I am not for abortion in general, but I say the father should have a say. However it tends to be the man who wants the abortion the most isn't it? abortions tend to be the case when it was either a mistake or a rape in the case of rape the man shouldn't have a say, in the case of a relationship in which the man is infact dating or married (most likely dating a married couple that breaks the condom or something would probabaly just go alwell we're married anyway) the man should have a say if he disagrees with the abortion