were you parents in love or seemed in an arrangement

[HashiraMadara]

It's also just a very warped outdated medieval concept that encourages bad behaviour from both genders due to social conditioning :')

It's not going away anytime soon

But thaaaaat's just me i'm aware. You're not wrong and i'm sure i'll succumb to it one day, but i'm not even going to date for another decade after my last attempt. Almost finished me.

I can't imagine not dating for a decade :|. I have grown addicted of someone calling them my "gf". etc. It's all relative.

I just really don't want to deal with male-biased divorce settlement laws and growing to hate the other person I should cherish most.

Well there's something called antenuptial marriage contract in South Africa, not sure about other countries. Meaning whatever you own is yours 100% and whatever she owns is hers 100% no sharing involved unless you decided to yourselves.

The part you want to save time on....is the best part IMO.

Imagine when the marriage fails and you're left with nothing because of the huge investment of time you've put into this one person through the years. I believe term is 'putting all your eggs in one basket' and can't even imagine what it's like post-marriage.

Like they say, the greater the risk the higher the reward. Imagine hitting a jackpot and remaining with no "love life stress" until your death :sdo:

 

[DominiqueX]

If NB was indefinite, I would quote you 10 years later and ask again "how is it going out for you"...

very cute

Keep your arrogance and feel of superiority for yourself.

 

[-PK-]

Yeah, well sometimes people feel a ring will let the partner be reminded of her loyalties when thinking something. sort of like a leash on a dog.


True

That's kind of weird.
Like if you are hell bent on cheating I don't think a glance at the ring will stop you. xD

 

[Mari Makinami]

Keep your arrogance and feel of superiority for yourself.

You seem to be pretty bothered by his opinion

 

[Wabbit]

They were arranged and are in arrangement. It was/is definitely not the nice arrangement.
My parents insisted not to marry a rich girl but my bro went muh true love now he is suffering. It is definitely not a nice love story.

 

[HashiraMadara]

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Surprisingly I got an infraction for this post :sdo: and lost the +reps I got from it... I wonder

They were arranged and are in arrangement. It was/is definitely not the nice arrangement.
My parents insisted not to marry a rich girl but my bro went muh true love now he is suffering. It is definitely not a nice love story.

Well there is nothing perfect. I never said one was better than the other... What is your take on both I am interested

That's kind of weird.
Like if you are hell bent on cheating I don't think a glance at the ring will stop you. xD

When you're about to cheat a diet, a glance at the your "favourite body looking guy" might change your feeling. Females wear rings with pride like a badge I am telling you

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

Arranged maybe not the best married couple but they did care for each other though not shown a lot outwardly and have malfunctioned in the past that gave me and my sister bit of a rough childhood .

now days they're much better than they were taking care of each other in times in they get sick and problems arise though I've to make rational decisions for them .

 

[Wabbit]

Well there is nothing perfect. I never said one was better than the other... What is your take on both I am interested

I think it is irrelevant whether it was arranged or not what mattered was how much the factors weighed in before entering contract.
True love found in highshchool often does not last by the time they get the job. Circumstances change so do their convenience and compatibility. Arrange marriages tend do last but it mostly because society pressure that they care about their reputation and make amends. tbh I am glad my parents are not divorced, quarrels are worst but that would have been more worse.

 

[Hachiman]

My parents were both arranged and they never acted as if they were in love or something. They have great respect for each other. They were always busy with their work trying to give us the best they could.

For me the definition of true love is to be with someone till the end and give support which they have been doing till now. Its not only a feeling but its a responsibility too

Nowadays love,marriages happen in instant and are less consistent :lol

 

[HashiraMadara]

Nowadays love,marriages happen in instant and are less consistent :lol

Well "true love", "love at first sight" guys are a victim of instant marriages that never last at all. :sdo:

 

[Hachiman]

Well "true love", "love at first sight" guys are a victim of instant marriages that never last at all. :sdo:

Are you one of them? :sdo:

 

[HashiraMadara]

Are you one of them? :sdo:

Is this one of your trolls :sdo:

 

[Hachiman]

Is this one of your trolls :sdo:

Nope it is a question. Don't you understand the meaning of it? Okay. :sdo:

What I meant was are you the one of them who believes in true love and love at first sight?

 

[Xlad]

In love.

 

[JENchuuriki]

I can see that they are in-love, still loves each other after 31 years of marriage and had 7 years of steady relationship before. I am happy to see them, doing little things like – waking up in the morning and having breakfast together and talk about random things; because dad is already retired from work – he wakes up early in the morning (sometimes to prepare breakfast, have coffee with her, or just see her go to work) and also waits for her to arrive at home; because my mom is still working and comes home very tired– my dad also cooks dinner for us; and in return, my mom and I during weekends take him at the mall to relax and enjoy, and other stuffs which he likes to do. Etc.
Fact: They do not sleep together in one room. Because of personal ‘petty’ issue.

You think this is an arrangement? Arrangement for the sake of companionship? I do not think so, it took them years to be with each other, if love does not exist between them, they won’t even care for each other which we, their children can easily noticed and felt.

Also, when *** is no longer present, but still they are together because they love each other’s friendship and companionship. They want to grow old together and see their children have family on their own. Be there with them through milestone. Somehow I kinda get jealous, will I have a love life like them in the future? lol

 

[Hachiman]

will I have a love life like them in the future? lol

You will get the best love life in your life if you :lol

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Well *** is not a big thing in those days. No mobile no Pokemon Go and there used to be man to man interactions. People are so innocent, matured and hard working. Those days are better than now. I wish I was born at that time. :lol

Not sleeping together doesn't mean no love. Its just that they need some privacy.

 

[JENchuuriki]

You will get the best love life in your life if you :lol

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Well *** is not a big thing in those days. No mobile no Pokemon Go and there used to be man to man interactions. People are so innocent, matured and hard working. Those days are better than now. I wish I was born at that time. :lol

Not sleeping together doesn't mean no love. Its just that they need some privacy.

Yea, I agree. But times has changed and continouosly changing. I just hope, those values are still intact as of today.

 

[Hachiman]

Yea, I agree. But times has changed and continouosly changing. I just hope, those values are still intact as of today.

Morals are still in intact but are being manipulated by us

They are but only few of them follow and few use them for profits. As time goes on these morals
fade to that point that humans kill and consume each other. Then comes the destruction and end of the world. Don't worry we will be dead before that. Its best we impart these morals to our children from the beginning so that they won't see this day. :lol

 

[JENchuuriki]

Morals are still in intact but are being manipulated by us

They are but only few of them follow and few use them for profits. As time goes on these morals
fade to that point that humans kill and consume each other. Then comes the destruction and end of the world. Don't worry we will be dead before that. Its best we impart these morals to our children from the beginning so that they won't see this day. :lol

hmm, yeah.. are you really Hachiman? LOL

 

[Hachiman]

hmm, yeah.. are you really Hachiman? LOL

Yes I'm still your darling Hachiman. I'm just doing rehearsal for my presentation. :lol