[Discussion] Is It Right For Women To Withold *** In A Relationship?

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He never said that he was specifically in the relationship. He even said that he would break up with them if it happend to him and" I would hate to be in that situation " meaning he's not in it right now. So pipe down little girl.

Can't say for certain but I'm pretty sure he's older than you. And anyway he just thought that OP was referring to something that really happened to him, and is far from being the only one. Just an equivocation, nothing worth getting angry about.



Take a hike grandpa you are too irrelevant at the moment.

I'm pretty amazed at a global moderator answering with such arrogance, I'm not anyone in this site but I think I can say nobody is"irrelevant" here.

(moralist mode ON XD)
 
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Either cheat or break up with her and for future reference, make sure you know her for atleast a year and know everything about her before even considering marriage.
 

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Can't say for certain but I'm pretty sure he's older than you. And anyway he just thought that OP was referring to something that really happened to him, and is far from being the only one. Just an equivocation, nothing worth getting angry about.



I'm pretty amazed at a global moderator answering with such arrogance, I'm not anyone in this site but I think I can say nobody is"irrelevant" here.

(moralist mode ON XD)

When Ira posting you can read the arrogance sign/clue/tone on her post(If she started to be) XD

But it bcus she handles many arrogant members to this day. Cant be soft I guess. XD
 

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When Ira posting you can read the arrogance sign/clue/tone on her post(If she started to be) XD

But it bcus she handles many arrogant members to this day. Cant be soft I guess. XD

As I told you last time, Ira means "wrath" in Italian. I would expect more a "slay them all" sign/clue/tone from one with such a name XD
 

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As I told you last time, Ira means "wrath" in Italian. I would expect more a "slay them all" sign/clue/tone from one with such a name XD

Yeah I remember that now. Its true. XD
 

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I'm pretty amazed at a global moderator answering with such arrogance, I'm not anyone in this site but I think I can say nobody is"irrelevant" here.

I said " irrelevant at the moment". He called me little girl and his post had lost whatever point he was making after my second post- which you seem to miss.

Still you understood my first post better and thanks for explaining that for me.

When Ira posting you can read the arrogance sign/clue/tone on her post(If she started to be) XD

But it bcus she handles many arrogant members to this day. Cant be soft I guess. XD

I tend to reply in the tone I get. Still I see and ignore a lot more insults than I react to. If I seemingly snapped at anyone without them being rude first or too quickly, it's usually someone who already had irked me to the point.

I think a lot of people misunderstand mods to be service center employees and expect us to behave like someone being paid to put up with their abuse. But we are just other members and not obligated to put up with any of it any more than you or other members. So people who throw insults thinking we would tolerate it, get a shock.
 
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I said " irrelevant at the moment". He called me little girl and his post had lost whatever point he was making after my second post- which you seem to miss.

Wasn't your second post the one about Hindi/Urdu? Well I can't deny I missed that part in its entirety :D

Still you understood my first post better and thanks for explaining that for me.

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I tend to reply in the tone I get. Still I see and ignore a lot more insults than I react to. If I seemingly snapped at anyone without them being rude first or too quickly, it's usually someone who already had irked me to the point.

I think a lot of people misunderstand mods to be service center employees and expect us to behave like someone being paid to put up with their abuse. But we are just other members and not obligated to put up with any of it any more than you or other members. So people who throw insults thinking we would tolerate get a shock.

Yeah but it could happen that since lots of people misunderstand mods, mods start misunderstanding all the people of NB, thinking that they all misunderstand mods. Or that users misunderstand mods to be misunderstanding of users, whom they think they are misunderstanding of the mods :dafq:
 

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Yeah but it could happen that since lots of people misunderstand mods, mods start misunderstanding all the people of NB, thinking that they all misunderstand mods. Or that users misunderstand mods to be misunderstanding of users, whom they think they are misunderstanding of the mods :dafq:

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It comes down to ***/gender expectations.

Women expect men to be financially secure, hereby financing her needs and wants; men expect women to be sexually prepared, hereby giving pleasure to man. Each of the two fulfils a role to keep the family flowing from generation to another. *** is a vital part of a relationship; if a woman decides to take it away from a man's desire, then a man can withhold his finance, but with modern gender judicial laws, man will be forced to share his finance with an ungrateful woman.

To sum it up: it's not right for a woman to withhold an expectation.
 

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Wasn't your second post the one about Hindi/Urdu? Well I can't deny I missed that part in its entirety :D



Duty :score:




Yeah but it could happen that since lots of people misunderstand mods, mods start misunderstanding all the people of NB, thinking that they all misunderstand mods. Or that users misunderstand mods to be misunderstanding of users, whom they think they are misunderstanding of the mods :dafq:

Nope. I commented on Op's other posts. That Hindi idiom refers to a serious fight over an imaginary trouble. I just can't remember any English equivalent of it, if there is one.

Well you have a point that misunderstandings may happen on both sides- but it's hard to misunderstand when people call you toot or little girl or someone hurls more abuses when you tell them they are being abusive. :p
 
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Either cheat or break up with her and for future reference, make sure you know her for atleast a year and know everything about her before even considering marriage.

Of course, I'm gonna wait if I meet someone. I'm not going to marry a woman within the first couple of months or so. That'll be stupid

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You are asking this question on a forum where most visitors are teenagers.. and you cannot figure out for yourself or ask the girl directly to find out the problem and reasons ... And asking the internet whether you should break up ... :|

....You seem to be heading for break up regardless of what other people say, since I do not see proper communication between the two of you and an unwillingness to confront it directly. I hope it would be face to face and not though SMS or linking this thread to her.
This in all honesty
 

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Either cheat or break up with her and for future reference, make sure you know her for atleast a year and know everything about her before even considering marriage.

Are you seriously telling someone to cheat on their partner?
 

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Been selfish on bed just only caring about your pleasure and don't giving a damn about hers might make this happen or do you have some health issues ?

no offense but you must look at yourself before pointing fingers at others then try asking her why ?
 

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So I'm selfish despite the fact that I (After I find the girl I'm suppose to marry) treat this girl like a QUEEN! I do my best, I pay the bills, cook, clean, CATER TO HER EVERY NEED!, and I give her space for month after month after month or for years, I want to have ***, but she refuses and I get depressed and angry? Are you serious?
This is the cold hard truth. I'm not telling you to give up or suggesting it.

Some ladies you just can't access there "forbidden fruit" no matter how hard you try.

Just keep fighting the good fight as long as you are able to.
 

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If you let yourself go and it takes you 6 months to get that butt right, than I'll be waiting as long as you will, I'll stay faithful, but you I got a job and you know where the door is. I know what I like... You can't treat your body right than I cant believe you'll treat mine right.
 

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This is the cold hard truth. I'm not telling you to give up or suggesting it.

Some ladies you just can't access there "forbidden fruit" no matter how hard you try.

Just keep fighting the good fight as long as you are able to.
Your happiness shouldn't depend on someone else, but you should be with someone who values you, to the guy you answered back to, I think she's using you
 

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Are you seriously telling someone to cheat on their partner?
It depends, I might talk about it and find out what's wrong but if it's clear she's just doing it as a way to have power over you then why should I care about her? A relationship needs two people and she's obviously not cooperating in that case.
 

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It depends, I might talk about it and find out what's wrong but if it's clear she's just doing it as a way to have power over you then why should I care about her? A relationship needs two people and she's obviously not cooperating in that case.

In which case, you can just leave her rather than cheat?
 
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