should you hold it over someones head?

[dazmycheezypoof]

I wish I could help but I can't even solve my own family problem through I totally agree with Rei, you should seek professional help.

i do agree also =)

 

[dazmycheezypoof]

I see. I am very sorry about what happened to you, but i strongly believe that living in the same house with your mother and seeing her everyday will not help you move on with your life. Maybe you can start searching for jobs in another area where you have friends or relatives, get a job there, find a house and move out.

ur right.. thanks ill try to do my est

 

[Cassiopeia]

try to forgive her, she might be acting tough, but the fact that she lied to you means that she felt bad and didn't want you to know about it, although it wasn't the best way to go...

agree.

resentment inside yourself will only hold you back and not solve a thing. you are the better person, don't let the past drag you down.

Agree. My niece was also taken from her parents when she was very little, she was in foster homes and a group home for several years.(She is back with family now, but not with parents.) She still blames allot of her problems on this fact. I have to keep telling her "Your past does not equal who you are today or tomorrow." I really want her to believe that she has control of her future because allot of people this day in age are always getting stuck in their past. So, please work towards that future you want for yourself.

the fact she is lying about it pisses me off so much, it would actually better if she told me the truth maybe then i could get over it...

Your mom needs help.

she a bi-polar bitch one second shes nice really nice then she is mad as heck so idk

Bi-Polar Dissorder is real.
And, I agree w/ Rei that professional help would be best, possibly for both of you. Hopefully your mom can receive some help for her disorder. Maybe you can do some research and find out where she can get some help. Then, when she is having one of her moments of clarity and calm you can approach her about it. Tell her you care about her & want her to receive some help.
Only you know the reality of your circumstances, so obviously you're gonna have to decide which direction is the best for you. To try to stay and help, or leave. And, as far as reconnecting with your dad, if there is a way, you should pursue it at some point. That way you don't have to wonder for the rest of your life what could've been.

 

[dazmycheezypoof]

agree.


Agree. My niece was also taken from her parents when she was very little, she was in foster homes and a group home for several years.(She is back with family now, but not with parents.) She still blames allot of her problems on this fact. I have to keep telling her "Your past does not equal who you are today or tomorrow." I really want her to believe that she has control of her future because allot of people this day in age are always getting stuck in their past. So, please work towards that future you want for yourself.



Your mom needs help.



Bi-Polar Dissorder is real.
And, I agree w/ Rei that professional help would be best, possibly for both of you. Hopefully your mom can receive some help for her disorder. Maybe you can do some research and find out where she can get some help. Then, when she is having one of her moments of clarity and calm you can approach her about it. Tell her you care about her & want her to receive some help.
Only you know the reality of your circumstances, so obviously you're gonna have to decide which direction is the best for you. To try to stay and help, or leave. And, as far as reconnecting with your dad, if there is a way, you should pursue it at some point. That way you don't have to wonder for the rest of your life what could've been.

thanks!! >

 

[Cassiopeia]

 

[dazmycheezypoof]