I've done something stupid, help.

[Punk Hazard]

Never heard of someone getting tipsy, and then making out with someone for "MISTAKING" for your partner. It dosent take much of a man to admit your mistakes, so that "he's man enough." must mean men aren't much if it took a man to admit it. No excuses.

I don't know what rock you're living under, but alcohol can do this kind of thing. Don't try to downplay this to make the OP look bad, the dude was clearly drunk off of his ass. Also, it does take a man to admit his mistakes. Look around, this thread alone has so many people saying just not to tell her.

And making a mistake like this doesn't make you trash, unless you're really trying to tell me there's actually people out there who have been flawless in their relationships that have actually lasted longer than say a month.

 

[Cosman]

Never heard of someone getting tipsy, and then making out with someone for "MISTAKING" for your partner. It dosent take much of a man to admit your mistakes, so that "he's man enough." must mean men aren't much if it took a man to admit it. No excuses.

Alcohol screws with your inhibitions and leads to gross errors in judgement. People have done far worse with very little alcohol in their system. Impaired judgement is incredibly common with substance abuse, from casual to addictive.

It's likely the OP was far more than tipsy. His own recollections of the night are probably rather suspect given his inability to point out his girlfriend.

 

[LitAquarius]

Bingo.

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[XxLapizxLazulixX]

I don't know what rock you're living under, but alcohol can do this kind of thing. Don't try to downplay this to make the OP look bad, the dude was clearly drunk off of his ass. Also, it does take a man to admit his mistakes. Look around, this thread alone has so many people saying just not to tell her.

And making a mistake like this doesn't make you trash, unless you're really trying to tell me there's actually people out there who have been flawless in their relationships that have actually lasted longer than say a month.

I've had my fair share of drunkness, I dont understand how you get people mixed up.

 

[Sabuto Hayashi]

The best thing to do is tell her. Communication is important in any relationship, so keeping secrets from her will raise all sort of trust issues in the future. It's just a time bomb waiting to explode when you least expect it.

Be prepared for how angry she might be when you tell her, but try not to escalate into an argument. After all, you're in the wrong and you need to accept whatever her decision might be, whether that is leaving you or busting your balls until she's over it. If you're willing to keep this relationship going, focus your efforts on amending this mistake and giving her the attention she needs.
It might also be a good idea to avoid drinking too much, if any at all, or at least have her with you to stop you doing anything stupid when tipsy.

Considering that you've only been together for about a month, don't be disheartened if she dumps you over this. A month is barely any time at all, so you can simply learn from the experience and use that knowledge for your next partner. Nonetheless, I hope things go well for you.

 

[Sasukenumberonelover]

Did I confuse you? My apologies.​

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No need for such an empty apology. :|

 

[Punk Hazard]

I've had my fair share of drunkness, I dont understand how you get people mixed up.

Your lack of empathy disgusts me. Not everyone is you, it might sound crazy, but people can actually have experiences and be effected different from you.

 

[rollin]

was your girlfriend even there at the party?

 

[-Tremendous-]

No need for such an empty apology. :|

Better is to leave that son of a b*tch alone he isn't worth arguing

OT:You should tell her the truth U_U exactly what happened and she will surely forgive you it's better than not telling her.

 

[XxLapizxLazulixX]

Your lack of empathy disgusts me. Not everyone is you, it might sound crazy, but people can actually have experiences and be effected different from you.

Simple solution, dont read my posts. I was originally replying to the OP not you. I lack empathy cuz this is something all teens go thru, a small part of life. full of mistakes, im just saying I dont get how you get someone mixed up with ur bf/gf.

I mean, If she was there at the party, and that happened, that may be more understandable. But if she wasnt even there, and he knew she wasnt going, how did it lead to making out by confusing her with gf?

 

[Senju Bean]

Do what you want. Just know the consequences.

 

[-Punk-]

Your lack of empathy disgusts me. Not everyone is you, it might sound crazy, but people can actually have experiences and be effected different from you.

nah man , I get what she is saying & I agree with her for the most part , but yeah not everyone reacts the same when it comes to alcohol , I also can't understand how can you mix people off but like i said , everyone it's different .

The point is : He should tell her what he did & go from there , it all depends on how both handle it in the end . Although talking from experience myself the trust will be lost & GG .

 

[Punk Hazard]

nah man , I get what she is saying & I agree with her for the most part , but yeah not everyone reacts the same when it comes to alcohol , I also can't understand how can you mix people off but like i said , everyone it's different .

The point is : He should tell her what he did & go from there , it all depends on how both handle it in the end . Although talking from experience myself the trust will be lost & GG .

Don't get me wrong, it is his fault that the whole situation happened, because he chose to drink so much. But the thing is, he knows he is wrong, has admitted he is wrong and is willing to accept his consequences(from what I can gather at least). It's not really fair to call him trash.

 

[Europa]

P.s. My first and hopefully last hangover until I'm 21 where it's actually legal. How THE FREAK can you guys that drink deal with these?

The burn man, it's a nice feeling. Gotta drink for dat burn.

OT: Ha... If you truly like her, and she you.. You'll probably stay together

 

[Jack Spicer]

Whoever is calling him trash is a d;ck. This isn't some rare mistake. Alcohol took over and alcohol mistakes happen. Atleast this dude realizes his mistake and wants to tell her what happened even though he doesn't have to. He's a normal human being and deserves a plus point for wanting the truth out because he doesn't want the guilt.

Good luck and I hope everything works out in a good way. Hopefully she'll understand. Making out isn't the worst thing you could've done at all.

 

[Amaterasuice]

Alcohol screws with your inhibitions and leads to gross errors in judgement. People have done far worse with very little alcohol in their system. Impaired judgement is incredibly common with substance abuse, from casual to addictive.

It's likely the OP was far more than tipsy. His own recollections of the night are probably rather suspect given his inability to point out his girlfriend.[/QUOTE]

The only thing I really remember is suddenly realizing the girl I was making out with was not my Gf. I can't really collect any more information.

I've had my fair share of drunkness, I dont understand how you get people mixed up.

I'm not sure either. Would me being 15 have anything to do with it? I'm not really sure.

Your lack of empathy disgusts me. Not everyone is you, it might sound crazy, but people can actually have experiences and be effected different from you.

Thanks man, but tbh, I knew I was going to be hated on by someone in this thread. Tbh, I actually agree with her. I messed up.

was your girlfriend even there at the party?

Yes, actually. We came together.

Simple solution, dont read my posts. I was originally replying to the OP not you. I lack empathy cuz this is something all teens go thru, a small part of life. full of mistakes, im just saying I dont get how you get someone mixed up with ur bf/gf.

I mean, If she was there at the party, and that happened, that may be more understandable. But if she wasnt even there, and he knew she wasnt going, how did it lead to making out by confusing her with gf?

She was there. It was a rather big place. I don't know how I lost her though, and not 100% sure how I ended up on top of another girl. Either way, no excuses.

Don't get me wrong, it is his fault that the whole situation happened, because he chose to drink so much. But the thing is, he knows he is wrong, has admitted he is wrong and is willing to accept his consequences(from what I can gather at least). It's not really fair to call him trash.

I do admit I'm wrong. This thread wasn't really meant to help me, it was to make it less bad for her. I would much rather me be hurt then her. But it seems it's hurt us both....I've already told her btw.

The burn man, it's a nice feeling. Gotta drink for dat burn.

OT: Ha... If you truly like her, and she you.. You'll probably stay together

Thanks man..

 

[XxLapizxLazulixX]

Don't get me wrong, it is his fault that the whole situation happened, because he chose to drink so much. But the thing is, he knows he is wrong, has admitted he is wrong and is willing to accept his consequences(from what I can gather at least). It's not really fair to call him trash.

He'll be fine. Nothing worth taking seriously.

 

[amarusboobs]

If you where truly drunk as shit, and you didn't penetrate, I don't see any reason for her to dump you, unless she is getting bored of the relationship.

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Get that tolerance up so you can know when you need to stop.

Drinking takes practice like everything else in life.​

 

[Zexion~]

No you don't ....

Chances are you won't be with this girl long enough to bite you in the ass anyways

And if you're one of those people with something called a "conscience" Then god help ya