I've done something stupid, help.

[Blunt]

Also depends on how many other people saw you kissing her. Cause if other people did who know your girl, you should definitely tell her before someone else does.

I'll have to agree with this, as it is true.

 

[Punk Hazard]

My advice on the situation is to sit her down and explain what happened. Admit that you ****ed up, and avoid trying to justify yourself or make yourself look less guilty. Tell her you want to talk about it, which I'm assuming you'll want to do if you really care about her. Be prepared for if she gets angry. If she does, give her some space for a day or two, then try talking to her again. Also, avoid all contact with the chick you made out with.

 

[-Punk-]

Either way you are done . So tell her before she finds out from another source that will only make you look even worst .

 

[Shunsin no Shisui]

That's why you never drink bro. :| I've been to alot of nightclubs but never drank once in there 'cause I know some shit would happen that would cause problems and regret. U_U Not only does it affect you mentally and biologically, but also socially like in your case. :eww: Well, I do hope you've learn't your lesson. :yeah:

 

[From the Dark Spire]

There it is. This thread's gonna turn into a bunch of people putting you in your place now.

Heahahahahahahah, No one can put me in my place as I am in a league of my own...

Anyway, OP, it's not like you're going to see the girl you kissed ever again, it was a mistake. I mean yea you could tell her, but in my opinion, I wouldn't, just to avoid any prolonged drama.

 

[Punk Hazard]

If not telling her makes you feel like crap, then you can either tell her and risk being dump like the trash you are, OR, you can not tell her, but learn from this and NEVER do it again. You are both young teens, who have been together for a month, dont take it so seriously this early.

Hey, now, you're taking it too far. He's not trash, everyone makes mistakes. He's man enough to admit he's wrong and it's not like he continued or was willingly cheating or in his right mind.

 

[Madarauchiwa]

do not tell her anything. thats the biggest mistake guys make. once you tell her she'll lose her trust in you and constantly think that your up to something or that you have to make up for what you did by being her ***** for the rest of the relationship and its just not worth it. my friend also cheated once and i told him not to tell his gf and gave him this very same advice and he told her anyway and now hes in a miserable relationship but hes to much of a wimp to dump her and she still brings it up and its been almost an entire year

 

[Douryoku]

Just wondering: Where's your gf?

On NB. Yours is too, correct?

Also, the difference between my counter argument relative to his is that, he asserted I never had one, but the difference is he actually almost had one; I never asserted I actually had one, hence he's the one who looks a fool here, not I. Wow, is your IQ that of a 4 year old?​

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[Amantius]

_@:Won't understand why people keep blaming alcohol for their stupidity, when it was they're choice to in intoxicate them self in the first place.

 

[LitAquarius]

Either way you are done . So tell her before she finds out from another source that will only make you look even worst .

I agree with you Punk.

OT/OP: You shouldn't have done that. Either way she'll find out... May you be punished for your Sins...You didn't have to drink ya'know.. Your love for that girl clearly wasn't enough as it was outweighed by your own choice to drink... How'd you become so bloody careless? Smh... :|

 

[-Punk-]

I agree with you Punk.

OT/OP: You shouldn't have done that. Either way she'll find out... May you be punished for your Sins...You didn't have to drink ya'know.. Your love for that girl clearly wasn't enough as it was outweighed by your own choice to drink... How'd you become so bloody careless? Smh... :|

_@:Won't understand why people keep blaming alcohol for their stupidity, when it was there choice to in intoxicate them self in the first place.

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[Οdin]

You should tell her.

 

[Sasukenumberonelover]

On NB. Yours is too, correct?

Also, the difference between my counter argument relative to his is that, he asserted I never had one, but the difference is he actually almost had one; I never asserted I actually had one, hence he's the one who looks a fool here, not I. Wow, is your IQ that of a 4 year old?​

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Ugh, ew. :|

OT: Tell her .. keeping secrets are easy, but when she finds out the truth from someone else you're gonna be screwed.

 

[Steaktacular]

Just tell her..IF you really like her, that is. Knowing from another source is worse and even if she doesn´t, you´ll be feeling guilty, there´s no way of running from it.
Just don´t expect her to forgive you for your fk up : )

 

[Donald J Trump]

Mate you also you have to remember,IF SHE TRULY loves you she will forgive you. If she dumps you than you where not meant for each other.


Tell me how it goes, if you need some more advice or just someone to talk to pm me ;D


or even if you need cheering up

 

[YowYan]

Always the first time that kicks in the hardest
I rarely use stuff but now I'm a pro at handling it xD
I remember talking normally with my mom when I was high on shrooms whilest another dude was so lost he forgot his own name.

 

[Cosman]

Heahahahahahahah, No one can put me in my place as I am in a league of my own...

After what you said, I gotta wonder if there's a retardation league I'm not aware of.

 

[Punk Hazard]

Either way you are done . So tell her before she finds out from another source that will only make you look even worst .

Hmm, not necessarily. I speak from experience, this kind of thing will cause tension and strain, but it doesn't have to cost you your relationship if you handle it maturely.

 

[XxLapizxLazulixX]

Hey, now, you're taking it too far. He's not trash, everyone makes mistakes. He's man enough to admit he's wrong and it's not like he continued or was willingly cheating or in his right mind.

Never heard of someone getting tipsy, and then making out with someone for "MISTAKING" for your partner. It dosent take much of a man to admit your mistakes, so that "he's man enough." must mean men aren't much if it took a man to admit it. No excuses.

 

[Douryoku]

Ugh, ew. :|

OT: Tell her .. keeping secrets are easy, but when she finds out the truth from someone else you're gonna be screwed.

Did I confuse you? My apologies.​

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