When I go to the user CP, the only thing related to what you said is a folder called "sent items" which is only contains my very first pm.No, they disappear to KamuiLand
yeah just go to sent messages in cp to see them. And they do send.
I did that. ThanksGo to user CP > general settings and under private messaging you will see the option to save a copy of the sent messages in the sent items folder. Even if you have set it so that no copies get saved, people will still receive the PMs sent by you.