong relationship that will last longer than a relationship where it is about being physical. That is because dating for personality allows you to actually like and love trhat person, not their looks or them being there. You should date for what kind of person they are, for what they can do. Internet dating allows that over the logic that you are going by. I am not saying that local dating is flawed in anyway, but the logic that you have is what is flawed. I hope you learned something.

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[Pavoneo]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

By that logic you are saying that dating is about physical contact. Dating is about mental association, not physical, I do not need to touch you to communicate with you, and *** is not about love, *** shows love but there are many other things to do so as well, but *** shows the connection for which love has established, there are many ways to do that online. Dating is also not about ***/physical contact . Honestly, if you think that dating is about physical contact, you have some learning to do. Yes, it may show an expression and communication on another level, however, *** isn't the only way to show that emotion that is required. Physical contact is not love, it is merely an expression of love, for it is not the *** nor the physical contact but it is the emotion behind it that shows the love.


You can know who they are and what they look like by asking for their photos and then, it only takes a short conversation to learn about them. What you said however, is very naive. You need to understand that love does not come from physical contact, if you have a husband or wife and they go away on a business trip for a week, that doesn't make you single for that week. Dating is about finding someone with your interests and that communicates with you on a mental level. Then when you find someone that you absolutely adore for them being a good person by your standards, you then can feel affection towards them. You should never go based on looks, but for personality, I am not drawn in by physical attraction, I am drawn in by their mental attraction. Maybe it's due to my personality being more of the dominant type, therefore I can't stand someone who looks good but has a crappy personality, other wise I cannot feel attracted to their physical appearance. I can only feel attracted to their physical appearance when I am attracted to their mental appearance, therefore at that time I will be taking everything about them into perspective. So, I cannot be with someone who isn't my type. I do not store my want or ability to be with them in their physical appearance, because then I really limit my options.


I am the type that looks for inner beauty, not the physical beauty. Just one more reason why I truly despise women who are full of themselves just because they think their looks are great. So naive they are. And the men who get with that type are cheating themselves. Why should anyone only date based on physical appearance? By that I mean the person being next to them. You date mentaly, not physically, if dating was all about being physical then the world population would be so much higher right now. Because everyone would be whoring themselves on their first date and every date. Like I said, dating is about mental attraction, internet dating is good because it gives you time to know that person very well and it builds up the need to want to be beside them and creates a strong relationship that will last longer than a relationship where it is about being physical. That is because dating for personality allows you to actually like and love trhat person, not their looks or them being there. You should date for what kind of person they are, for what they can do. Internet dating allows that over the logic that you are going by. I am not saying that local dating is flawed in anyway, but the logic that you have is what is flawed. I hope you learned something.

Yet people never understand this and get criticized for things like internet dating.

 

[mcchikeneater]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

I myself am not really into E-dating. I'm shallow and base my relationships on looks, because I ignore 75% of what chicks say to me anyways. I'll still hump an ugly chick, as long as shes not too ugly, and not fat, fat chicks gross me out. But I don't want a relationship with a girl that I can't regularly have *** with, or that can't feed me. In fact I don't want a relationship at all. I gave up on relationships a long time ago. I don't mind *** partners, but I refuse to let another girl get closer to me than a *** partner. As soon as they get close now, I start ignoring phone calls and go find another one.

You can call me an ass hole, but have had my heart broken many times, so now...

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[Ramenamaterasu]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

By that logic you are saying that dating is about physical contact. Dating is about mental association, not physical, I do not need to touch you to communicate with you, and *** is not about love, *** shows love but there are many other things to do so as well, but *** shows the connection for which love has established, there are many ways to do that online. Dating is also not about ***/physical contact . Honestly, if you think that dating is about physical contact, you have some learning to do. Yes, it may show an expression and communication on another level, however, *** isn't the only way to show that emotion that is required. Physical contact is not love, it is merely an expression of love, for it is not the *** nor the physical contact but it is the emotion behind it that shows the love.


You can know who they are and what they look like by asking for their photos and then, it only takes a short conversation to learn about them. What you said however, is very naive. You need to understand that love does not come from physical contact, if you have a husband or wife and they go away on a business trip for a week, that doesn't make you single for that week. Dating is about finding someone with your interests and that communicates with you on a mental level. Then when you find someone that you absolutely adore for them being a good person by your standards, you then can feel affection towards them. You should never go based on looks, but for personality, I am not drawn in by physical attraction, I am drawn in by their mental attraction. Maybe it's due to my personality being more of the dominant type, therefore I can't stand someone who looks good but has a crappy personality, other wise I cannot feel attracted to their physical appearance. I can only feel attracted to their physical appearance when I am attracted to their mental appearance, therefore at that time I will be taking everything about them into perspective. So, I cannot be with someone who isn't my type. I do not store my want or ability to be with them in their physical appearance, because then I really limit my options.


I am the type that looks for inner beauty, not the physical beauty. Just one more reason why I truly despise women who are full of themselves just because they think their looks are great. So naive they are. And the men who get with that type are cheating themselves. Why should anyone only date based on physical appearance? By that I mean the person being next to them. You date mentaly, not physically, if dating was all about being physical then the world population would be so much higher right now. Because everyone would be whoring themselves on their first date and every date. Like I said, dating is about mental attraction, internet dating is good because it gives you time to know that person very well and it builds up the need to want to be beside them and creates a strong relationship that will last longer than a relationship where it is about being physical. That is because dating for personality allows you to actually like and love trhat person, not their looks or them being there. You should date for what kind of person they are, for what they can do. Internet dating allows that over the logic that you are going by. I am not saying that local dating is flawed in anyway, but the logic that you have is what is flawed. I hope you learned something.

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[-Yard-]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

Lol. I didnt know there where structure for how love was or is built. Have you ever head of the word '' Love at first sight ''? If you really dont know the true meaning of love ( i dont care if you had 10 girlfriends or have been heartbroken you can still dont know the meaning of the word ) Then you shoudlnt talk outloud how it works, YES it maybe the way you see it but if you look at the thread maker is view is diffrent there by dont neglect him because hes had a diffrent view lately.

OT: As I told in my previous comment we all have diffrent view on love, But in this case I PERFECTLY understand the thread maker, this does not only apply to men and boys, girls and women does the same thing, believe me I have witnessed it and seen it .

WHAT THE **** DOES THE OTHERS THINK!? WTF THIS GUY IS NUTS?!


Your mind is the key to everything, yes your dummy brain (duh). When your brain learn of a new existence of for example a Girl who you find attractive ( IN YOUR WAY ) you'll start a conversation, now if you have a good imagination you'll start fantasying about this person and your uncouncsions takes a very good liking to this persona, therefore you have creataed an alternative person with you courosity and imagination > leads to '' Love '' in this case.

LOL BUT WHAT IF YOU ONLY HAVE SEEN HER ONCE AND KNOW NOTHING ABOUT HER?

Depends, some guys just easily fall for girls at the first sight same with girls, but it's sometimes our nature and instinct to tell our mind what and how to react so its a diffrent scenario for everyone!

SUMMARY: YES TO EVERY QUESTION ASKED BY THREAD MAKER!11111111111

That isn't love, you just described the exact definition of lust.

 

[Ramenamaterasu]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

That isn't love, you just described the exact definition of lust.

What?? I didnt say '' how love works or what it is '' I simply displayed and answered the thread makers question's and he clearly asked '' if you can manifest into actual love? '' Not what the word or emotion love itself means. Also as I said, we clearly have diffrent view on love and in this case LUST is of course a part of the thread makers desire in this scenario, of course there can be lust without love but as you said it yourself ''mental attraction'' does also apply to the thread makers question here.

 

[-Yard-]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

What?? I didnt say '' how love works or what it is '' I simply displayed and answered the thread makers question's and he clearly asked '' if you can manifest into actual love? '' Not what the word or emotion love itself means. Also as I said, we clearly have diffrent view on love and in this case LUST is of course a part of the thread makers desire in this scenario, of course there can be lust without love but as you said it yourself ''mental attraction'' does also apply to the thread makers question here.

You asked me what I thought of your post, I told you what I thought. You're complaining why?

 

[Ramenamaterasu]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

You asked me what I thought of your post, I told you what I thought. You're complaining why?

Indeed I did, but it also seemed that you got the context wrong and missunderstood my answer, THATs why Im complaining. However its kinda funny and ironic that you say my comment '' Isnt about love '' when its pretty obvious that we have similiar thoughts around this ideal of love OR mental attraction, were you talk against yourself, ethier way you are totally driven by lust or madly in love in your arguments. AND this is of course your view on love IN your own WAY, but if it isnt, you shoudlnt point something out in your argument then say that my ideal is completely diffrent when its not.

And thats why Im mad bro not tryna pick a fight, just want to assure we understand eachother. Point me out if I missed something thanks

 

[-Yard-]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

Indeed I did, but it also seemed that you got the context wrong and missunderstood my answer, THATs why Im complaining. However its kinda funny and ironic that you say my comment '' Isnt about love '' when its pretty obvious that we have similiar thoughts around this ideal of love OR mental attraction, were you talk against yourself, ethier way you are totally driven by lust or madly in love in your arguments. AND this is of course your view on love IN your own WAY, but if it isnt, you shoudlnt point something out in your argument then say that my ideal is completely diffrent when its not.

And thats why Im mad bro not tryna pick a fight, just want to assure we understand eachother. Point me out if I missed something thanks

Did I say your comment isn't about love? Nope, never said those words. I said your post was the definition of lust, not love. How am I driven by lust? Do you know me? I wasn't aware that you are me and know that I'm driven by lust while typing

Not even going to reply to the rest. Also are you high?

 

[Ramenamaterasu]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

Did I say your comment isn't about love? Nope, never said those words. I said your post was the definition of lust, not love. How am I driven by lust? Do you know me? I wasn't aware that you are me and know that I'm driven by lust while typing

Not even going to reply to the rest. Also are you high?

Wtf haha? Once again.... I wasnt talking about the definition of '' love '' I merley described how it works difrrently according to us and AS I say again you're saying my comment is about LUST, yet we have very releative thoughts on the ideal subject. I take your sarcasm as a proof that you thereby describe yourself as madly in love(as you said earlier about the mental thing). Yet you are jumping back and forth on your argument, you can't change your points on your text then later reply something diffrently, well you can but then you wouldnt know what you're talking about or you could just have missunderstood me. I dont know you but your first text speaks very clearly about your ideal and notice I assumed you were ethier driven or madly caused by these desires NOT claiming. Why cant you reply the rest? Because you know im right.

 

[Ghostofthewind]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

You have mania love. There are several kinds of love: Agape (fatherly love a.k.a. God's love), Pragma (practical love), Storge (affection), Eros (erotic, longing), Philia (friendship), and Mania (manic obsessive).

Yes, you can become obsessive and in love with some internet porn girl. However, a relationship requires two people and your situation is really sad. You need to get out more. If you keep watching that much porn your d*ck will stop working with real girls. You'll never be satisfied with a normal girl because you'll be use to seeing over sexed, computer enhanced girls covered in make-up. Most of those whores are actually really ugly, meth-heads and terrible people, so if you got one you'd be disappointed anyway.

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[-Yard-]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

Wtf haha? Once again.... I wasnt talking about the definition of '' love '' I merley described how it works difrrently according to us and AS I say again you're saying my comment is about LUST, yet we have very releative thoughts on the ideal subject. I take your sarcasm as a proof that you thereby describe yourself as madly in love(as you said earlier about the mental thing). Yet you are jumping back and forth on your argument, you can't change your points on your text then later reply something diffrently, well you can but then you wouldnt know what you're talking about or you could just have missunderstood me. I dont know you but your first text speaks very clearly about your ideal and notice I assumed you were ethier driven or madly caused by these desires NOT claiming. Why cant you reply the rest? Because you know im right.

I've never changed my opinions. I stand by everything I've said. I have not used scarcasm at all. Seriously, how old are you? I didn't reply to the rest because I don't know honestly what to reply to, you have made so many assumptions, it just makes me say "Meh". When I reply to these things, it's walls of text and with you, I just see a huge amount of time because you seem so eager to argue with posts that are so very flawed it's as if you only have an idea of what relationships are and haven't actually been in one, Since you love making assumptions about me that for one, make no sense what so ever because for one thing, what makes you think I'm in love or lust or that it would effect my posting? Also if you really want to know how I see internet relationships and dating in general click the following links.

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['Toxic]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

Love is love. I cant say it's not b/c I love a girl who I cant truly date..

 

[avar uzumaki]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

true u get a bond with the person

 

[ReLax -]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

If you have fallen in love with "many" internet girls than clearly, you don't know the definition of love.

 

[Magic..]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

It is possible though it depends on situations

 

[joekyure]

Re: Falling In "love" with internet girls. (Is it true love, or just infatuation?)

I think it's infatuation. Words are words on a screen. An image is an image on a screen.. I think to fall in love you got to have in-person chemistry. Someone could say they're amazing, you believe their amazing then when you meet them they could be terrible!

I could say that I kinda was infatuated with this one girl online but then you start to realize that people aren't who they say they are online(most of the time) it could turn you off from women entirely lol..

ladies if you live in the ny area hit me up! lmao