It's not a personal problem when it falls into unjustified discrimination.
You being uncomfortable matters only to you and the world will keep spinning. Unless the act or situation affects on a grander scale than just you, then deal with it.
Just making sure you know it's not about stalls and being able to use one only is it?
Transgender refused to use unisex stalls in school.One of their lead spokesperson say he would pee on floor before using a unisex one- it has to a be a female washroom only and also Female locker room/ dressing area.The reason they said that was not just using washroom- they equalizes it being able to mix with women and hide their ID.
And if doesn't end their- if you refuse to sleep with a trans you are cissexist. And you have more slurs coming your way and really vicious attacks, cyber bullying to threats. L esbian women get viciously attacked for refusing to date/sleep with such transwomen and are told they just have a genitalia fetish since you date a person not genitals. Same for the cismen- you are cissexist if you find out during the course of relationship that the other person is trans woman and you refuse further relationship, you are cissexist too. Though probably they are getting less slurs and attacks so far for them to remain oblivious.
It's more interesting seeing so many of these trans supporters are also supporting anti abortion laws - criminalizing the act and sending ciswomen to jail for it, regardless of their circumstances at the same time. Reduce the interest of ciswomen to secondary importance and only as useful as their womb- for everything else you have men.
If it was just limited to stall using and wasn't attacking actual women it would have been nicer. It would also be nicer if women who cannot bear children due to some medical problem are not equated with transwomen and trans supporters do not declare them same as trans. It's really a lowly attack; something such women suffered for centuries in patriarchal society where their status as a woman was demeaned if they failed to bare a child. Now doing exactly the same thing to them if not worse ( though it's kind of worse due to whole legitimization of such arguments among other arguments) in name of trans acceptance is cruel and unfair.
It's less to do with needing a washroom for relieving oneself and more like politics to bring transwomen in center while marginalizing females in feminist movements even.
So what's more uncomfortable? A guy who looks like a woman using the men's bathroom or the women's bathroom?
A bathroom isn't a social club. You just go in and out.
People are acting like you're going to meet and greet transgenders in a bathroom.
News flash! They're already using the same bathroom as you. The only difference is that they should be able to use the bathroom they feel comfortable with.
Allowing them to use a certain bathroom isn't going to increase bathroom assaults or start the apocalypse.
Would you be willing to pay more taxes to build those restrooms?
Typical male who know little about how women use washrooms and who has not paid attention to the fact the locker room and dress changing areas are included. :| Wmen's shelters too. Trans themselves made the demand saying they want to be included in the group and able to mix with real women regardless of their anatomy and biology.
I don't mind anyone using a washroom stall if they are simply in and out. The problem is when they are calling themselves a real woman and competing with us in every field and asking share in already small public sphere women have. All of it while threatening them and using slurs for them. When they make those attacks it's not women in them, it's their habit to enjoy male privileges that comes out.
Can't say I give a shit just as long as it doesn't dig too deep into my pockets and I can still get my yearly return. I mean... I'm already paying a 12% sales tax on literally everything where I live now thanks to the greed and incompetence of worthless politicians, so you can say I'm used to the bullshit the world has to offer.
If you are sending a girl with penis to share women's showers where 18 ciswomen are going to shower then those 18 may demand a new shower room anyway. Unless now we are to care only for needs and feelings of transwomen only.